http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
i want it to look very real and very good. i feel like something is still of but ive been working at it so long im worried i cant see the imperfections clearly so can you judge?
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
Did you ask a question on Yahoo about what you should say to a boy or girl you liked, or something involving your sexuality, or family troubles, and actually took some random person's advice? Well I think it'd be cool if you'd tell your story, like what you asked and what advice you took, and if it worked or not!Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(perfect makeup
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
major: English
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
so later on today my boyfriend is suppose to be coming over to meet my parents, and i'm scared on how my father will react because my boyfriend is black. i've tried talking with my dad today , but he really didn't listen and acted as if he was upset. i know my mom will be ok with it, but not my father cause he wants our family to stay one race. and i can't sleep because i'm scared about how my father will react tomorrow, and i having mixed thoughts because i love my boyfriend, and i don't want to lose him because of my father :(Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.
Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.
You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.
But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.
Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.
Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.
and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.
Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.
just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him
best of luck dear
have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf
I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
1) why do guys always ask girl what all they've done with a guy, if they say only made out or something is that turn off.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
just wondering.
and
2) i just turned 15, never kissed,
but everyone else i know has,
and i'm scared that boys wont like me cause i'm not experienced,
any advice on what to do or how to cope with this, its been bothering me for awhile.I feel dumb, and need advice about this.?
you are not dumb. just because u haven't done anything wit a guy doesn't mean dat u won't get a guy.
u r only 15 so don't stress it just chill.
and most guys will f**k with any girl if the girl is willing to give it up to dem. So don't just kiss or f**k any guy make sure that u really wanna be with him and that he honestly loves u for u. Don't change urself for anybody.
I need advice about bullies.?
people at my school and my sister always tell me that i eat too much and that i'm fat and that i need to lose some weight. i don't think i'm really that big i'm like a size 8 and sometimes a size 10. it really hurts and i cry alot and i want to make myself throw up but ive heard that is not good. someone please tell me what to do !I need advice about bullies.?
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
I need advice about a girl....?
yah well i met this girl and we wernt freinds at first and then we got separated into a different crowd a period where we dont talk freindly for about a year and for 9 months she didnt talk at all and the next 3 she was mean and now for about 3 weeks she is super nice to me one day she comes up to me and jumps forward into my arms.....and holds on tight and does this almost regulary then goes on a trip never talks to me again comes back after 4 months of silence and apologizes when i try to talk to her she completely ignores me and i can only talk to her on im we used to be like best freinds man help! and she is apoligizing about being a ***** in her words and she is doing it again she broke a promise about smoking and drinking and would never do it help! please!I need advice about a girl....?
dude, strap on a set of balls and move on, what the heck are you messing with her, lots of women out thereI need advice about a girl....?
get a life...
one word - immature.
Leave her alone- don't mess with her.
It's her choice, don't get into the mess my dude, don't.
It will only cause more trouble
she is emotionally disturbed!
talk to your mom for advice silly!
tHIS GIRL IS RIDING AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COSTER! Ride it with her. Yeah, buy a ticket and be right at her side when she needs u. u R A GREAT FRIEND AND THIS WHOLE THING LOOKS ADORABLE!
dude, strap on a set of balls and move on, what the heck are you messing with her, lots of women out thereI need advice about a girl....?
get a life...
one word - immature.
Leave her alone- don't mess with her.
It's her choice, don't get into the mess my dude, don't.
It will only cause more trouble
she is emotionally disturbed!
talk to your mom for advice silly!
tHIS GIRL IS RIDING AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COSTER! Ride it with her. Yeah, buy a ticket and be right at her side when she needs u. u R A GREAT FRIEND AND THIS WHOLE THING LOOKS ADORABLE!
Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
grrr.. acne!! i hate it!!! i just wanna know, does putting toothpaste like colgate help? it sounds kinda weird.. donn't you think? i know for a fact that proactiv doesn't work!!!!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.perfect makeup
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
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toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.
I need advice about dating?
