http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
i want it to look very real and very good. i feel like something is still of but ive been working at it so long im worried i cant see the imperfections clearly so can you judge?
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
Did you ask a question on Yahoo about what you should say to a boy or girl you liked, or something involving your sexuality, or family troubles, and actually took some random person's advice? Well I think it'd be cool if you'd tell your story, like what you asked and what advice you took, and if it worked or not!Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(perfect makeup
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
major: English
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
so later on today my boyfriend is suppose to be coming over to meet my parents, and i'm scared on how my father will react because my boyfriend is black. i've tried talking with my dad today , but he really didn't listen and acted as if he was upset. i know my mom will be ok with it, but not my father cause he wants our family to stay one race. and i can't sleep because i'm scared about how my father will react tomorrow, and i having mixed thoughts because i love my boyfriend, and i don't want to lose him because of my father :(Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
1) why do guys always ask girl what all they've done with a guy, if they say only made out or something is that turn off.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
I need advice about bullies.?
people at my school and my sister always tell me that i eat too much and that i'm fat and that i need to lose some weight. i don't think i'm really that big i'm like a size 8 and sometimes a size 10. it really hurts and i cry alot and i want to make myself throw up but ive heard that is not good. someone please tell me what to do !I need advice about bullies.?
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
I need advice about a girl....?
yah well i met this girl and we wernt freinds at first and then we got separated into a different crowd a period where we dont talk freindly for about a year and for 9 months she didnt talk at all and the next 3 she was mean and now for about 3 weeks she is super nice to me one day she comes up to me and jumps forward into my arms.....and holds on tight and does this almost regulary then goes on a trip never talks to me again comes back after 4 months of silence and apologizes when i try to talk to her she completely ignores me and i can only talk to her on im we used to be like best freinds man help! and she is apoligizing about being a ***** in her words and she is doing it again she broke a promise about smoking and drinking and would never do it help! please!I need advice about a girl....?
dude, strap on a set of balls and move on, what the heck are you messing with her, lots of women out thereI need advice about a girl....?
get a life...
one word - immature.
Leave her alone- don't mess with her.
It's her choice, don't get into the mess my dude, don't.
It will only cause more trouble
she is emotionally disturbed!
talk to your mom for advice silly!
tHIS GIRL IS RIDING AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COSTER! Ride it with her. Yeah, buy a ticket and be right at her side when she needs u. u R A GREAT FRIEND AND THIS WHOLE THING LOOKS ADORABLE!
dude, strap on a set of balls and move on, what the heck are you messing with her, lots of women out thereI need advice about a girl....?
get a life...
one word - immature.
Leave her alone- don't mess with her.
It's her choice, don't get into the mess my dude, don't.
It will only cause more trouble
she is emotionally disturbed!
talk to your mom for advice silly!
tHIS GIRL IS RIDING AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COSTER! Ride it with her. Yeah, buy a ticket and be right at her side when she needs u. u R A GREAT FRIEND AND THIS WHOLE THING LOOKS ADORABLE!
Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
grrr.. acne!! i hate it!!! i just wanna know, does putting toothpaste like colgate help? it sounds kinda weird.. donn't you think? i know for a fact that proactiv doesn't work!!!!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.perfect makeup
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
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toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.
I need advice about dating?
Well, I'm 14, and I'm not really allowed to have a boyfriend, which sucks. I date anyway, but I haven't been able to go anywhere w/ him because of my freakin mom... What should I do? I mean, I don't like DO anything w/ him, but I'd like to go somewhere, like the movies.... any advice?I need advice about dating?
this is something you'll have to work out with your mom. Ask her if maybe it would be alright if you went with a group and not just the 2 of you or to more open public place where you'll have little chances to be too alone. Your mom is doing this to protect you not make you mad or make you hate her. Show her that you are mature enough to handle a boyfriend. Give her something to trust. What ever you do don't do it behind her back she will find out and then it will be bad for you. Good Luck.I need advice about dating?
mention to your mom, if she remembers being 14? and see what she says. let her know that she can trust you. if she does let you eventually, be hom at the time she says and so on. eventually she will learn that she can trust you and she will let you do more. for the time being, let her know that you are just going out to the movies with friends. but remember what i said. goodluck
The boys your own age are far too immature .... the older ones are interseted in what your mother fears the most ... making you a hit -n- run on the sex intersatate .... Just be with your friends ... do the group gathering thing to see movies ... learn to flirt ...talk the talk and just play ... there is plenty ot time to find the ';keeper'; later ... right now there under the limit or poaching !!!
Listen to your mother !!
find a reason to have a party at your house have him over introduce him to your parents but have him prepared and your parent's wont know what hit them
your 14 your grown now you should do what you want forget your mom and do the horizontal mambo have fun
First stop sneaking around behind your mother's back. If she finds out it may be a lot longer till you are allowed to date. Sit down with her and talk to her, calmly and ask her if you are with a group, could you go to the movies or wherever. She probably doesn't want you alone with a boy and at 14, I agree. Boys at that age have only one thing on their young minds. You are too young, don't try to grow up so quickly.
shut up and do wat mom says
the parent in me say mind you mom. the kid i was says to go with your best friend and have him meet you somewhere where you mom will let you and your bf go. again the kid in me says don't tell your mom he is going to be there
You're 14 you don't need to be dating, you need to focus on your education.
you must listen to ur mom and you must obey her, you must respect all of her decisions because it is not for her nor it is for you girl,,, you are too young to have a boyfriend!!!
Apologize to your mom for your choice of adjectives and try and get him to win her trust. You can't do that for him and he should be willing to do that for you. Your mother is just doing what parents should do , keep you from having sex as long as possible. Give her credit having been where you are now and not wanting you to get hurt at a young age if ever.
talk to your mom. Tell her that it is better you have a healthy relationship that she knows about and you can ask advice about, rather than one behind her back. Ask her if she disagrees with that. Plus secretive relationships always hurt the one who you're dating. He will feel like you are either ashamed of him, or don't think of him as being important enough for your parents to know. It won't matter what you'll tell him. Thats what he will feel inside.
this is something you'll have to work out with your mom. Ask her if maybe it would be alright if you went with a group and not just the 2 of you or to more open public place where you'll have little chances to be too alone. Your mom is doing this to protect you not make you mad or make you hate her. Show her that you are mature enough to handle a boyfriend. Give her something to trust. What ever you do don't do it behind her back she will find out and then it will be bad for you. Good Luck.I need advice about dating?
mention to your mom, if she remembers being 14? and see what she says. let her know that she can trust you. if she does let you eventually, be hom at the time she says and so on. eventually she will learn that she can trust you and she will let you do more. for the time being, let her know that you are just going out to the movies with friends. but remember what i said. goodluck
The boys your own age are far too immature .... the older ones are interseted in what your mother fears the most ... making you a hit -n- run on the sex intersatate .... Just be with your friends ... do the group gathering thing to see movies ... learn to flirt ...talk the talk and just play ... there is plenty ot time to find the ';keeper'; later ... right now there under the limit or poaching !!!
Listen to your mother !!
find a reason to have a party at your house have him over introduce him to your parents but have him prepared and your parent's wont know what hit them
your 14 your grown now you should do what you want forget your mom and do the horizontal mambo have fun
First stop sneaking around behind your mother's back. If she finds out it may be a lot longer till you are allowed to date. Sit down with her and talk to her, calmly and ask her if you are with a group, could you go to the movies or wherever. She probably doesn't want you alone with a boy and at 14, I agree. Boys at that age have only one thing on their young minds. You are too young, don't try to grow up so quickly.
shut up and do wat mom says
the parent in me say mind you mom. the kid i was says to go with your best friend and have him meet you somewhere where you mom will let you and your bf go. again the kid in me says don't tell your mom he is going to be there
You're 14 you don't need to be dating, you need to focus on your education.
you must listen to ur mom and you must obey her, you must respect all of her decisions because it is not for her nor it is for you girl,,, you are too young to have a boyfriend!!!
Apologize to your mom for your choice of adjectives and try and get him to win her trust. You can't do that for him and he should be willing to do that for you. Your mother is just doing what parents should do , keep you from having sex as long as possible. Give her credit having been where you are now and not wanting you to get hurt at a young age if ever.
talk to your mom. Tell her that it is better you have a healthy relationship that she knows about and you can ask advice about, rather than one behind her back. Ask her if she disagrees with that. Plus secretive relationships always hurt the one who you're dating. He will feel like you are either ashamed of him, or don't think of him as being important enough for your parents to know. It won't matter what you'll tell him. Thats what he will feel inside.
Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
Obviously, I cannot provide all the information and it is also being told by my side.
I messed things up with a guy and hurt both of us in the process.
Months ago, we lost my virginity together. Soon after, he distanced himself because I was too emotional, too soon. I tried to make it serious when he told me before-hand that he didn't want anything serious.
Months later, I couldn't let it go. I saw something, I thought was the truth, but ended up being a joke - He said he followed these ';rules'; that basically degrade women. I was hurt, so to make things worse, I wrote (under this id), pretending to be another girl. When he expressed interest in seeing ';Becky,'; I wrote as myself - and said mean things about how it all made me feel. He wrote back - the truth, which hurt. I am truly sorry for my actions.
He asked to not contact him anymore. I sent a ';sorry'; and told him I'd honor his request.
Do you think he could ever forgive me for my stupidity? Is there anything more I could do?Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
i stopped reading it after he said he doesn't want anything serious....if that's the case why did he take your virginity.....you don't need to be sorry tell him to kick rocksSeeking your advice about forgiveness?
Girl, I've been there. I did the same thing (pretended to be another woman on-line) to my (previous) live-in partner of seven years. He fell for it hook-line %26amp; sinker! He turned out to be a two timer too.
My advice, leave that player alone forever. He WILL break your heart again and again.
You are hurting and you need time to get over him. But don't lose you pride (be strong). He doesn't love you and probably never will.
Get a new mind-set. Next time he sees you, give him a show! Let him see you holding your head high and even if you have to pretend, act very happy and care free. People like him only notice girls that are happy and flirty. He doesn't want to hear you complain about how he hurts you.
Give him a show girl!
Good luck and take care.
He never wanted anything serious and if he is talking to ';Becky'; then he has proved that. Besides how many others are out there. Move on find someone who will treat you like you deserve. If he isn't going to be in a serious relationship then why would you want to do anymore?
Move on
It sounds to me like he used you to get what he wanted girl, and doesn't give a damb about you. Sorry to be blunt, but I am looking at this through objective eyes. Find yourself a guy who really cares about you!
as said in bible 70 times seven to forgive others
to be honest I think you got used because right after you had sex he was suddenly uninterested. If a person doesn't want a serious relationship then they shouldn't be having sex because that's a sign of togetherness in some way right? He got what he wanted and it's over. You should have been more careful. You lost your virginity to a jerk. You weren't too emotional he lead you on to believe that he wanted to be with you and then took the gift and hit the highway.
You have to let him cool off. Please do not call him; it seems you have a crush with him. Let him go.
First of all, losing your virginity is a big thing for most girls. You will always have some sort of an emotional attachment to the one who took your virginity.
You need to let it go, he obviously was in it to ';Score'; - Guys think is a big thing to take a girls virginity.
You should move on and not worry about what he thinks, in my opinion, it's good that you said what you needed to say.
Move on and find someone that will respect you.
I messed things up with a guy and hurt both of us in the process.
Months ago, we lost my virginity together. Soon after, he distanced himself because I was too emotional, too soon. I tried to make it serious when he told me before-hand that he didn't want anything serious.
Months later, I couldn't let it go. I saw something, I thought was the truth, but ended up being a joke - He said he followed these ';rules'; that basically degrade women. I was hurt, so to make things worse, I wrote (under this id), pretending to be another girl. When he expressed interest in seeing ';Becky,'; I wrote as myself - and said mean things about how it all made me feel. He wrote back - the truth, which hurt. I am truly sorry for my actions.
He asked to not contact him anymore. I sent a ';sorry'; and told him I'd honor his request.
Do you think he could ever forgive me for my stupidity? Is there anything more I could do?Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
i stopped reading it after he said he doesn't want anything serious....if that's the case why did he take your virginity.....you don't need to be sorry tell him to kick rocksSeeking your advice about forgiveness?
Girl, I've been there. I did the same thing (pretended to be another woman on-line) to my (previous) live-in partner of seven years. He fell for it hook-line %26amp; sinker! He turned out to be a two timer too.
My advice, leave that player alone forever. He WILL break your heart again and again.
You are hurting and you need time to get over him. But don't lose you pride (be strong). He doesn't love you and probably never will.
Get a new mind-set. Next time he sees you, give him a show! Let him see you holding your head high and even if you have to pretend, act very happy and care free. People like him only notice girls that are happy and flirty. He doesn't want to hear you complain about how he hurts you.
