http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
i want it to look very real and very good. i feel like something is still of but ive been working at it so long im worried i cant see the imperfections clearly so can you judge?
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
Did you ask a question on Yahoo about what you should say to a boy or girl you liked, or something involving your sexuality, or family troubles, and actually took some random person's advice? Well I think it'd be cool if you'd tell your story, like what you asked and what advice you took, and if it worked or not!Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(perfect makeup
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
major: English
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
so later on today my boyfriend is suppose to be coming over to meet my parents, and i'm scared on how my father will react because my boyfriend is black. i've tried talking with my dad today , but he really didn't listen and acted as if he was upset. i know my mom will be ok with it, but not my father cause he wants our family to stay one race. and i can't sleep because i'm scared about how my father will react tomorrow, and i having mixed thoughts because i love my boyfriend, and i don't want to lose him because of my father :(Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
1) why do guys always ask girl what all they've done with a guy, if they say only made out or something is that turn off.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
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