Well, I'm 14, and I'm not really allowed to have a boyfriend, which sucks. I date anyway, but I haven't been able to go anywhere w/ him because of my freakin mom... What should I do? I mean, I don't like DO anything w/ him, but I'd like to go somewhere, like the movies.... any advice?I need advice about dating?
this is something you'll have to work out with your mom. Ask her if maybe it would be alright if you went with a group and not just the 2 of you or to more open public place where you'll have little chances to be too alone. Your mom is doing this to protect you not make you mad or make you hate her. Show her that you are mature enough to handle a boyfriend. Give her something to trust. What ever you do don't do it behind her back she will find out and then it will be bad for you. Good Luck.I need advice about dating?
mention to your mom, if she remembers being 14? and see what she says. let her know that she can trust you. if she does let you eventually, be hom at the time she says and so on. eventually she will learn that she can trust you and she will let you do more. for the time being, let her know that you are just going out to the movies with friends. but remember what i said. goodluck
The boys your own age are far too immature .... the older ones are interseted in what your mother fears the most ... making you a hit -n- run on the sex intersatate .... Just be with your friends ... do the group gathering thing to see movies ... learn to flirt ...talk the talk and just play ... there is plenty ot time to find the ';keeper'; later ... right now there under the limit or poaching !!!
Listen to your mother !!
find a reason to have a party at your house have him over introduce him to your parents but have him prepared and your parent's wont know what hit them
your 14 your grown now you should do what you want forget your mom and do the horizontal mambo have fun
First stop sneaking around behind your mother's back. If she finds out it may be a lot longer till you are allowed to date. Sit down with her and talk to her, calmly and ask her if you are with a group, could you go to the movies or wherever. She probably doesn't want you alone with a boy and at 14, I agree. Boys at that age have only one thing on their young minds. You are too young, don't try to grow up so quickly.
shut up and do wat mom says
the parent in me say mind you mom. the kid i was says to go with your best friend and have him meet you somewhere where you mom will let you and your bf go. again the kid in me says don't tell your mom he is going to be there
You're 14 you don't need to be dating, you need to focus on your education.
you must listen to ur mom and you must obey her, you must respect all of her decisions because it is not for her nor it is for you girl,,, you are too young to have a boyfriend!!!
Apologize to your mom for your choice of adjectives and try and get him to win her trust. You can't do that for him and he should be willing to do that for you. Your mother is just doing what parents should do , keep you from having sex as long as possible. Give her credit having been where you are now and not wanting you to get hurt at a young age if ever.
talk to your mom. Tell her that it is better you have a healthy relationship that she knows about and you can ask advice about, rather than one behind her back. Ask her if she disagrees with that. Plus secretive relationships always hurt the one who you're dating. He will feel like you are either ashamed of him, or don't think of him as being important enough for your parents to know. It won't matter what you'll tell him. Thats what he will feel inside.
this is something you'll have to work out with your mom. Ask her if maybe it would be alright if you went with a group and not just the 2 of you or to more open public place where you'll have little chances to be too alone. Your mom is doing this to protect you not make you mad or make you hate her. Show her that you are mature enough to handle a boyfriend. Give her something to trust. What ever you do don't do it behind her back she will find out and then it will be bad for you. Good Luck.I need advice about dating?
mention to your mom, if she remembers being 14? and see what she says. let her know that she can trust you. if she does let you eventually, be hom at the time she says and so on. eventually she will learn that she can trust you and she will let you do more. for the time being, let her know that you are just going out to the movies with friends. but remember what i said. goodluck
The boys your own age are far too immature .... the older ones are interseted in what your mother fears the most ... making you a hit -n- run on the sex intersatate .... Just be with your friends ... do the group gathering thing to see movies ... learn to flirt ...talk the talk and just play ... there is plenty ot time to find the ';keeper'; later ... right now there under the limit or poaching !!!