Give him a show girl!
Good luck and take care.
He never wanted anything serious and if he is talking to ';Becky'; then he has proved that. Besides how many others are out there. Move on find someone who will treat you like you deserve. If he isn't going to be in a serious relationship then why would you want to do anymore?
Move on
It sounds to me like he used you to get what he wanted girl, and doesn't give a damb about you. Sorry to be blunt, but I am looking at this through objective eyes. Find yourself a guy who really cares about you!
as said in bible 70 times seven to forgive others
to be honest I think you got used because right after you had sex he was suddenly uninterested. If a person doesn't want a serious relationship then they shouldn't be having sex because that's a sign of togetherness in some way right? He got what he wanted and it's over. You should have been more careful. You lost your virginity to a jerk. You weren't too emotional he lead you on to believe that he wanted to be with you and then took the gift and hit the highway.
You have to let him cool off. Please do not call him; it seems you have a crush with him. Let him go.
First of all, losing your virginity is a big thing for most girls. You will always have some sort of an emotional attachment to the one who took your virginity.
You need to let it go, he obviously was in it to ';Score'; - Guys think is a big thing to take a girls virginity.
You should move on and not worry about what he thinks, in my opinion, it's good that you said what you needed to say.
Move on and find someone that will respect you.
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
i used to talk to him online a lot
and then one day he randomly came over to my friend's house to drink and hang out.. he ended up hooking up with my friend.
he just randomly added me on myspace and started replying to my bulletins and sending me messages and stuff
i asked him when i was going to get to see him and he told me that whenever he has a day off work, he can take me to the beach. :) then he asked for my number
this guy is EXTREMELY good looking and a nice guy from what i know..
i need advice on how far i should go on the first date, second, third, etc..
i don't want to mess this up.. so far my guy friend's advice is this::
date one hold hands maybe, kiss goodnight no tongue
date two, do the same but with more consistency
(3 - make out
4 - heavy making out
any advice on how to try to make this one last ?Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
So he hooked up with your friend, and I'm assuming nothing ever came of it... so first you need to talk to your friend and make sure he's not just a one night person.
If he seems like he's going to be a good guy, and treated your friend right then go for it. But I wouldn't offer anything more then a kiss for several dates, that way you know he's serious and wants to hang in there for a while. It wouldn't be fun if you did other things with him and he never called you back, so make sure he's in it for a relationship. Try to get to know him, and date him for a while before you ever do anything with him. If you have sex on the first few dates the relationship almost never works.Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
Hooked up with your friend and I assume this was a one time shot. This good looking guy is a confirmed ladies man, forget him. From your question and your plan to ration your sexual activity with him you are trying for a real relationship. No dice with this candidate. He gets what he wants immediately without effort. He will use you and discard you and he will want the home run on the first ';date';.
don't put it on a time line. and don't feel like you have to go so far at any point. don't rush things especially until you get to know the guy better. do whatever feels right and only what you are ready for and don't get caught up in the heat of the moment.
I am an older woman, btw - thank you for asking us; I appreciate the opportunity!
This guy is NOT into you - want to know how to know? this is from the lips of men - if a man is into you - he doesn't wait til Saturday night to ask you for a date; he asks you the week before. He wouldn't casually email you, and see you later- he;d be at your door. He'd call you on the phone, often, and he would make great efforts to see you.
My advice - blow him away by blowing him off - don't say yes to his first request for a date - make an excuse that you already have plans. Guys want to know they have something of great value - and you do not demonstrate that by giving him your 'special gifts' on the first, second or 22nd date; you make him wait, til you know that he is worth your salt. You dont' want a man for a night; you want him for a life time- and you don't do that, by giving yourself away cheap.
and then one day he randomly came over to my friend's house to drink and hang out.. he ended up hooking up with my friend.
he just randomly added me on myspace and started replying to my bulletins and sending me messages and stuff
i asked him when i was going to get to see him and he told me that whenever he has a day off work, he can take me to the beach. :) then he asked for my number
this guy is EXTREMELY good looking and a nice guy from what i know..
i need advice on how far i should go on the first date, second, third, etc..
i don't want to mess this up.. so far my guy friend's advice is this::
date one hold hands maybe, kiss goodnight no tongue
date two, do the same but with more consistency
(3 - make out
4 - heavy making out
any advice on how to try to make this one last ?Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
So he hooked up with your friend, and I'm assuming nothing ever came of it... so first you need to talk to your friend and make sure he's not just a one night person.
If he seems like he's going to be a good guy, and treated your friend right then go for it. But I wouldn't offer anything more then a kiss for several dates, that way you know he's serious and wants to hang in there for a while. It wouldn't be fun if you did other things with him and he never called you back, so make sure he's in it for a relationship. Try to get to know him, and date him for a while before you ever do anything with him. If you have sex on the first few dates the relationship almost never works.Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
Hooked up with your friend and I assume this was a one time shot. This good looking guy is a confirmed ladies man, forget him. From your question and your plan to ration your sexual activity with him you are trying for a real relationship. No dice with this candidate. He gets what he wants immediately without effort. He will use you and discard you and he will want the home run on the first ';date';.
don't put it on a time line. and don't feel like you have to go so far at any point. don't rush things especially until you get to know the guy better. do whatever feels right and only what you are ready for and don't get caught up in the heat of the moment.
I am an older woman, btw - thank you for asking us; I appreciate the opportunity!
This guy is NOT into you - want to know how to know? this is from the lips of men - if a man is into you - he doesn't wait til Saturday night to ask you for a date; he asks you the week before. He wouldn't casually email you, and see you later- he;d be at your door. He'd call you on the phone, often, and he would make great efforts to see you.
My advice - blow him away by blowing him off - don't say yes to his first request for a date - make an excuse that you already have plans. Guys want to know they have something of great value - and you do not demonstrate that by giving him your 'special gifts' on the first, second or 22nd date; you make him wait, til you know that he is worth your salt. You dont' want a man for a night; you want him for a life time- and you don't do that, by giving yourself away cheap.
Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
i want it to look very real and very good. i feel like something is still of but ive been working at it so long im worried i cant see the imperfections clearly so can you judge?
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.perfect makeup
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
Did you ask a question on Yahoo about what you should say to a boy or girl you liked, or something involving your sexuality, or family troubles, and actually took some random person's advice? Well I think it'd be cool if you'd tell your story, like what you asked and what advice you took, and if it worked or not!Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
major: English
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
I am a struggling christian. I can feel that the Lord is working in my life and doing some wonderful things. There are some personal things that I know that I need to work on. It has really been a rough year for me. My husband is not a believer. He argues with me all the time. I try not to argue with him but it is like he trys to argue with me on purpose. I try to pray and try to resist getting into a fight, but last night it didn't work out to good and we got into a big argument. We are fighting almost everyday. Not all the time about God, most the time about a lot of stupid little stuff. It seems like he is just getting meaner and meaner. He says things to me on purpose to hurt my feelings. He makes me cry and he doesn't care. He doesn't beat me or anything, it just that he seems heartless sometimes. I am determined to make this marriage work, we have been married for almost 7 years. Part of the reason why I struggle in my relationship with the Lord is because me and hPlease help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Hold steadfast in prayer, God will see you through. Keep praying for you husband and hopefully, soon he will see through you the love of Jesus. I will keep you in my prayers, hand it all over to God, we can do nothing in this world without him, and God creates miracles. When he begins to argue and fuss, pray for him, while he is yelling and carrying on, pray silently for him for God to touch his heart, pray for Jesus to cover him in the blood of Jesus and unharden his heart. That is just Satan, whenever we decide to turn our lives around and turn everything over to God, that is when the real trouble begins, Satan gets angry, Be steadfast and diligent in your faith. God Bless you!Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Let him go. It whould be best for both of you. There are many christians that get divorces, dont be afraid to take that step. as for you Ill be sure to put you on a special list. You wont be denied what you deserve.
Hon, that can be considered verbal abuse. Get to a councilor and get some help if you want to try and save your marriage. Or a divorce lawyer. He should respect your religion and not say things that hurt you. That is not a loving relationship.
Yes, we will pray. Can you talk to your pastor or priest perhaps??
Maybe that would be a starting point. Maybe a counsler as well. maybe they can guide you how to get your husband to a counsler with you or what teps to take to get into his brain and find out what is going on. He doesnt sound repectful toward you for some reason. Maybe he is not happy about something in his life and is taking it out on you? Maybe he is carrying some sin around with him and dosnt know how to deal with it. You have our prayers. Maybe go see your pastor or priest.
(((hugs))) God Bless you and thank you for sharing.
be glad to pray for the two of you. have you ever thought of going to a marriage counselor as these are persons professionally trained to help aid and assist people in your situation. if he is unwilling then please seek professional advise from a counselor, your priest, minister or rabbi. these people may help ease the pain and suffering much better than any advise you can receive from us here.
I am also a believer and my husband is not.
However we both love each other enough NOT to push or lecture the other and allow each other our individuality.
I think you two need to work on your communication. Pick a time to talk to him. Some time on the weekend when things are not so hectic. Not when he has immediately come home from work and before he decides he is too tired and off to bed.
When you talk to him about how you feel avoid the word ';you'; and stick to the I. e.i - ';I feel'; . Also open your mind...allow yourself to understand his point of view as well.
A bit of advice as a new christian....I was born and raised very strictly and am today a christian....However there are those you will make you feel a sinner for all the wrong reasons. Read your Bible, trust ONLY your Bible. Remember we are all Humans and God did make us...Mistakes, feelings, wants, needs and all!
try to love your husband more than Jesus and tell him that it might work. I RELAY DO NOT Know why Christians women love Jesus more than their own husbands or earthly partner.
Sure. No problem.
I will pray for both of you.. I admire you for being strong and putn an effort into making your marraige work. If you feel it's worth it, go for it. Only God can work in your husband, and I hope He does really soon. I wish I could give u a real hug!
If my wife started flinging delusional superstitionism (religion) at me, I'd make sure the door hit her butt on her way out.
The best advice I can give you is to try and find a quiet moment with him, and ask him outright if he really loves you and if he really does want to stay married with you.
If he does want to stay with you, then express your feelings (gently) and tell him how hurtful his remarks are.
But if he seems very negative and doesn't want to stay, then it's no good pursuing the marriage just for the sake of it.
Don't you have any counselling support through your church?
I will pray for you both! I was once told that when you pray for someone (like hubby) that if they get meaner it's because God is dealing with them. Just hang in there! All you can do is lean on God and pray sweeite!
knock it off. why must you convert him ? why can't he be himself. is he not good enough ? the problem is you. you're trying to convert him. is he trying to convert you ? keep this up and you will find yourself by yourself.
give him that link and he will stop arguinghttp://www.answering-christianity.com/li鈥?/a>
First, you need to go to Elizabeth Elliott's web site - Gatewaytojoy.com and read about marriage in some of her commentaries. These will help you greatly. You are supposed to stay in the marriage. I know it is hard - because I do it too. Although my husband says he is a believer - he does not do the things he should. He drinks and does not go to church and gets angry a lot. My advice is to keep asking the Lord to change him - you don't try to change him and keep in the marriage. I hope you are going to church and making friends there. That will help in that you can get away from him and go sit in the church and be with God there and hopefully Christian friends can be an encouragement. Do not isolate yourself. Also get involved with church activities and that will take your mind off of your home life. I am in my 40s and do lots of work at church and serve the Lord - as well I try to be a good wife to my husband - but mostly I try to keep my focus on God/Jesus as that helps me so much and is therapy for me. Also read His Word daily and seek Him. I hope this helps you. Please go to Elizabeth's web site and put in marriage and read about the role you should play in your marriage. It is hard but God will bless you for it and I will pray that your husband becomes a Christian as he sees you being a true Christian. Blessings to you little one. I love you.
Yes I can pray for your marriage. Sounds like he's looking for a reason to bail out. I'm not sure but that is a common reason for bickering. Next time listen to what he says even if it's an attack on you. See if you can find out what he is trying to say. It may also be a way of getting your attention, If one of his complaints is that you do not spend enough time together then he may very well be getting your attention even if it is negative attention. That doesn't make it right. But understanding may give you more options.
GOD bless ya.
The best advise I think you can get is to leave your husband alone. If you want to go to church and do things there---do them-BUT alone. You have no right to try to force him to get involved in a religion-any religion.
If he starts an argument, just leave the room. But, you should not be nagging him to go to a church and believe in something that he may think is illogical. He has his rights, too.
I converted to Judaism after I was married. My children and I followed this path, and my husband was not interested. He was not interested in going to our old Christian church, either. But, that was his privilege, not mine to decide. There were no arguments.
I agree with Steph about going to a counselor. If he refuses, then he obviously doesn't care. If he doesn't care, then unfortunately, your marriage is over. I hate to tell anyone to get a divorce, that should be the last option, but if it comes to that, it may be for the best. Just remember next time to find someone who shares your faith and values. Will be praying for you.
Your husband is definately going through somthing. There is a very stron spirit on him that does not want him to come Christ. All you can do somtimes is continue to pray for him and ask the Lord to be with him. As each day goes by try to find yourself more in the Lord and keep praying for God to strenghten him.
And I will pray for you gusy as well.
Godbless:)
It whould be cruel of you to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you anymore, if you ask me you deserve what you get by staying with an abusive husband, and you know what I think youre the one that starts the fights, youre not telling the whole story are you? Im right arent I? I know when a christian is lying and you sound like a liar.
sit down with him one afternoon/evening and tell him all about it.
i believe that communication is most important.
then try to write everything down in a journal : what you said, and his responses.
it may take many diff occasions, you sitting down with him to talk, but do it anyway. never be hostile, but be very detailed. you'll find out really why about his actions soon enough.
best wishes.
Hold steadfast in prayer, God will see you through. Keep praying for you husband and hopefully, soon he will see through you the love of Jesus. I will keep you in my prayers, hand it all over to God, we can do nothing in this world without him, and God creates miracles. When he begins to argue and fuss, pray for him, while he is yelling and carrying on, pray silently for him for God to touch his heart, pray for Jesus to cover him in the blood of Jesus and unharden his heart. That is just Satan, whenever we decide to turn our lives around and turn everything over to God, that is when the real trouble begins, Satan gets angry, Be steadfast and diligent in your faith. God Bless you!Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Let him go. It whould be best for both of you. There are many christians that get divorces, dont be afraid to take that step. as for you Ill be sure to put you on a special list. You wont be denied what you deserve.
Hon, that can be considered verbal abuse. Get to a councilor and get some help if you want to try and save your marriage. Or a divorce lawyer. He should respect your religion and not say things that hurt you. That is not a loving relationship.
Yes, we will pray. Can you talk to your pastor or priest perhaps??
Maybe that would be a starting point. Maybe a counsler as well. maybe they can guide you how to get your husband to a counsler with you or what teps to take to get into his brain and find out what is going on. He doesnt sound repectful toward you for some reason. Maybe he is not happy about something in his life and is taking it out on you? Maybe he is carrying some sin around with him and dosnt know how to deal with it. You have our prayers. Maybe go see your pastor or priest.
(((hugs))) God Bless you and thank you for sharing.
be glad to pray for the two of you. have you ever thought of going to a marriage counselor as these are persons professionally trained to help aid and assist people in your situation. if he is unwilling then please seek professional advise from a counselor, your priest, minister or rabbi. these people may help ease the pain and suffering much better than any advise you can receive from us here.
I am also a believer and my husband is not.
However we both love each other enough NOT to push or lecture the other and allow each other our individuality.
I think you two need to work on your communication. Pick a time to talk to him. Some time on the weekend when things are not so hectic. Not when he has immediately come home from work and before he decides he is too tired and off to bed.
When you talk to him about how you feel avoid the word ';you'; and stick to the I. e.i - ';I feel'; . Also open your mind...allow yourself to understand his point of view as well.
A bit of advice as a new christian....I was born and raised very strictly and am today a christian....However there are those you will make you feel a sinner for all the wrong reasons. Read your Bible, trust ONLY your Bible. Remember we are all Humans and God did make us...Mistakes, feelings, wants, needs and all!
try to love your husband more than Jesus and tell him that it might work. I RELAY DO NOT Know why Christians women love Jesus more than their own husbands or earthly partner.
Sure. No problem.
I will pray for both of you.. I admire you for being strong and putn an effort into making your marraige work. If you feel it's worth it, go for it. Only God can work in your husband, and I hope He does really soon. I wish I could give u a real hug!
If my wife started flinging delusional superstitionism (religion) at me, I'd make sure the door hit her butt on her way out.
The best advice I can give you is to try and find a quiet moment with him, and ask him outright if he really loves you and if he really does want to stay married with you.
If he does want to stay with you, then express your feelings (gently) and tell him how hurtful his remarks are.
But if he seems very negative and doesn't want to stay, then it's no good pursuing the marriage just for the sake of it.
Don't you have any counselling support through your church?
I will pray for you both! I was once told that when you pray for someone (like hubby) that if they get meaner it's because God is dealing with them. Just hang in there! All you can do is lean on God and pray sweeite!
knock it off. why must you convert him ? why can't he be himself. is he not good enough ? the problem is you. you're trying to convert him. is he trying to convert you ? keep this up and you will find yourself by yourself.
give him that link and he will stop arguinghttp://www.answering-christianity.com/li鈥?/a>
First, you need to go to Elizabeth Elliott's web site - Gatewaytojoy.com and read about marriage in some of her commentaries. These will help you greatly. You are supposed to stay in the marriage. I know it is hard - because I do it too. Although my husband says he is a believer - he does not do the things he should. He drinks and does not go to church and gets angry a lot. My advice is to keep asking the Lord to change him - you don't try to change him and keep in the marriage. I hope you are going to church and making friends there. That will help in that you can get away from him and go sit in the church and be with God there and hopefully Christian friends can be an encouragement. Do not isolate yourself. Also get involved with church activities and that will take your mind off of your home life. I am in my 40s and do lots of work at church and serve the Lord - as well I try to be a good wife to my husband - but mostly I try to keep my focus on God/Jesus as that helps me so much and is therapy for me. Also read His Word daily and seek Him. I hope this helps you. Please go to Elizabeth's web site and put in marriage and read about the role you should play in your marriage. It is hard but God will bless you for it and I will pray that your husband becomes a Christian as he sees you being a true Christian. Blessings to you little one. I love you.
Yes I can pray for your marriage. Sounds like he's looking for a reason to bail out. I'm not sure but that is a common reason for bickering. Next time listen to what he says even if it's an attack on you. See if you can find out what he is trying to say. It may also be a way of getting your attention, If one of his complaints is that you do not spend enough time together then he may very well be getting your attention even if it is negative attention. That doesn't make it right. But understanding may give you more options.
GOD bless ya.
The best advise I think you can get is to leave your husband alone. If you want to go to church and do things there---do them-BUT alone. You have no right to try to force him to get involved in a religion-any religion.
If he starts an argument, just leave the room. But, you should not be nagging him to go to a church and believe in something that he may think is illogical. He has his rights, too.
I converted to Judaism after I was married. My children and I followed this path, and my husband was not interested. He was not interested in going to our old Christian church, either. But, that was his privilege, not mine to decide. There were no arguments.
I agree with Steph about going to a counselor. If he refuses, then he obviously doesn't care. If he doesn't care, then unfortunately, your marriage is over. I hate to tell anyone to get a divorce, that should be the last option, but if it comes to that, it may be for the best. Just remember next time to find someone who shares your faith and values. Will be praying for you.
Your husband is definately going through somthing. There is a very stron spirit on him that does not want him to come Christ. All you can do somtimes is continue to pray for him and ask the Lord to be with him. As each day goes by try to find yourself more in the Lord and keep praying for God to strenghten him.
And I will pray for you gusy as well.
Godbless:)
It whould be cruel of you to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you anymore, if you ask me you deserve what you get by staying with an abusive husband, and you know what I think youre the one that starts the fights, youre not telling the whole story are you? Im right arent I? I know when a christian is lying and you sound like a liar.
sit down with him one afternoon/evening and tell him all about it.
i believe that communication is most important.
then try to write everything down in a journal : what you said, and his responses.
it may take many diff occasions, you sitting down with him to talk, but do it anyway. never be hostile, but be very detailed. you'll find out really why about his actions soon enough.
best wishes.
Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
What are signs you show, speak, or do to ensure the woman you love that you do love her?
How do I know if my boyfriend really does love me or is he playing with my head?
My boyfriend told me he loved me after 1 month of us being together. . .we've known each other for over 8 years and he took my virginity. . .then we moved off and now we're together again. At first I didn't know what to say because I wasn't sure, but now my love has grown.Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
Real love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
We don't try to make it obvious. We don't try to convince or assure. We actually hate the idea that someone we really care about would insist on some act on our part to prove our love. When demonstrating our love and patience, we do generaly forgive the object of our affection for stupidity that we might hold against others. For instance.......if someone besides our love said that we ';took'; their virginity rather than accepting what she freely offered???......we might have something rude to say about that person. Accusing a man of rape really isn't our idea of ';proof of love'; But then again, you haven't thought about what he's thinking, have you?? That figures, I guess.
love is in the actions not in the words, thats how you can tell. if it seems like everything he does is for you or both of you then thats love, if the things he does is for him then he is selfish and playing you for what ever he might need or be able to get. step back and look, is he a loser or a thoughtful type person?
Talk is cheap%26gt; It's what he does and how he makes you feel%26gt; respect%26gt; Kindness%26gt; thoughtful%26gt;On time%26gt; Does what he says%26gt; Helpful%26gt;Many thing no lying%26gt; Or telling you what you want to hear%26gt; Growing up will make a big difference for you%26gt; I love you is easy to say but hard to prove%26gt; This goes both ways%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;
S%26amp;H
Just Love him until he gives you a reason not to believe him. If he already has given you a reason, then your answer is known.
WHAT?
How do I know if my boyfriend really does love me or is he playing with my head?
My boyfriend told me he loved me after 1 month of us being together. . .we've known each other for over 8 years and he took my virginity. . .then we moved off and now we're together again. At first I didn't know what to say because I wasn't sure, but now my love has grown.Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
Real love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
We don't try to make it obvious. We don't try to convince or assure. We actually hate the idea that someone we really care about would insist on some act on our part to prove our love. When demonstrating our love and patience, we do generaly forgive the object of our affection for stupidity that we might hold against others. For instance.......if someone besides our love said that we ';took'; their virginity rather than accepting what she freely offered???......we might have something rude to say about that person. Accusing a man of rape really isn't our idea of ';proof of love'; But then again, you haven't thought about what he's thinking, have you?? That figures, I guess.
love is in the actions not in the words, thats how you can tell. if it seems like everything he does is for you or both of you then thats love, if the things he does is for him then he is selfish and playing you for what ever he might need or be able to get. step back and look, is he a loser or a thoughtful type person?
Talk is cheap%26gt; It's what he does and how he makes you feel%26gt; respect%26gt; Kindness%26gt; thoughtful%26gt;On time%26gt; Does what he says%26gt; Helpful%26gt;Many thing no lying%26gt; Or telling you what you want to hear%26gt; Growing up will make a big difference for you%26gt; I love you is easy to say but hard to prove%26gt; This goes both ways%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;
S%26amp;H
Just Love him until he gives you a reason not to believe him. If he already has given you a reason, then your answer is known.
WHAT?
Im 13, and i need advice about this boy that i like. Will u please help me out??
what would u do if u were 13 and there was a boy u liked and u kept falling in and out of love with him? This boy talks about me so badly! but im still in love with him! thats why i keep falling out of love with him. but then he's so cute and i keep falling in love with him! Its like he has a curse on me and i cant break free from it but i want to!
GIRLS AND WOMEN PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!
ALSO PLEASE ANSWER NICELY!!!Im 13, and i need advice about this boy that i like. Will u please help me out??
I wonder why he is talking badly about you. Maybe he likes you.....that happens you know....Im 13, and i need advice about this boy that i like. Will u please help me out??
it sounds like puppy love here. your think you love him, but he clearly doesn't love you back. he keeps saying bad things about you, so why would you want him anyway. it's time for you to find a nice boy that will love you back. your still very young, there will be many guys who pass through your life before you find a keeper.
like what does he say??
if hes saying bad things about you, i dont see how you can like him... thats jsut my opinion
hmmm well are you sure you know the true meaning of love? u need someone who likes you as much as you like them you dont deserve some1 like that...no1 does and besides theres more fish in the sea and might be hard but you might need 2 just get over him
your not in love and its just a puppy love spell, most girls are under it at your age and just talk to him and you will feel better about the situation, trust me, been thru it.
he totally doesn't deserve you sweetie.
Who cares if he looks good or not.
asshole's are not worth it.
find someone who's cute and nice.
%26amp; someone who doesn't talk crap about ya.
hiya :) ok, first if he talks badly about it, hes not worth your heart, you are better than him, you don't need him. look, your young, and there are so many guys out there, who are nice and will love you and treat you right. i know it seems you won't break from this curse, but trust me you will do when the right guy comes along. in time you will get over him, and soon he will be just a memory :) it will be ok, just have fun, go out and enjoy your life, and wait for the right guy :) take care xxx
GIRLS AND WOMEN PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!
ALSO PLEASE ANSWER NICELY!!!Im 13, and i need advice about this boy that i like. Will u please help me out??