Listen to your mother !!
find a reason to have a party at your house have him over introduce him to your parents but have him prepared and your parent's wont know what hit them
your 14 your grown now you should do what you want forget your mom and do the horizontal mambo have fun
First stop sneaking around behind your mother's back. If she finds out it may be a lot longer till you are allowed to date. Sit down with her and talk to her, calmly and ask her if you are with a group, could you go to the movies or wherever. She probably doesn't want you alone with a boy and at 14, I agree. Boys at that age have only one thing on their young minds. You are too young, don't try to grow up so quickly.
shut up and do wat mom says
the parent in me say mind you mom. the kid i was says to go with your best friend and have him meet you somewhere where you mom will let you and your bf go. again the kid in me says don't tell your mom he is going to be there
You're 14 you don't need to be dating, you need to focus on your education.
you must listen to ur mom and you must obey her, you must respect all of her decisions because it is not for her nor it is for you girl,,, you are too young to have a boyfriend!!!
Apologize to your mom for your choice of adjectives and try and get him to win her trust. You can't do that for him and he should be willing to do that for you. Your mother is just doing what parents should do , keep you from having sex as long as possible. Give her credit having been where you are now and not wanting you to get hurt at a young age if ever.
talk to your mom. Tell her that it is better you have a healthy relationship that she knows about and you can ask advice about, rather than one behind her back. Ask her if she disagrees with that. Plus secretive relationships always hurt the one who you're dating. He will feel like you are either ashamed of him, or don't think of him as being important enough for your parents to know. It won't matter what you'll tell him. Thats what he will feel inside.
Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
Obviously, I cannot provide all the information and it is also being told by my side.
I messed things up with a guy and hurt both of us in the process.
Months ago, we lost my virginity together. Soon after, he distanced himself because I was too emotional, too soon. I tried to make it serious when he told me before-hand that he didn't want anything serious.
Months later, I couldn't let it go. I saw something, I thought was the truth, but ended up being a joke - He said he followed these ';rules'; that basically degrade women. I was hurt, so to make things worse, I wrote (under this id), pretending to be another girl. When he expressed interest in seeing ';Becky,'; I wrote as myself - and said mean things about how it all made me feel. He wrote back - the truth, which hurt. I am truly sorry for my actions.
He asked to not contact him anymore. I sent a ';sorry'; and told him I'd honor his request.
Do you think he could ever forgive me for my stupidity? Is there anything more I could do?Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
i stopped reading it after he said he doesn't want anything serious....if that's the case why did he take your virginity.....you don't need to be sorry tell him to kick rocksSeeking your advice about forgiveness?
Girl, I've been there. I did the same thing (pretended to be another woman on-line) to my (previous) live-in partner of seven years. He fell for it hook-line %26amp; sinker! He turned out to be a two timer too.
My advice, leave that player alone forever. He WILL break your heart again and again.
You are hurting and you need time to get over him. But don't lose you pride (be strong). He doesn't love you and probably never will.
Get a new mind-set. Next time he sees you, give him a show! Let him see you holding your head high and even if you have to pretend, act very happy and care free. People like him only notice girls that are happy and flirty. He doesn't want to hear you complain about how he hurts you.
Give him a show girl!
Good luck and take care.
He never wanted anything serious and if he is talking to ';Becky'; then he has proved that. Besides how many others are out there. Move on find someone who will treat you like you deserve. If he isn't going to be in a serious relationship then why would you want to do anymore?
Move on
It sounds to me like he used you to get what he wanted girl, and doesn't give a damb about you. Sorry to be blunt, but I am looking at this through objective eyes. Find yourself a guy who really cares about you!
as said in bible 70 times seven to forgive others
to be honest I think you got used because right after you had sex he was suddenly uninterested. If a person doesn't want a serious relationship then they shouldn't be having sex because that's a sign of togetherness in some way right? He got what he wanted and it's over. You should have been more careful. You lost your virginity to a jerk. You weren't too emotional he lead you on to believe that he wanted to be with you and then took the gift and hit the highway.
You have to let him cool off. Please do not call him; it seems you have a crush with him. Let him go.
First of all, losing your virginity is a big thing for most girls. You will always have some sort of an emotional attachment to the one who took your virginity.
You need to let it go, he obviously was in it to ';Score'; - Guys think is a big thing to take a girls virginity.