I wonder why he is talking badly about you. Maybe he likes you.....that happens you know....Im 13, and i need advice about this boy that i like. Will u please help me out??
it sounds like puppy love here. your think you love him, but he clearly doesn't love you back. he keeps saying bad things about you, so why would you want him anyway. it's time for you to find a nice boy that will love you back. your still very young, there will be many guys who pass through your life before you find a keeper.
like what does he say??
if hes saying bad things about you, i dont see how you can like him... thats jsut my opinion
hmmm well are you sure you know the true meaning of love? u need someone who likes you as much as you like them you dont deserve some1 like that...no1 does and besides theres more fish in the sea and might be hard but you might need 2 just get over him
your not in love and its just a puppy love spell, most girls are under it at your age and just talk to him and you will feel better about the situation, trust me, been thru it.
he totally doesn't deserve you sweetie.
Who cares if he looks good or not.
asshole's are not worth it.
find someone who's cute and nice.
%26amp; someone who doesn't talk crap about ya.
hiya :) ok, first if he talks badly about it, hes not worth your heart, you are better than him, you don't need him. look, your young, and there are so many guys out there, who are nice and will love you and treat you right. i know it seems you won't break from this curse, but trust me you will do when the right guy comes along. in time you will get over him, and soon he will be just a memory :) it will be ok, just have fun, go out and enjoy your life, and wait for the right guy :) take care xxx
GUYS - HELP!!! I need your advice about a guy date!!!?
I have been dating this guy for about three months...very casually. He is going thru the tailend of a divorce, so we both decided that we would wait to get into the BF/GF talks until he is ready. I am okay with that.
Lately he has been a bit distant, due to the divorce hearing, money whoas %26amp; kids. I am okay with him working through things
SO here is my question. I haven't seen him in a few weeks and tomorrow we have a date to see each other. I will get to his place about 1 or 2pm... and we have all day and night.
WHAT SHOULD WE DO? I want it to be fun and something that will keep his mind occupied. Got any creative ideas? We live near the beach, don't want to spend a lot of money, sex is already in the mix for the day! :) lol
HELP ME OUT!!GUYS - HELP!!! I need your advice about a guy date!!!?
i would go to the beach and lay on him and tell him you love and swim....eat there....kiss him...do stuff in the water...you get the ideaGUYS - HELP!!! I need your advice about a guy date!!!?
Keep him company in his interests.
You could have a picnic near a playground. You can play like your kids again on the swings and teeter totter. Although we're all grown up we still have a kid inside us somewhere. This way it doesn't get 2 personal but u still have fun . HOpe this helps
ROLL PLAYING! lol!
hmmm lets think
Start with fun stuff like mini golf, bumper cars, maybe grab some ice cream, consider something oddball like horseback riding or maybe just a zoo trip, avoid stuff like malls.
Just keep it light and have fun.perfect makeup
Lately he has been a bit distant, due to the divorce hearing, money whoas %26amp; kids. I am okay with him working through things
SO here is my question. I haven't seen him in a few weeks and tomorrow we have a date to see each other. I will get to his place about 1 or 2pm... and we have all day and night.
WHAT SHOULD WE DO? I want it to be fun and something that will keep his mind occupied. Got any creative ideas? We live near the beach, don't want to spend a lot of money, sex is already in the mix for the day! :) lol
HELP ME OUT!!GUYS - HELP!!! I need your advice about a guy date!!!?
i would go to the beach and lay on him and tell him you love and swim....eat there....kiss him...do stuff in the water...you get the ideaGUYS - HELP!!! I need your advice about a guy date!!!?
Keep him company in his interests.
You could have a picnic near a playground. You can play like your kids again on the swings and teeter totter. Although we're all grown up we still have a kid inside us somewhere. This way it doesn't get 2 personal but u still have fun . HOpe this helps
ROLL PLAYING! lol!
hmmm lets think
Start with fun stuff like mini golf, bumper cars, maybe grab some ice cream, consider something oddball like horseback riding or maybe just a zoo trip, avoid stuff like malls.
Just keep it light and have fun.
Advice me about the future for B-school students?
kindly advice me about the possibilities for campus in abroad and also within the countryAdvice me about the future for B-school students?
When The A schools have been surpassed to the B it means really u r not fit!!!!!!!!Advice me about the future for B-school students?
I wouldn't have my job without an MBA- and I'm a Perl programmer.
General business skills are usually more important than the specific skills (engineering, Finance, etc.) They can always export engineering skills, but if you really know what makes your business tick, you're golden.
Specific skills come and go, morph, etc. but I use general business skills much more-- You;ll have a much better understanding of WHY something is needed in a business with a general MBA, and how to make the company work better (at least that's the idea).
Like every calculus teacher I've ever had said after we all blew a test:
';It wasn't your calculus that was bad, it was your algebra...';
There are some BAD business schools out there, so be careful.
A lot of them are very VERY prestigious. I won't say names, but I think the majority of execs at the top 3 auto makers went to them... I was going to transfer to one of them, and they were VERY condescending of the B-school I was 1/2 way through with....
In short- B-school is important, but you better have industry-related skills -- otherwise, you'll prolly help run a company into a ditch.
What do you learn - MBA?
A creative personality with strong leadership %26amp; managerial skill with efficiency %26amp; probity.
Effective cross talks with others.
Expert in communications skills to develop strong links with business world.
Capacity for lateral thinking for finding new approaches to develop.
Placement - abroad or local is completely depends on your school, your results and of course on your luck.
With best wishes.
When The A schools have been surpassed to the B it means really u r not fit!!!!!!!!Advice me about the future for B-school students?
I wouldn't have my job without an MBA- and I'm a Perl programmer.
General business skills are usually more important than the specific skills (engineering, Finance, etc.) They can always export engineering skills, but if you really know what makes your business tick, you're golden.
Specific skills come and go, morph, etc. but I use general business skills much more-- You;ll have a much better understanding of WHY something is needed in a business with a general MBA, and how to make the company work better (at least that's the idea).
Like every calculus teacher I've ever had said after we all blew a test:
';It wasn't your calculus that was bad, it was your algebra...';
There are some BAD business schools out there, so be careful.
A lot of them are very VERY prestigious. I won't say names, but I think the majority of execs at the top 3 auto makers went to them... I was going to transfer to one of them, and they were VERY condescending of the B-school I was 1/2 way through with....
In short- B-school is important, but you better have industry-related skills -- otherwise, you'll prolly help run a company into a ditch.
What do you learn - MBA?
A creative personality with strong leadership %26amp; managerial skill with efficiency %26amp; probity.
Effective cross talks with others.
Expert in communications skills to develop strong links with business world.
Capacity for lateral thinking for finding new approaches to develop.
Placement - abroad or local is completely depends on your school, your results and of course on your luck.
With best wishes.
I need a woman's advice....about feelings for a best friend?
I have been friends with this girl since high school. Six years later...I still have feelings for her. I never dated her. She moved far away and was in a relationship for 5 years. She recently broke up with her bf.
Now, she lives about a hour away for school. We went on a road trip and hooked up (made out). We didn't have sex. We held each other each night we fell asleep. At the end of the road trip, she said she didn't want a relationship right now because of work and school. We kept kissing when I dropped her off.
I have a job offer where she lives after I finish school in 8 months. I told her I'm afraid of losing her again because I felt like she was out of my grasp when she moved away and was in a relationship. She said maybe I never lost her because she always wanted to be with me.
We always kept in touch throughout the years. She said she doesn't want me to be afraid of losing her. I totally see myself falling in love with her. What do I do on the long run?I need a woman's advice....about feelings for a best friend?
GOOD for her that she has priorities and good for you too. Both of you wanting to finish school is great! Continue to keep in touch as ';friends';, take the job in her area then see how it goes. If it is meant to be, it WILL be.
mbI need a woman's advice....about feelings for a best friend?
K, iam no woman, but i can help you out because i was just in your situation no less than a year ago... My only advice is tell her how you feel. If you never lost her, and then you tell her how you feel, she may not come back right away, but it'll take some work. Offer to take her out and show her a good time, make it like you two were best friends again. If she is a true good friend, she WILL take your feelings into conisideration.
good luck....i got this advice from an old friend of mine and it worked for me.....
Keep talking to her and maybe on a weekend drive down to see her. I'm sure that if you keep on it, she wont be side tracked.
Now, she lives about a hour away for school. We went on a road trip and hooked up (made out). We didn't have sex. We held each other each night we fell asleep. At the end of the road trip, she said she didn't want a relationship right now because of work and school. We kept kissing when I dropped her off.
I have a job offer where she lives after I finish school in 8 months. I told her I'm afraid of losing her again because I felt like she was out of my grasp when she moved away and was in a relationship. She said maybe I never lost her because she always wanted to be with me.
We always kept in touch throughout the years. She said she doesn't want me to be afraid of losing her. I totally see myself falling in love with her. What do I do on the long run?I need a woman's advice....about feelings for a best friend?
GOOD for her that she has priorities and good for you too. Both of you wanting to finish school is great! Continue to keep in touch as ';friends';, take the job in her area then see how it goes. If it is meant to be, it WILL be.
mbI need a woman's advice....about feelings for a best friend?
K, iam no woman, but i can help you out because i was just in your situation no less than a year ago... My only advice is tell her how you feel. If you never lost her, and then you tell her how you feel, she may not come back right away, but it'll take some work. Offer to take her out and show her a good time, make it like you two were best friends again. If she is a true good friend, she WILL take your feelings into conisideration.
good luck....i got this advice from an old friend of mine and it worked for me.....
Keep talking to her and maybe on a weekend drive down to see her. I'm sure that if you keep on it, she wont be side tracked.
I need a Gynecologist's advice about Poly Cystic Ovarian Disease.?
I am a 17 year old girl who was diagnosed with Poly Cystic Ovarian Disease about 6 mos. ago. When I was 11, I had a tortianed ovary, and had to have it removed. I haven't had a period for about a year now. I was put on Glucophage, because my doctor told me that the PCOD caused high insulin levels. She also said, that about 2 to 4 weeks of starting the Glucophage, that my period would come, and I still haven't had one. I was never really explained the disease, and she left me confused. I don't know if this could hurt my chances of having children, but I believe it could. I would also like to know if I should be put on Birth Controll, or even have a hystorectomy... Any advice would help... Thank you!!!I need a Gynecologist's advice about Poly Cystic Ovarian Disease.?
Try going to www.webmd.com or discoveryhealth.com. I know what you are going through. You shouldnt have to have a hystorectomy but in some cases however (like my mothers) you may. I have heard that Birth Control does help but it does reduce your ability to have children. My mother also takes Glucophage for her PCOD however it isnt just for PCOD either, she has diabetes, and various other problems. I know this isnt much but i hope it can shed some light on your dillema. And good luck to you!!!I need a Gynecologist's advice about Poly Cystic Ovarian Disease.?
The above posters answered your questions well. I just feel bad for you, because of your young age, your doctor has chosen not to explain PCOS fully to you. This is terrible. I am sure someone my age (23), they would sit down and go over every detail with me. Well I would make them anyway. Is there anyway you can go to another OBGYN, or even another one who is female. They tend to be more compassionate. Again, please feel free to ask them any and all questions. they should remember that you are the one with PCOS, and just because you are young, you deserve to know all about it.
Here's a link that might help answer your questions.
http://www.drmalpani.com/book/chapter15.鈥?/a>
Polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) is an extremely common endocrine disorder. The prevalence of PCOS is conservatively estimated to occur in 5-10% of reproductive-aged women. This disease has been recognized since at least the 1930鈥檚. While a clinical diagnosis of PCOS may encompass several distinct subsets of patients, most experts in the field agree that there are some common clinical and laboratory aspects of this common disorder.
Most women with PCOS have ovulatory dysfunction or absent ovulation. If the egg is not released from the ovary each month in a normal fashion, this can obviously lead to infertility. Anovulation may also manifest itself by infrequent or irregular menstrual cycles. In the absence of ovulation, the ovary does not make the hormone progesterone in the second half of the menstrual cycle. Without progesterone, the lining of the uterus is not shed in an efficient and timely manner. After a number of years, this can place women with PCOS at risk for an abnormal buildup of the lining of the uterus (endometrial hyperplasia) . For this reason, women with PCOS who are not trying to get pregnant should be treated with progesterone-like medications to induce a normal menstrual period at least every 2-3 months.
Another common feature to PCOS is clinical or laboratory hyperandrogenism. This means that women with PCOS have either increased circulating amounts of or increased responsiveness to male hormones like testosterone or DHEAS. This may result in oily skin or acne and excess hair on the face, between the breasts, or on the lower abdomen. In order for the diagnosis of PCOS to be made, these abnormalities must exist in the absence of other related hormonal disorders. A qualified doctor can distinguish these disorders.
Most women with PCOS also display changes in the ovaries as viewed by ultrasound. In fact, the name itself describes the typical ultrasound findings seen in this disorder: poly (many), cystic (small collections of fluid). When the eggs in the ovaries do not develop to maturity, many small ';follicles'; (small fluid-filled sacs containing immature eggs) develop and can be seen on ultrasound. The ovaries of women PCOS are often enlarged as well. However, most women with PCOS do not have the kind of ';cysts on the ovary'; that we normally think of as problematic or requiring surgery.
Another common feature of PCOS is increased body weight. Women with PCOS tend to be heavy and have trouble losing weight. One underlying mechanism behind the ovulatory irregularity and the obesity is probably insulin resistance. This means that the cells of women with PCOS do not respond as well to their bodies鈥?own insulin as those of someone without PCOS. This puts women with PCOS at higher risk for developing diabetes during pregnancy or later in life.
Treatment Strategies
Treatment for PCOS depends largely on an individual woman鈥檚 fertility desires. For those women not desiring immediate pregnancy, there are basically two options to help regulate menstrual cyclicity and prevent endometrial hyperplasia. The most common option is the use of oral contraceptives (birth control pills; BCPs). BCPs will give most women normal bleeding patterns and prevent hyperplasia. Since ovulation can occur unpredictably in women with PCOS, BCPs also provide adequate contraception. The hormones in BCPs will also help reduce acne and facial hair in most patients with PCOS. In women who do not require oral contraception, progesterone given for 10-12 days every 30-60 days will induce a reliable menses.
In women for whom unwanted hair growth is particularly bothersome, significant improvement can be obtained with a combination of medications. As already mentioned, BCPs are extremely useful in this regard. Other medications may include drugs that reduce the secretion of androgen hormones or interfere with their action in the skin and hair cells.
Alternatively, for women with PCOS who desire pregnancy, ovulation induction is often necessary. This involves medical treatment in order to help the ovaries release an egg each month in a reliable fashion. For many women this involves simple and relatively inexpensive oral medication. Others may require more intensive and expensive therapies utilizing injectable medications. For full coverage of ovulation inducing agents go to the section on ovulation drugs.
Finally, there are some new therapeutic options available for women with PCOS. As already mentioned, insulin resistance may represent the underlying problem for a lot of PCOS patients. A relatively new class of drugs that help sensitize the cells to the action of insulin, thereby reducing insulin resistance, has recently been shown to help induce ovulation in women with PCOS who failed previous simple therapies. Certain of these agents may also help women with PCOS to lose weight. Some of the more common drugs are: Metformin (Glucophage) and Troglitazone (Rezulin). Rezulin can cause hepatic damage. Patients taking this medication must have blood work every month. Glucophage is much simpler to administer and does not require regular blood work.
In women who cannot tolerate oral medications or have failed several different regimens of medication, surgical induction of ovulation can also be attempted. So-called ';ovarian drilling'; utilizes laser or electrosurgical techniques to place small holes in the ovaries in an effort to normalize the hormonal environment and allow ovulation to occur.
PCOS is a common readily treatable disorder. The challenge is for the doctor to meet the specific needs of the patient during her entire life span.
For more information about PCOS please visit the PCO support web site at: http://pcosupport.org. This site is informative and contains detailed information about the condition.
~I know that I just pasted a lot of information here for you, but I think it will be helpful in answering your question. Hope all works out well for you. Good luck :)
i'm not a doc, but i am a fellow PCOD sufferer......pcod causes something called ';insulin-resistance'; it means that your pancrease produces the insulin, but your body doesn't know what to do with it b/c of the hormonal imbalance, hence the glucophage......it can also cause thyroid problems and a few other health problems......hysterectomy is NOT nessecary and really a bad thing unless you have cancer or endometriosis....birth control pills will help you have a period (not glucophage!) and they will also help with the cysts b/c they stop ovulation, and with no ovulation there is no cyst production....another thing that has helped me personally is to follow an organic diet.....i don't put any food into my body that has been genetically modified or has added hormones.....that means no beef, and only organic milk and dairy (fds regulations no longer allow the use of hormones/steriods in the use of poultry and pork b/c studies have shown it can couse health problems, what a shock!)
i hope this has helped.....and i would also suggest finding a new doctor...i recently switched to a gyno who specializes in ovarian disorders and he has helped me SO much
There is a fabulous web site/message board all on PCOS....
here is the link...http://www.soulcysters.net/
A hysterectomy is unnecessary. Cystic ovaries could make it difficult to have a child in the future, but when caught early, it's pretty good chances that everything will go normally. I'm not an OB/GYN so make sure you still talk to yours, but I do know a bit about this disorder as I was improperly mis-diagnosed with it twice. They still don't know what is really wrong with me. Anyway, I was told birth control helps because it raises your estrogen levels which will help with the cysts. I think though that you need to see your doctor if you haven't gotten your period in a year. Go make an appointment and good luck.
Try going to www.webmd.com or discoveryhealth.com. I know what you are going through. You shouldnt have to have a hystorectomy but in some cases however (like my mothers) you may. I have heard that Birth Control does help but it does reduce your ability to have children. My mother also takes Glucophage for her PCOD however it isnt just for PCOD either, she has diabetes, and various other problems. I know this isnt much but i hope it can shed some light on your dillema. And good luck to you!!!I need a Gynecologist's advice about Poly Cystic Ovarian Disease.?
The above posters answered your questions well. I just feel bad for you, because of your young age, your doctor has chosen not to explain PCOS fully to you. This is terrible. I am sure someone my age (23), they would sit down and go over every detail with me. Well I would make them anyway. Is there anyway you can go to another OBGYN, or even another one who is female. They tend to be more compassionate. Again, please feel free to ask them any and all questions. they should remember that you are the one with PCOS, and just because you are young, you deserve to know all about it.
Here's a link that might help answer your questions.
http://www.drmalpani.com/book/chapter15.鈥?/a>
Polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) is an extremely common endocrine disorder. The prevalence of PCOS is conservatively estimated to occur in 5-10% of reproductive-aged women. This disease has been recognized since at least the 1930鈥檚. While a clinical diagnosis of PCOS may encompass several distinct subsets of patients, most experts in the field agree that there are some common clinical and laboratory aspects of this common disorder.
Most women with PCOS have ovulatory dysfunction or absent ovulation. If the egg is not released from the ovary each month in a normal fashion, this can obviously lead to infertility. Anovulation may also manifest itself by infrequent or irregular menstrual cycles. In the absence of ovulation, the ovary does not make the hormone progesterone in the second half of the menstrual cycle. Without progesterone, the lining of the uterus is not shed in an efficient and timely manner. After a number of years, this can place women with PCOS at risk for an abnormal buildup of the lining of the uterus (endometrial hyperplasia) . For this reason, women with PCOS who are not trying to get pregnant should be treated with progesterone-like medications to induce a normal menstrual period at least every 2-3 months.
Another common feature to PCOS is clinical or laboratory hyperandrogenism. This means that women with PCOS have either increased circulating amounts of or increased responsiveness to male hormones like testosterone or DHEAS. This may result in oily skin or acne and excess hair on the face, between the breasts, or on the lower abdomen. In order for the diagnosis of PCOS to be made, these abnormalities must exist in the absence of other related hormonal disorders. A qualified doctor can distinguish these disorders.
Most women with PCOS also display changes in the ovaries as viewed by ultrasound. In fact, the name itself describes the typical ultrasound findings seen in this disorder: poly (many), cystic (small collections of fluid). When the eggs in the ovaries do not develop to maturity, many small ';follicles'; (small fluid-filled sacs containing immature eggs) develop and can be seen on ultrasound. The ovaries of women PCOS are often enlarged as well. However, most women with PCOS do not have the kind of ';cysts on the ovary'; that we normally think of as problematic or requiring surgery.
Another common feature of PCOS is increased body weight. Women with PCOS tend to be heavy and have trouble losing weight. One underlying mechanism behind the ovulatory irregularity and the obesity is probably insulin resistance. This means that the cells of women with PCOS do not respond as well to their bodies鈥?own insulin as those of someone without PCOS. This puts women with PCOS at higher risk for developing diabetes during pregnancy or later in life.
Treatment Strategies
Treatment for PCOS depends largely on an individual woman鈥檚 fertility desires. For those women not desiring immediate pregnancy, there are basically two options to help regulate menstrual cyclicity and prevent endometrial hyperplasia. The most common option is the use of oral contraceptives (birth control pills; BCPs). BCPs will give most women normal bleeding patterns and prevent hyperplasia. Since ovulation can occur unpredictably in women with PCOS, BCPs also provide adequate contraception. The hormones in BCPs will also help reduce acne and facial hair in most patients with PCOS. In women who do not require oral contraception, progesterone given for 10-12 days every 30-60 days will induce a reliable menses.
In women for whom unwanted hair growth is particularly bothersome, significant improvement can be obtained with a combination of medications. As already mentioned, BCPs are extremely useful in this regard. Other medications may include drugs that reduce the secretion of androgen hormones or interfere with their action in the skin and hair cells.
Alternatively, for women with PCOS who desire pregnancy, ovulation induction is often necessary. This involves medical treatment in order to help the ovaries release an egg each month in a reliable fashion. For many women this involves simple and relatively inexpensive oral medication. Others may require more intensive and expensive therapies utilizing injectable medications. For full coverage of ovulation inducing agents go to the section on ovulation drugs.
Finally, there are some new therapeutic options available for women with PCOS. As already mentioned, insulin resistance may represent the underlying problem for a lot of PCOS patients. A relatively new class of drugs that help sensitize the cells to the action of insulin, thereby reducing insulin resistance, has recently been shown to help induce ovulation in women with PCOS who failed previous simple therapies. Certain of these agents may also help women with PCOS to lose weight. Some of the more common drugs are: Metformin (Glucophage) and Troglitazone (Rezulin). Rezulin can cause hepatic damage. Patients taking this medication must have blood work every month. Glucophage is much simpler to administer and does not require regular blood work.
In women who cannot tolerate oral medications or have failed several different regimens of medication, surgical induction of ovulation can also be attempted. So-called ';ovarian drilling'; utilizes laser or electrosurgical techniques to place small holes in the ovaries in an effort to normalize the hormonal environment and allow ovulation to occur.
PCOS is a common readily treatable disorder. The challenge is for the doctor to meet the specific needs of the patient during her entire life span.
For more information about PCOS please visit the PCO support web site at: http://pcosupport.org. This site is informative and contains detailed information about the condition.
~I know that I just pasted a lot of information here for you, but I think it will be helpful in answering your question. Hope all works out well for you. Good luck :)
i'm not a doc, but i am a fellow PCOD sufferer......pcod causes something called ';insulin-resistance'; it means that your pancrease produces the insulin, but your body doesn't know what to do with it b/c of the hormonal imbalance, hence the glucophage......it can also cause thyroid problems and a few other health problems......hysterectomy is NOT nessecary and really a bad thing unless you have cancer or endometriosis....birth control pills will help you have a period (not glucophage!) and they will also help with the cysts b/c they stop ovulation, and with no ovulation there is no cyst production....another thing that has helped me personally is to follow an organic diet.....i don't put any food into my body that has been genetically modified or has added hormones.....that means no beef, and only organic milk and dairy (fds regulations no longer allow the use of hormones/steriods in the use of poultry and pork b/c studies have shown it can couse health problems, what a shock!)
i hope this has helped.....and i would also suggest finding a new doctor...i recently switched to a gyno who specializes in ovarian disorders and he has helped me SO much
There is a fabulous web site/message board all on PCOS....
here is the link...http://www.soulcysters.net/
A hysterectomy is unnecessary. Cystic ovaries could make it difficult to have a child in the future, but when caught early, it's pretty good chances that everything will go normally. I'm not an OB/GYN so make sure you still talk to yours, but I do know a bit about this disorder as I was improperly mis-diagnosed with it twice. They still don't know what is really wrong with me. Anyway, I was told birth control helps because it raises your estrogen levels which will help with the cysts. I think though that you need to see your doctor if you haven't gotten your period in a year. Go make an appointment and good luck.
This isn't really a question. If anyone needs advice about anything in High school problems let me know.?
I decided to post this because a lot of my friends keep asking me different kinds of advice about relationships, crushes, truthfullness, honest all the things that are confusing in highschool. So i thought i would make my advice known more. so just e-mail your problem and i'll get back to you soon. My E-mail is Talonce_Altura@yahoo.com. TTYLThis isn't really a question. If anyone needs advice about anything in High school problems let me know.?
How nice, but no thanks. When I need some high school advice, I let you know.
How nice, but no thanks. When I need some high school advice, I let you know.