You should move on and not worry about what he thinks, in my opinion, it's good that you said what you needed to say.
Move on and find someone that will respect you.
I messed things up with a guy and hurt both of us in the process.
Months ago, we lost my virginity together. Soon after, he distanced himself because I was too emotional, too soon. I tried to make it serious when he told me before-hand that he didn't want anything serious.
Months later, I couldn't let it go. I saw something, I thought was the truth, but ended up being a joke - He said he followed these ';rules'; that basically degrade women. I was hurt, so to make things worse, I wrote (under this id), pretending to be another girl. When he expressed interest in seeing ';Becky,'; I wrote as myself - and said mean things about how it all made me feel. He wrote back - the truth, which hurt. I am truly sorry for my actions.
He asked to not contact him anymore. I sent a ';sorry'; and told him I'd honor his request.
Do you think he could ever forgive me for my stupidity? Is there anything more I could do?Seeking your advice about forgiveness?
i stopped reading it after he said he doesn't want anything serious....if that's the case why did he take your virginity.....you don't need to be sorry tell him to kick rocksSeeking your advice about forgiveness?
Girl, I've been there. I did the same thing (pretended to be another woman on-line) to my (previous) live-in partner of seven years. He fell for it hook-line %26amp; sinker! He turned out to be a two timer too.
My advice, leave that player alone forever. He WILL break your heart again and again.
You are hurting and you need time to get over him. But don't lose you pride (be strong). He doesn't love you and probably never will.
Get a new mind-set. Next time he sees you, give him a show! Let him see you holding your head high and even if you have to pretend, act very happy and care free. People like him only notice girls that are happy and flirty. He doesn't want to hear you complain about how he hurts you.
Give him a show girl!
Good luck and take care.
He never wanted anything serious and if he is talking to ';Becky'; then he has proved that. Besides how many others are out there. Move on find someone who will treat you like you deserve. If he isn't going to be in a serious relationship then why would you want to do anymore?
Move on
It sounds to me like he used you to get what he wanted girl, and doesn't give a damb about you. Sorry to be blunt, but I am looking at this through objective eyes. Find yourself a guy who really cares about you!
as said in bible 70 times seven to forgive others
to be honest I think you got used because right after you had sex he was suddenly uninterested. If a person doesn't want a serious relationship then they shouldn't be having sex because that's a sign of togetherness in some way right? He got what he wanted and it's over. You should have been more careful. You lost your virginity to a jerk. You weren't too emotional he lead you on to believe that he wanted to be with you and then took the gift and hit the highway.
You have to let him cool off. Please do not call him; it seems you have a crush with him. Let him go.
First of all, losing your virginity is a big thing for most girls. You will always have some sort of an emotional attachment to the one who took your virginity.
You need to let it go, he obviously was in it to ';Score'; - Guys think is a big thing to take a girls virginity.
You should move on and not worry about what he thinks, in my opinion, it's good that you said what you needed to say.
Move on and find someone that will respect you.
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
i used to talk to him online a lot
and then one day he randomly came over to my friend's house to drink and hang out.. he ended up hooking up with my friend.
he just randomly added me on myspace and started replying to my bulletins and sending me messages and stuff
i asked him when i was going to get to see him and he told me that whenever he has a day off work, he can take me to the beach. :) then he asked for my number
this guy is EXTREMELY good looking and a nice guy from what i know..
i need advice on how far i should go on the first date, second, third, etc..
i don't want to mess this up.. so far my guy friend's advice is this::
date one hold hands maybe, kiss goodnight no tongue
date two, do the same but with more consistency
(3 - make out
4 - heavy making out
any advice on how to try to make this one last ?Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
So he hooked up with your friend, and I'm assuming nothing ever came of it... so first you need to talk to your friend and make sure he's not just a one night person.