Need Advice about my friend????
My friend is ';going out'; with a guy online. But, this guy is from a different country so they can't actually spend time together. Is that really a bf/gf relationship? What is it? I am kinda scared for her but I don't know what to do.Need Advice about my friend????
I really wouldn't consider it a ';real relationship';. I think your friend needs to be very careful about who she meets on-line, no matter if they're from a different country or not. The point is there are a lot of weirdos out there waiting to bait a naive person whom they can take advantage of or worse..the Internet has made it all the more easy for these type of folks.Need Advice about my friend????
Along with all th other warnings above...Lots of foreign guys want nothing more than to make some American woman think they are in love, and want to get married...a easy way for them to stay in the US when they come to ';visit'; her.
Please warn her.
my sister was in the same kind of realtionship to me that isn't a gf\bf relationship because they havent meet in person to sit down and talk and get to know each other. trust me it will fall because my sisters love did.
Let her go...theyre just talkin online. Harmless!
Tell your ';friend'; that it may never work to be honest.
Unless he moves or she moves.
Period end of story.
One of my friends sister is going out with another boy who lives far away and they will never meet, i think its completely stupid as how can you go out with someone if you've never met them and can't even meet up with them?! Some people act differently online as to how they do in real life so how can you be sure you really do like them? Its not a proper relationship but there is no harm in it, unless she plans to travel to his country and put herself in danger to meet him its only a bit of fun and very safe! hope i've helped :)
it is called a long distance relationship. tell ur friend to be careful, because there are a lot of weird people on the internet everyday.
I think that should tell her how you feel bout her ';going out'; with the guy from the other country. About this being a bf/gf relationship... I don't think that it would be a real relationship unless they both knew what each other looked like.
As long as they are planning to eventually get together (so that one or the other of them moves), sure, that's a perfectly valid relationship. Of course, trust is a big issue, especially in a long-distance relationship.
I had some similar experiances with one friend, and i'll tell you it is the scariest thing i ever went through with her. He seemed genuine and everything but i was still nervous. Then she invited him our country and he stayed within minutes of her house in a hotel, and we caught her walking out of his hotel one night. She didnt know who he was or anything and everything turned out okay but if your friend wants an online relationship, i dont see the harm in that, if she is looking for something real, she can't cuddle or go to the movies with her computer, and in the end, it wont give her a ring or a family.
it really isnt safe to date online ppl. How old is ur friend? for all she knows it is some old pervert sitting behind a computer with a wife and two kids. i would advise ur friend not to date online. there are stories of kids being kidnapped murdered and raped.... i would explain it to her and maybe look up news articles to show her.
Well I don't believe that is a relationship. your friend shouldn't be looking for people online because there are a lot of freaks out there these days. Tell your friend that they can get into some dangerous **** if they try going out with people over the internet. that person could also be a player and have a lot of girlfriends and she would never know because she doesn't know this person in real life. Find her a real guy who isn't hiding behind a digital screen
Sounds to me like they are just pen pals. I wouldn't worry about it to much. Sooner or later she might find someone to date locally.
u dnt need to wory about the relationship.
if she is enjyng talkng to him,let him do dat. as u said dat he is frm other country then i think there is no serious ness in the relationshp.
we mke number of frendsa on internet bt dat doest mean we we have a serious relationshp.
tke it easy, its normal.
you need to talk to her because its not very safe he could be saying one thing and doing another
i hate to say this but really all you can do is talk to her on how you feel about it... i really wouldn't consider it ';going out'; cause they're not going any where... but just try to be repectful of your friends feelings and thats all you can do.
its retarded...thats what it is
I really wouldn't consider it a ';real relationship';. I think your friend needs to be very careful about who she meets on-line, no matter if they're from a different country or not. The point is there are a lot of weirdos out there waiting to bait a naive person whom they can take advantage of or worse..the Internet has made it all the more easy for these type of folks.Need Advice about my friend????
Along with all th other warnings above...Lots of foreign guys want nothing more than to make some American woman think they are in love, and want to get married...a easy way for them to stay in the US when they come to ';visit'; her.
Please warn her.
my sister was in the same kind of realtionship to me that isn't a gf\bf relationship because they havent meet in person to sit down and talk and get to know each other. trust me it will fall because my sisters love did.
Let her go...theyre just talkin online. Harmless!
Tell your ';friend'; that it may never work to be honest.
Unless he moves or she moves.
Period end of story.
One of my friends sister is going out with another boy who lives far away and they will never meet, i think its completely stupid as how can you go out with someone if you've never met them and can't even meet up with them?! Some people act differently online as to how they do in real life so how can you be sure you really do like them? Its not a proper relationship but there is no harm in it, unless she plans to travel to his country and put herself in danger to meet him its only a bit of fun and very safe! hope i've helped :)
it is called a long distance relationship. tell ur friend to be careful, because there are a lot of weird people on the internet everyday.
I think that should tell her how you feel bout her ';going out'; with the guy from the other country. About this being a bf/gf relationship... I don't think that it would be a real relationship unless they both knew what each other looked like.
As long as they are planning to eventually get together (so that one or the other of them moves), sure, that's a perfectly valid relationship. Of course, trust is a big issue, especially in a long-distance relationship.
I had some similar experiances with one friend, and i'll tell you it is the scariest thing i ever went through with her. He seemed genuine and everything but i was still nervous. Then she invited him our country and he stayed within minutes of her house in a hotel, and we caught her walking out of his hotel one night. She didnt know who he was or anything and everything turned out okay but if your friend wants an online relationship, i dont see the harm in that, if she is looking for something real, she can't cuddle or go to the movies with her computer, and in the end, it wont give her a ring or a family.
it really isnt safe to date online ppl. How old is ur friend? for all she knows it is some old pervert sitting behind a computer with a wife and two kids. i would advise ur friend not to date online. there are stories of kids being kidnapped murdered and raped.... i would explain it to her and maybe look up news articles to show her.
Well I don't believe that is a relationship. your friend shouldn't be looking for people online because there are a lot of freaks out there these days. Tell your friend that they can get into some dangerous **** if they try going out with people over the internet. that person could also be a player and have a lot of girlfriends and she would never know because she doesn't know this person in real life. Find her a real guy who isn't hiding behind a digital screen
Sounds to me like they are just pen pals. I wouldn't worry about it to much. Sooner or later she might find someone to date locally.
u dnt need to wory about the relationship.
if she is enjyng talkng to him,let him do dat. as u said dat he is frm other country then i think there is no serious ness in the relationshp.
we mke number of frendsa on internet bt dat doest mean we we have a serious relationshp.
tke it easy, its normal.
you need to talk to her because its not very safe he could be saying one thing and doing another
i hate to say this but really all you can do is talk to her on how you feel about it... i really wouldn't consider it ';going out'; cause they're not going any where... but just try to be repectful of your friends feelings and thats all you can do.
its retarded...thats what it is
Any advice about travel in Costa Rica? Gay areas and local gay scene.?
Costa Rica is a fairly liberal country with relaxed attitudes. Outside of San Jose, Quepos is is a very popular beach town that is also gay friendly with many businesses catering to the gay community.perfect makeup
Advice about this situation?
Hey everyone.
I met a girl at a friend's house a couple of days ago. We started chatting, mostly about her, flirted for a long while and at the end of the night I got her number.
Today she txted me asking for me to give her a call sometime.
I was going to dial her number, but then I had a few doubts. I've been out of work for 6 months due to a neurological illness and haven't had a job since. It's also impacted on my finances obviously and I've lost a bit of my desire about going out to places with friends etc as a result.
I don't want her to think I'm a loser, but at the moment, because of my circumstances I'm afraid she will.
I know I could wait, but I feel like she's someone who's different to the girls I usually meet and someone I'd like to spend some time with.
What does everyone think about this situation?
Thanks :)Advice about this situation?
If you were interested enough to get her number, you might as well call her. Why pass up an opportunity?
And yeah, you have some things going on that are affecting you, obviously, but you never know how it will turn out. It can't hurt to talk to her!
I met a girl at a friend's house a couple of days ago. We started chatting, mostly about her, flirted for a long while and at the end of the night I got her number.
Today she txted me asking for me to give her a call sometime.
I was going to dial her number, but then I had a few doubts. I've been out of work for 6 months due to a neurological illness and haven't had a job since. It's also impacted on my finances obviously and I've lost a bit of my desire about going out to places with friends etc as a result.
I don't want her to think I'm a loser, but at the moment, because of my circumstances I'm afraid she will.
I know I could wait, but I feel like she's someone who's different to the girls I usually meet and someone I'd like to spend some time with.
What does everyone think about this situation?
Thanks :)Advice about this situation?
If you were interested enough to get her number, you might as well call her. Why pass up an opportunity?
And yeah, you have some things going on that are affecting you, obviously, but you never know how it will turn out. It can't hurt to talk to her!
Advice about adderall xr 15 mg?
I have been taking adderal 15 mg now for about 2 months. I think it is making me crazy. When I'm taking a test it just seems like I'm not reaaly there. I don't know if I need to cont, it or stop it. I have finals coming up in a month and I don't want to make bad on the last 2 test. Today I made a 61 ( I usually make in the 80's) I don't know if it was the adderall or the test b/c I studied like I do for all the others. Most people made the same but I just felt I was not there mentally. the nurse wont call me back and I have been told not to come off it cold turkeyAdvice about adderall xr 15 mg?
definatly talk to your doctor...maybe youre becoming tolerent to the 15mg? also, adderall isnt just about improving your lifestyle and grades and everything, its to treat ADD in general, to control your symptoms and maintain a stable mindset all day. like for example, ok, like when you first started taking adderall...you began to take notes in class, right? are you still taking notes now? or do you still feel like you can consentrate in school? if you realize that youre beginning to not be as focused as you were before...that means youve became tolerant to your dosage. if you have any questions or anything just email me- but good luck...and i hope this helped you in answering your question!!:)
definatly talk to your doctor...maybe youre becoming tolerent to the 15mg? also, adderall isnt just about improving your lifestyle and grades and everything, its to treat ADD in general, to control your symptoms and maintain a stable mindset all day. like for example, ok, like when you first started taking adderall...you began to take notes in class, right? are you still taking notes now? or do you still feel like you can consentrate in school? if you realize that youre beginning to not be as focused as you were before...that means youve became tolerant to your dosage. if you have any questions or anything just email me- but good luck...and i hope this helped you in answering your question!!:)
Advice about alcoholism needed ...?
i have a relative who is more than likely an alcoholic, they have been drinking a bottle of vodka about 6 days out of a week ,vodka bottles have been found in the washing machine and in cupboards, whilst on holiday they drank all day and then on the evening could only manage a half a lager as it makes them ill ( very bad stomache ) also i am angry as they have lost two siblings to alcohol,,,i know they have to admit it but i dont no what else to do ,also how long can they continue to drink like this before it turns in to a hospital situation : (Advice about alcoholism needed ...?
Sorry but it sounds like it's already a hospital/rehab situation. Do you ever watch that show, ';Intervention'; on I think A%26amp;E. This is what this person needs...an intervention. and the whole family needs counseling, not just the alcoholic.Advice about alcoholism needed ...?
Im sorry your seeing a loved one go through this and in fact your going through it also ..
My husband became an alcoholic only for him it was beer - I thought I could ';cure'; him - just because I was naive as nobody in my family drinks - I dont drink - I took him to Alcoholics Anonymous he only attended one meeting so I went behind his back to Alanon (this is for family and friends of an alcoholic) and I sat in the back out of their little circle they formed with their chairs and cryed my eyes out - I didnt want to hear what they were saying - they teach tollerance - I didnt want to tollerate his drinking and lying and hiding the evidence etc I wanted to FIX the problem.
My husband ended up leaving me for one of our customers (who has since left him) and he has tried to come back home but I have learned I cant help him at all - he needs to make the decision to get help - I believe he is now at a stage he needs rehab and will not go because he doesnt think he has a problem at all - unfortunately he has become very different from the man I married and there is nothing I can do about it so I wont take him back - I believe he is going to die an old lonely alcoholic or a young alcoholic as he will not accept he has this problem.
After he left I went around the yard and the house and was astonished I have taken 44 photos of piles of empty beer cans hidden in dense bushes and all over the place just like you are finding - I went to close the garage door (which hasnt been closed in years) I was showered with beer cans - its been a hard lesson for me to learn but at Alanon they were right - if you want to stay in the situation all you can do is learn to tollerate - I just couldnt do it - he did me a favor by leaving and I wont have him back.
Just one other thing that confuses me in the title question you say you have a relative who you suspect is an alcoholic (and yes I believe from what you have said he/she is) but the rest of the text goes on about them and they - so can I assume this is a husband and wife? Not really as you say they have lost 2 siblings to alcohol - not that it makes a difference in my comments either way but I just wondered.