If he seems like he's going to be a good guy, and treated your friend right then go for it. But I wouldn't offer anything more then a kiss for several dates, that way you know he's serious and wants to hang in there for a while. It wouldn't be fun if you did other things with him and he never called you back, so make sure he's in it for a relationship. Try to get to know him, and date him for a while before you ever do anything with him. If you have sex on the first few dates the relationship almost never works.Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
Hooked up with your friend and I assume this was a one time shot. This good looking guy is a confirmed ladies man, forget him. From your question and your plan to ration your sexual activity with him you are trying for a real relationship. No dice with this candidate. He gets what he wants immediately without effort. He will use you and discard you and he will want the home run on the first ';date';.
don't put it on a time line. and don't feel like you have to go so far at any point. don't rush things especially until you get to know the guy better. do whatever feels right and only what you are ready for and don't get caught up in the heat of the moment.
I am an older woman, btw - thank you for asking us; I appreciate the opportunity!
This guy is NOT into you - want to know how to know? this is from the lips of men - if a man is into you - he doesn't wait til Saturday night to ask you for a date; he asks you the week before. He wouldn't casually email you, and see you later- he;d be at your door. He'd call you on the phone, often, and he would make great efforts to see you.
My advice - blow him away by blowing him off - don't say yes to his first request for a date - make an excuse that you already have plans. Guys want to know they have something of great value - and you do not demonstrate that by giving him your 'special gifts' on the first, second or 22nd date; you make him wait, til you know that he is worth your salt. You dont' want a man for a night; you want him for a life time- and you don't do that, by giving yourself away cheap.
and then one day he randomly came over to my friend's house to drink and hang out.. he ended up hooking up with my friend.
he just randomly added me on myspace and started replying to my bulletins and sending me messages and stuff
i asked him when i was going to get to see him and he told me that whenever he has a day off work, he can take me to the beach. :) then he asked for my number
this guy is EXTREMELY good looking and a nice guy from what i know..
i need advice on how far i should go on the first date, second, third, etc..
i don't want to mess this up.. so far my guy friend's advice is this::
date one hold hands maybe, kiss goodnight no tongue
date two, do the same but with more consistency
(3 - make out
4 - heavy making out
any advice on how to try to make this one last ?Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
So he hooked up with your friend, and I'm assuming nothing ever came of it... so first you need to talk to your friend and make sure he's not just a one night person.
If he seems like he's going to be a good guy, and treated your friend right then go for it. But I wouldn't offer anything more then a kiss for several dates, that way you know he's serious and wants to hang in there for a while. It wouldn't be fun if you did other things with him and he never called you back, so make sure he's in it for a relationship. Try to get to know him, and date him for a while before you ever do anything with him. If you have sex on the first few dates the relationship almost never works.Need advice on boy, preferrably from older women please.?
Hooked up with your friend and I assume this was a one time shot. This good looking guy is a confirmed ladies man, forget him. From your question and your plan to ration your sexual activity with him you are trying for a real relationship. No dice with this candidate. He gets what he wants immediately without effort. He will use you and discard you and he will want the home run on the first ';date';.
don't put it on a time line. and don't feel like you have to go so far at any point. don't rush things especially until you get to know the guy better. do whatever feels right and only what you are ready for and don't get caught up in the heat of the moment.
I am an older woman, btw - thank you for asking us; I appreciate the opportunity!
This guy is NOT into you - want to know how to know? this is from the lips of men - if a man is into you - he doesn't wait til Saturday night to ask you for a date; he asks you the week before. He wouldn't casually email you, and see you later- he;d be at your door. He'd call you on the phone, often, and he would make great efforts to see you.
My advice - blow him away by blowing him off - don't say yes to his first request for a date - make an excuse that you already have plans. Guys want to know they have something of great value - and you do not demonstrate that by giving him your 'special gifts' on the first, second or 22nd date; you make him wait, til you know that he is worth your salt. You dont' want a man for a night; you want him for a life time- and you don't do that, by giving yourself away cheap.
Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
i want it to look very real and very good. i feel like something is still of but ive been working at it so long im worried i cant see the imperfections clearly so can you judge?
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.perfect makeup
here is the untouched pic
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=unsaved.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch4
and here is the photoshopped pne
http://s8.photobucket.com/albums/a31/chicago85thst/shopped/?action=view%26amp;current=e16ed5dc.jpg%26amp;refPage=%26amp;imgAnch=imgAnch1
please tell me anything about the 2nd pic that looks bad because i can fix it. anything about the shape of her face, etc.. thankyouCan you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
Well let's just say photoshop isn't for you.Can you give me some advice about this pic i photoshopped (pics inside)?
the teeth, they look a bit big and out of place.
maybe its just personnal prefferance but thats my 2 cents.
good work btw.
the eye looks a little small or something...maybe its the eyebrow
Well the second pic, around the right corner of the bottom lip, it looks a little bulgy. And the eyes are way far from her nose, and that it looks like her eyes and eyebrows are receding towards her forehead. But other than that, everything looks kool.
Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
Did you ask a question on Yahoo about what you should say to a boy or girl you liked, or something involving your sexuality, or family troubles, and actually took some random person's advice? Well I think it'd be cool if you'd tell your story, like what you asked and what advice you took, and if it worked or not!Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
i did! it was for my sister and she needed a skin problem advice and she took the advice and it worked but not every advice is good to take and some people even make fun of you.Did You Take Someone's Advice About Your Life?
i do take other peoples advice cause a lot of people on here really do try to help. i didnt base the decion i made on the advice i got here but i did keep in on mind. i have made new frieds here that have ended helping me out a lot. Why do you ask ???? and if you help with some thing i am willing to help you.
i did once, and the replies were too vague to put into practical application, probably because the details were too involved. even though there were no clear cut correct replies, i did get bits and pieces that helped me piece together a solution.
the good thing about this is the varied replies and different points of view. you can look at thing with a fresh, unbiased perspective.
yup, my friends were leaving me out and someone told me to talk to them. since then they have been WAY nicer, it's insane . because two of us were being left out and know the other girl still is. i told her to talk to them but she won't so that's the way things go!
i did , and it opened my mind in other ways, made me think alot about how they judge but of course each one is speaking from his previous expeirence but at the end i follow the one i think it is the best for me.
I do submit questions but I do not take them I just look at personal stories and opinions on wat I can do I nver really took the advise
well i'm using this service from 3 days now, i keep answering poeple and no body answer my questions and actualli i start feeling bad specially that i dont have friends in the site!
I wouldnt take advice here.No way. Half the time there just idiots or they are embarrased by their pathetis lives and come here to *****. Cause IRL no one would trust em to pick out their favorite color.
cool question ;)
i like the idea.
im new to yahoo-2 days ago lol
Huh? That is insane.
never..........!!!:(
I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
major: English
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
minor: EducationI'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
This will be a good route to go and you are on the right path if you want to be an English teacher. You will have to read a whole lot and study old English literature(which I do not like), but I think you will be okay. Remember, you will be getting a Bachelor of Arts degree. An English major is good for many things other than education also. You can be a writer, editor, publisher,etc., plus you can go on to law school if you want to in the future. Good luck, don't just take my word for it, talk to English majors and English instructors. I hope I have helped.I'm going to study English at university, any advice about this course?
Research your school.
Find out what courses are offered, which ones are required for the program, and decide what your electives will be.
Then, when you've figured out what your first year courses will be, obtain a reading list for those courses and start reading your books early. The most difficult thing about an english degree is the amount of reading you need to do. I had more than 20 books to read for one of my second year courses, and many of the others have at least 10. This also is not counting the amount of secondary reading you need to do for researching papers.