I know this isnt what you want to hear as he is a loved one but until he is ready to admit to himself he has a problem there is nothing you can do.
Nothing would make me drink, more than someone interfering with my drinking. If you want to help them, you have to have another alcoholic talk to him, and take them to a meeting.
Phone AA Alcoholics Anonymous. They have a support group to assist those dealing with your particular problems. While it's not really a comfort but you will know that you are not alone trying to cope. They will guide you, if you wish, through these trying times.
Your relatives are surely alcoholics. They will most likely end up in hospital or a rehabilitation centre but that's short term and they need long term support in order to stop and AA seems to be the only way but only if they make the first step.
I'm truly sorry to hear how your mother's drinking is effecting the family.
Your mother has a serious disease called alcoholism. It is a ';progressive'; disease. In other words it continues to get worse unless the person quits drinking.
The fact that your mother could only handle half a litre before experiencing stomach problem indicates she is having the beginning of physical problems from her addiction. I would wager her liver is already showing some signs of excessive drinking. Probably elevated liver enymes and perhaps a ';fatty liver';.
She needs to get to a doctor. I would imagine that the next physical symptom that you can see would be her coughing up blood. That can come at anytime because there is no way of telling how much damage has been done already without an exam. I'm telling you this not to scare you but to let you know what's coming next.
You don't say how old you are . . . but I would look to a trusted counselor, clergyperson, doctor, to talk with about this. You can use some support for youself and your siblings and also to get some help with getting mum to a doctor and into treatment. You might also look to a 12-step group called Ala-Teen for people your own age in similar situations.
Peace and take care . . .
wow this is a tough one. my mom was the one for me. it was so upsetting cause yoy want to help but, they keep denying any problem. we tried a bunch of things like throwing her stuff out(without her seeing us), getting everyone together and talking to her(she felt attacked). its hard but you gotta just keep supporting them. they need to kick this habit only when ready. it sucks i know but true. they need some kind of hard blow foe them to wake up. i can say now that my mom has ben sober 15 years now thank god. suggest maybe going to aa meetings with them tell them you are worried about thier health something will work just keep trying. good luck
hi i know what your going through sort of as my parents were both alcoholics and a few of my friends also well my mum has suffered with ill health for a long time mainly due to alcohol so i would say it has bad effect as soon as they start to drink you might try talking to them when they are under the influence as this seems to get them talking about how they feel rather than trying to talk to them sober in the first instance then if you can find out what the trouble is, you might be able to help them join group therapy or get them counselling somewhere but remember it is up to the person on weather they want help or not
Yes I would call this person a alcoholic..Alcoholism is a disease. And like you said that person has to want to stop or get help himself you can't force him to get it...I have a family member that is an alcoholic who drank vodka everyday,the day she didn't take a drink she ended up having a seizure, her body became so depended on the vodka that when she did not have it her body went into shock..So if you are trying to get this person to stop make sure you get medical advice 1st because the body is not going to be able to handle it .Yes in time this will turn into a hospital situation..
Sorry but it sounds like it's already a hospital/rehab situation. Do you ever watch that show, ';Intervention'; on I think A%26amp;E. This is what this person needs...an intervention. and the whole family needs counseling, not just the alcoholic.Advice about alcoholism needed ...?
Im sorry your seeing a loved one go through this and in fact your going through it also ..
My husband became an alcoholic only for him it was beer - I thought I could ';cure'; him - just because I was naive as nobody in my family drinks - I dont drink - I took him to Alcoholics Anonymous he only attended one meeting so I went behind his back to Alanon (this is for family and friends of an alcoholic) and I sat in the back out of their little circle they formed with their chairs and cryed my eyes out - I didnt want to hear what they were saying - they teach tollerance - I didnt want to tollerate his drinking and lying and hiding the evidence etc I wanted to FIX the problem.
My husband ended up leaving me for one of our customers (who has since left him) and he has tried to come back home but I have learned I cant help him at all - he needs to make the decision to get help - I believe he is now at a stage he needs rehab and will not go because he doesnt think he has a problem at all - unfortunately he has become very different from the man I married and there is nothing I can do about it so I wont take him back - I believe he is going to die an old lonely alcoholic or a young alcoholic as he will not accept he has this problem.
After he left I went around the yard and the house and was astonished I have taken 44 photos of piles of empty beer cans hidden in dense bushes and all over the place just like you are finding - I went to close the garage door (which hasnt been closed in years) I was showered with beer cans - its been a hard lesson for me to learn but at Alanon they were right - if you want to stay in the situation all you can do is learn to tollerate - I just couldnt do it - he did me a favor by leaving and I wont have him back.
Just one other thing that confuses me in the title question you say you have a relative who you suspect is an alcoholic (and yes I believe from what you have said he/she is) but the rest of the text goes on about them and they - so can I assume this is a husband and wife? Not really as you say they have lost 2 siblings to alcohol - not that it makes a difference in my comments either way but I just wondered.
I know this isnt what you want to hear as he is a loved one but until he is ready to admit to himself he has a problem there is nothing you can do.
Nothing would make me drink, more than someone interfering with my drinking. If you want to help them, you have to have another alcoholic talk to him, and take them to a meeting.
Phone AA Alcoholics Anonymous. They have a support group to assist those dealing with your particular problems. While it's not really a comfort but you will know that you are not alone trying to cope. They will guide you, if you wish, through these trying times.
Your relatives are surely alcoholics. They will most likely end up in hospital or a rehabilitation centre but that's short term and they need long term support in order to stop and AA seems to be the only way but only if they make the first step.
I'm truly sorry to hear how your mother's drinking is effecting the family.
Your mother has a serious disease called alcoholism. It is a ';progressive'; disease. In other words it continues to get worse unless the person quits drinking.
The fact that your mother could only handle half a litre before experiencing stomach problem indicates she is having the beginning of physical problems from her addiction. I would wager her liver is already showing some signs of excessive drinking. Probably elevated liver enymes and perhaps a ';fatty liver';.
She needs to get to a doctor. I would imagine that the next physical symptom that you can see would be her coughing up blood. That can come at anytime because there is no way of telling how much damage has been done already without an exam. I'm telling you this not to scare you but to let you know what's coming next.
You don't say how old you are . . . but I would look to a trusted counselor, clergyperson, doctor, to talk with about this. You can use some support for youself and your siblings and also to get some help with getting mum to a doctor and into treatment. You might also look to a 12-step group called Ala-Teen for people your own age in similar situations.
Peace and take care . . .
wow this is a tough one. my mom was the one for me. it was so upsetting cause yoy want to help but, they keep denying any problem. we tried a bunch of things like throwing her stuff out(without her seeing us), getting everyone together and talking to her(she felt attacked). its hard but you gotta just keep supporting them. they need to kick this habit only when ready. it sucks i know but true. they need some kind of hard blow foe them to wake up. i can say now that my mom has ben sober 15 years now thank god. suggest maybe going to aa meetings with them tell them you are worried about thier health something will work just keep trying. good luck
hi i know what your going through sort of as my parents were both alcoholics and a few of my friends also well my mum has suffered with ill health for a long time mainly due to alcohol so i would say it has bad effect as soon as they start to drink you might try talking to them when they are under the influence as this seems to get them talking about how they feel rather than trying to talk to them sober in the first instance then if you can find out what the trouble is, you might be able to help them join group therapy or get them counselling somewhere but remember it is up to the person on weather they want help or not
Yes I would call this person a alcoholic..Alcoholism is a disease. And like you said that person has to want to stop or get help himself you can't force him to get it...I have a family member that is an alcoholic who drank vodka everyday,the day she didn't take a drink she ended up having a seizure, her body became so depended on the vodka that when she did not have it her body went into shock..So if you are trying to get this person to stop make sure you get medical advice 1st because the body is not going to be able to handle it .Yes in time this will turn into a hospital situation..
Advice about getting a summer job?
I posted this earlier, but all I got in answers were links to websites online. I don't want to be making pennies viewing stupid adds or taking surveys (or any other online crap)! I want a JOB!
Here's my old question:
I'm a college student so I need a temporary job. I'm staying with my grandparents in NY for the summer because I'm taking classes at a community college here........And I need a job, badly. I have absolutely no income. I have applied to everything I can find within reasonable distance. No one has called me, even though many of them have help wanted signs. I don't know what to do. Can someone help me out please?
I have bills to pay, and I have $40 in my checking account. Yah, that's not going very far. (When I have rent, credit card payments, cell phone, car payment, rip off gasoline, and other stuff.)
And no, I'm not going to strip or sell drugsAdvice about getting a summer job?
I had this problem for a while when I was in college and unfortunately there's not always a whole lot you can do. Just keep applying to places (and you might have to accept that you'll have to commute more than you would like to), but more importantly always call (usually a week after you apply) and check in to let them know you're still interested (they're busy people and calling people back is not always on the top of their to do lists). Good luck!
Here's my old question:
I'm a college student so I need a temporary job. I'm staying with my grandparents in NY for the summer because I'm taking classes at a community college here........And I need a job, badly. I have absolutely no income. I have applied to everything I can find within reasonable distance. No one has called me, even though many of them have help wanted signs. I don't know what to do. Can someone help me out please?
I have bills to pay, and I have $40 in my checking account. Yah, that's not going very far. (When I have rent, credit card payments, cell phone, car payment, rip off gasoline, and other stuff.)
And no, I'm not going to strip or sell drugsAdvice about getting a summer job?
I had this problem for a while when I was in college and unfortunately there's not always a whole lot you can do. Just keep applying to places (and you might have to accept that you'll have to commute more than you would like to), but more importantly always call (usually a week after you apply) and check in to let them know you're still interested (they're busy people and calling people back is not always on the top of their to do lists). Good luck!
Advice about joining high school football team...?
I joined my high school's football team freshman year and I love playing football. Only thing is that I really suck at remembering plays and it really stresses me out when at practice every body's lining up to run through a play and I'm the only one not knowing what they're doing. I'm now a sophomore and have been talking to the football coach that wants me to come back next year and tells me that they run through plays AALLLL the time and I will have them down no problem. I really want to go to summer camp and play again next year but that's the only thing that's troubling me. I played as the defensive end mostly but sometimes as the linebacker. Does anybody have any type of advice for me? Again I love playing the sport with a passion, I'm just not good with remembering the plays. Any advice is welcome......?Advice about joining high school football team...?
Cool question.
Everyone has trouble with plays...
Start by looking at just YOUR position.
DE always has QB Containment and NEVER defends a pass.
- you have to get by the blocking lineman then a defending Fullback, but you'll always rush and pressure the quarterback.
So alignment and assignment are all you have to memorize.
As a Linebacker, you need to know your GAP...and your zone...
IE: Mike back has A gap and hook to curl in zone w/ pass
Be careful...some defensive pictures will put a Mike back in B gap.
so know when...know where.Advice about joining high school football team...?
I feel your dilemma, as I too have that problem. If there's a kindering desire inside of you, that urges to escape the real world and delve into the world of football, then you should go for it. Don't let anyone or anything stop you or crush your dreams.
This is what you were put on this earth to do! Don't stop believing in yourself, i will always believe in you.
what i do to remember my plays for basketball is either i keep writing it down on a play bored thing or i just try and like think of a way to remember im on this side and im supposed to do this right now but all in all practice makes perfect!!
Play football.Nobody is sure of their assignment all the time. If you work at it in your spare time, and work with the coaches, then you will get the plays down. And when you get the plays down, then you can really start to shine.
Repetition.
It works for everything.
Depending on the length of the plays, you might even make some flash cards to help remember key parts of what you need to know.
Just play to play. It sound like your good, but a big tip is to not ask for advice, learn, that way it is implanted in your brain forEVER.
i would sagest really focusing on what the plays are don't just listen to them focus on them think about nothing but the plays
remember each play by pieces and the rest will come to you
work out and run. the coaches will do the rest.
talk to your coach and see if he has the plays diagramed or written up with a description of what each player does...if so, get a copy of it and study it while you start your off-season workouts
if not, ask if you can sit down with him and write some notes to study
and if you go to spring and summer workouts, all teams run through their stuff over and over so that the players get them down and then are really ready to go when the pads go on during late summer...you'll be ready
have some more confidence in yourself and relax a little bit, don't over-think, just play
I had the same problem last year bro, i am a defensive tackle and there is so many things to remember....the main thing to remember is that if you screw up, DO IT FULL SPEED!!!! hit the wrong guy? Hit him extra hard.
Talk to your defensive coach about maybe incorperating signs that you and your team make, hand signs or words....comunication is the most important part of football man. talk a lot.
then since you helpped make the signal it will be ten times easier to remember...
it worked for me man, it might help you
Cool question.
Everyone has trouble with plays...
Start by looking at just YOUR position.
DE always has QB Containment and NEVER defends a pass.
- you have to get by the blocking lineman then a defending Fullback, but you'll always rush and pressure the quarterback.
So alignment and assignment are all you have to memorize.
As a Linebacker, you need to know your GAP...and your zone...
IE: Mike back has A gap and hook to curl in zone w/ pass
Be careful...some defensive pictures will put a Mike back in B gap.
so know when...know where.Advice about joining high school football team...?
I feel your dilemma, as I too have that problem. If there's a kindering desire inside of you, that urges to escape the real world and delve into the world of football, then you should go for it. Don't let anyone or anything stop you or crush your dreams.
This is what you were put on this earth to do! Don't stop believing in yourself, i will always believe in you.
what i do to remember my plays for basketball is either i keep writing it down on a play bored thing or i just try and like think of a way to remember im on this side and im supposed to do this right now but all in all practice makes perfect!!
Play football.Nobody is sure of their assignment all the time. If you work at it in your spare time, and work with the coaches, then you will get the plays down. And when you get the plays down, then you can really start to shine.
Repetition.
It works for everything.
Depending on the length of the plays, you might even make some flash cards to help remember key parts of what you need to know.
Just play to play. It sound like your good, but a big tip is to not ask for advice, learn, that way it is implanted in your brain forEVER.
i would sagest really focusing on what the plays are don't just listen to them focus on them think about nothing but the plays
remember each play by pieces and the rest will come to you
work out and run. the coaches will do the rest.
talk to your coach and see if he has the plays diagramed or written up with a description of what each player does...if so, get a copy of it and study it while you start your off-season workouts
if not, ask if you can sit down with him and write some notes to study
and if you go to spring and summer workouts, all teams run through their stuff over and over so that the players get them down and then are really ready to go when the pads go on during late summer...you'll be ready
have some more confidence in yourself and relax a little bit, don't over-think, just play
I had the same problem last year bro, i am a defensive tackle and there is so many things to remember....the main thing to remember is that if you screw up, DO IT FULL SPEED!!!! hit the wrong guy? Hit him extra hard.
Talk to your defensive coach about maybe incorperating signs that you and your team make, hand signs or words....comunication is the most important part of football man. talk a lot.
then since you helpped make the signal it will be ten times easier to remember...
it worked for me man, it might help you
Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
I'm travelling to Brazil, Peru, Argentina and Chile for 4 months. I have quite a few places I want to go to but has anyone been to any places you'd recommend not to be missed?Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
The Plains of Nazca. The drawings are pretty cool from the air. Bariloche in Argentina.. If you go in July, you can ski.. since it is winter there. Iguazu falls is worth seeing, also. I would also recommend a side trip to the easter islands off the chilean coast, The statues are pretty cool. I like Macchu Picchu but its really, really touristy.. basically a small city at the base. Lake titicaca is a lake.. so what? Pour some water on you airplane tray and make a paper boat. Then youll have a 5 mile high lake. Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
I am Brazilian so I can answer about Brazil. Our northest beaches are amazing. I suggest the following beaches: Porto de Galinhas (in Pernambuco), Itacar茅 (in Bahia), Fernando de NOronha (island in Pernambuco), Praia de Pipa (in Rio Grande do Norte), Maragogi (in Alagoas).
If you are not fan of beach, you can visit Bonito (amazing place with beautiful caverns, rivers, lakes), Chapada Diamantina (amazing landscape), or Len莽玫is Maranhenses.
I had visit Argentina and Chile and Buenos Aires is a beautiful city to visit, also Santiago City but in Argentina you have Patagonia (amazing cold place) and in Chile you have Ilha da P谩scoa. I had attached some links with photos for you.
You cannot miss Buenos Aires, is by far the most cosmopolitan city in latinamerica. Go south and you will find Bariloche it's also worht the trip, in winter is as beautiful as switzerlad.
Iguazu Falls - borders with Brazil, Paraguay and Argentina (or maybe Uruguay)
Bigger than Victoria Falls - massive natural wonder!
Lake Titicaca on the Peru, Bolivia Border is a must. Worlds Highest navigable lake.
You can't miss Machu Picchu, If you can do the 4 day Inca Trail hike...also Patagonia.
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The Plains of Nazca. The drawings are pretty cool from the air. Bariloche in Argentina.. If you go in July, you can ski.. since it is winter there. Iguazu falls is worth seeing, also. I would also recommend a side trip to the easter islands off the chilean coast, The statues are pretty cool. I like Macchu Picchu but its really, really touristy.. basically a small city at the base. Lake titicaca is a lake.. so what? Pour some water on you airplane tray and make a paper boat. Then youll have a 5 mile high lake. Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
I am Brazilian so I can answer about Brazil. Our northest beaches are amazing. I suggest the following beaches: Porto de Galinhas (in Pernambuco), Itacar茅 (in Bahia), Fernando de NOronha (island in Pernambuco), Praia de Pipa (in Rio Grande do Norte), Maragogi (in Alagoas).
If you are not fan of beach, you can visit Bonito (amazing place with beautiful caverns, rivers, lakes), Chapada Diamantina (amazing landscape), or Len莽玫is Maranhenses.
I had visit Argentina and Chile and Buenos Aires is a beautiful city to visit, also Santiago City but in Argentina you have Patagonia (amazing cold place) and in Chile you have Ilha da P谩scoa. I had attached some links with photos for you.
You cannot miss Buenos Aires, is by far the most cosmopolitan city in latinamerica. Go south and you will find Bariloche it's also worht the trip, in winter is as beautiful as switzerlad.
Iguazu Falls - borders with Brazil, Paraguay and Argentina (or maybe Uruguay)
Bigger than Victoria Falls - massive natural wonder!
Lake Titicaca on the Peru, Bolivia Border is a must. Worlds Highest navigable lake.
You can't miss Machu Picchu, If you can do the 4 day Inca Trail hike...also Patagonia.
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Advice about my daughter?
I have a 4 year old daughter and her father has been hit and miss the past year. He shows up when he wants to and then leaves for many months at a time. I have not seen child support in over a yr %26amp; half. (this is not the issue though) I have taken him back to court to sue him for his rights. I am asking for full custody. He smokes around her even though she is allergic to cigarette smoke.
I have been as patient as I can, but it is seeming tedious. He has everyone he knows call to ask for custody, but never him.
What are my chances of winning full custody?
What should I do if full custody is not granted?Advice about my daughter?
talk to your lawyer.... they'll tell you what you can do... and suggest the best course of action.Advice about my daughter?
document the times he does and does not show up.. his phone calls, his life style.. is he sleeping around? does he watch porn.... he smokes, he drinks excessively? what kind of house? car? what job hours? friends? document all of that... get pictures! these will help you win! and get a GOOD lawyer!
I would advise speaking to a lawyer on the best way to build evidence for your case ASAP.
More time to gather information like he smokes around a young child with allergies will make your custody fight easier when the time comes.
W ITH THE EVIDENCE YOU HAVE, YOU MAY GET WHAT YOU WANT.
You have a very good chance of getting sole physical custody of your four year old, but very little chance of having his parental rights removed, if that is what you are suggesting when you write ';sue him for his rights';. You will get a formal court order specifying visitation and you are free to hold him strictly to what the order says about when and for how long he can see her. You can ask that there be no smoking around the child and that can be put in the order, as well as no drinking and driving, an approved child seat, things like that. You can request no overnights but you may not get that. You won't be able to get a no visitation judgment from the court unless you can prove he is a threat to your daughter's health and life.
one thing you should always do is document EVERYTHING!!
from the day and time he shows up to when he leaves. also document the things he says. and when he does pay child support.
you should also discuss things with him. it isnt healthy for your daughter to see him whenever he pleases. it should be a consistent visit for your daughters sake. he shouldnt be so selfish as to come see her and then leave for long periods of time.
that poor little girl deserves so much better.
fight it in court and dont give up. explain that he smokes in front of her and that he doesnt seem to care that she is allergic to it.
explain that your daughter probably misses him and asks when he will be back (bc im pretty sure she does) but even if you dont get full custody make sure you love your daughter and treat her right. she will always love you for that. :]
i really hope this helped.
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You CAN NOT prove he is unfit! You will piss the judge off even going into his court with nothing more than what you have here! If you haven't got child support that's YOUR fault for not staying on top of it! You could have him in jail for not paying! Having bad health IS NOT a reasond to terminate someone's parental rights! Take him to court for disobeying court ordered child support and leave it at that, as you are in the WRONG for even trying to terminate his parental rights! YOUR daughter has a right to see her Father no matter if he's what YOU think is a good Father or not! Your daughterwill want to know her Father ya know!
I have been as patient as I can, but it is seeming tedious. He has everyone he knows call to ask for custody, but never him.
What are my chances of winning full custody?
What should I do if full custody is not granted?Advice about my daughter?
talk to your lawyer.... they'll tell you what you can do... and suggest the best course of action.Advice about my daughter?
document the times he does and does not show up.. his phone calls, his life style.. is he sleeping around? does he watch porn.... he smokes, he drinks excessively? what kind of house? car? what job hours? friends? document all of that... get pictures! these will help you win! and get a GOOD lawyer!
I would advise speaking to a lawyer on the best way to build evidence for your case ASAP.
More time to gather information like he smokes around a young child with allergies will make your custody fight easier when the time comes.
W ITH THE EVIDENCE YOU HAVE, YOU MAY GET WHAT YOU WANT.
You have a very good chance of getting sole physical custody of your four year old, but very little chance of having his parental rights removed, if that is what you are suggesting when you write ';sue him for his rights';. You will get a formal court order specifying visitation and you are free to hold him strictly to what the order says about when and for how long he can see her. You can ask that there be no smoking around the child and that can be put in the order, as well as no drinking and driving, an approved child seat, things like that. You can request no overnights but you may not get that. You won't be able to get a no visitation judgment from the court unless you can prove he is a threat to your daughter's health and life.
one thing you should always do is document EVERYTHING!!
from the day and time he shows up to when he leaves. also document the things he says. and when he does pay child support.
you should also discuss things with him. it isnt healthy for your daughter to see him whenever he pleases. it should be a consistent visit for your daughters sake. he shouldnt be so selfish as to come see her and then leave for long periods of time.
that poor little girl deserves so much better.
fight it in court and dont give up. explain that he smokes in front of her and that he doesnt seem to care that she is allergic to it.
explain that your daughter probably misses him and asks when he will be back (bc im pretty sure she does) but even if you dont get full custody make sure you love your daughter and treat her right. she will always love you for that. :]
i really hope this helped.
vote me best please
You CAN NOT prove he is unfit! You will piss the judge off even going into his court with nothing more than what you have here! If you haven't got child support that's YOUR fault for not staying on top of it! You could have him in jail for not paying! Having bad health IS NOT a reasond to terminate someone's parental rights! Take him to court for disobeying court ordered child support and leave it at that, as you are in the WRONG for even trying to terminate his parental rights! YOUR daughter has a right to see her Father no matter if he's what YOU think is a good Father or not! Your daughterwill want to know her Father ya know!
Advice about recurring depression?
Well i've had academic problems at school, and i've also watch alot of porn, shemale porn this is problably a stupid question. basically i to make a long story short, i've been depressed, clincial I guess, and i've been having sex with transsecual escorts, and i'm confsued as hell. i'm in therapy, she said something about i guess i had lost my sex drive, so i tried it and liek it so then i just assumed that i was gay or whatever, i'm confused about my sexucality and i'm still depressed. i've gotten out of depression. i always recover, and build confidence and self esteem to a healthy level, and then i take a risk ie sex with a transsexual(no disrespect to them) and then i crash and began and whirlpool and negative thoguht scuh as *****..etc... i can't take it anymore i swore to myself i would not do it again, i didn't even want to do it i thought i would be a big deal, i had everything rolling then i did it and i crashed (takes about a full week for me to crash) ....Advice about recurring depression?
Stop giving yourself a hard time. Maybe you are driven to do things that you think are risky?
Eat well, stop giving yourself a hard time, everyone's sexuality is different, different things get us going. As long as you don't harm anyone there's no reason to feel guilt. Only time and a bit of introspection can help you figure out your sexual preference. If I feel bad I take myself out of my familiar surroundings and go off for a few days. It helps me think and figure stuff out.
You'll get there.
Stop giving yourself a hard time. Maybe you are driven to do things that you think are risky?
Eat well, stop giving yourself a hard time, everyone's sexuality is different, different things get us going. As long as you don't harm anyone there's no reason to feel guilt. Only time and a bit of introspection can help you figure out your sexual preference. If I feel bad I take myself out of my familiar surroundings and go off for a few days. It helps me think and figure stuff out.
You'll get there.
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