It's tuf
Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
I am a struggling christian. I can feel that the Lord is working in my life and doing some wonderful things. There are some personal things that I know that I need to work on. It has really been a rough year for me. My husband is not a believer. He argues with me all the time. I try not to argue with him but it is like he trys to argue with me on purpose. I try to pray and try to resist getting into a fight, but last night it didn't work out to good and we got into a big argument. We are fighting almost everyday. Not all the time about God, most the time about a lot of stupid little stuff. It seems like he is just getting meaner and meaner. He says things to me on purpose to hurt my feelings. He makes me cry and he doesn't care. He doesn't beat me or anything, it just that he seems heartless sometimes. I am determined to make this marriage work, we have been married for almost 7 years. Part of the reason why I struggle in my relationship with the Lord is because me and hPlease help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Hold steadfast in prayer, God will see you through. Keep praying for you husband and hopefully, soon he will see through you the love of Jesus. I will keep you in my prayers, hand it all over to God, we can do nothing in this world without him, and God creates miracles. When he begins to argue and fuss, pray for him, while he is yelling and carrying on, pray silently for him for God to touch his heart, pray for Jesus to cover him in the blood of Jesus and unharden his heart. That is just Satan, whenever we decide to turn our lives around and turn everything over to God, that is when the real trouble begins, Satan gets angry, Be steadfast and diligent in your faith. God Bless you!Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Let him go. It whould be best for both of you. There are many christians that get divorces, dont be afraid to take that step. as for you Ill be sure to put you on a special list. You wont be denied what you deserve.
Hon, that can be considered verbal abuse. Get to a councilor and get some help if you want to try and save your marriage. Or a divorce lawyer. He should respect your religion and not say things that hurt you. That is not a loving relationship.
Yes, we will pray. Can you talk to your pastor or priest perhaps??
Maybe that would be a starting point. Maybe a counsler as well. maybe they can guide you how to get your husband to a counsler with you or what teps to take to get into his brain and find out what is going on. He doesnt sound repectful toward you for some reason. Maybe he is not happy about something in his life and is taking it out on you? Maybe he is carrying some sin around with him and dosnt know how to deal with it. You have our prayers. Maybe go see your pastor or priest.
(((hugs))) God Bless you and thank you for sharing.
be glad to pray for the two of you. have you ever thought of going to a marriage counselor as these are persons professionally trained to help aid and assist people in your situation. if he is unwilling then please seek professional advise from a counselor, your priest, minister or rabbi. these people may help ease the pain and suffering much better than any advise you can receive from us here.
I am also a believer and my husband is not.
However we both love each other enough NOT to push or lecture the other and allow each other our individuality.
I think you two need to work on your communication. Pick a time to talk to him. Some time on the weekend when things are not so hectic. Not when he has immediately come home from work and before he decides he is too tired and off to bed.
When you talk to him about how you feel avoid the word ';you'; and stick to the I. e.i - ';I feel'; . Also open your mind...allow yourself to understand his point of view as well.
A bit of advice as a new christian....I was born and raised very strictly and am today a christian....However there are those you will make you feel a sinner for all the wrong reasons. Read your Bible, trust ONLY your Bible. Remember we are all Humans and God did make us...Mistakes, feelings, wants, needs and all!
try to love your husband more than Jesus and tell him that it might work. I RELAY DO NOT Know why Christians women love Jesus more than their own husbands or earthly partner.
Sure. No problem.
I will pray for both of you.. I admire you for being strong and putn an effort into making your marraige work. If you feel it's worth it, go for it. Only God can work in your husband, and I hope He does really soon. I wish I could give u a real hug!
If my wife started flinging delusional superstitionism (religion) at me, I'd make sure the door hit her butt on her way out.
The best advice I can give you is to try and find a quiet moment with him, and ask him outright if he really loves you and if he really does want to stay married with you.
If he does want to stay with you, then express your feelings (gently) and tell him how hurtful his remarks are.
But if he seems very negative and doesn't want to stay, then it's no good pursuing the marriage just for the sake of it.
Don't you have any counselling support through your church?
I will pray for you both! I was once told that when you pray for someone (like hubby) that if they get meaner it's because God is dealing with them. Just hang in there! All you can do is lean on God and pray sweeite!
knock it off. why must you convert him ? why can't he be himself. is he not good enough ? the problem is you. you're trying to convert him. is he trying to convert you ? keep this up and you will find yourself by yourself.
give him that link and he will stop arguinghttp://www.answering-christianity.com/li鈥?/a>
First, you need to go to Elizabeth Elliott's web site - Gatewaytojoy.com and read about marriage in some of her commentaries. These will help you greatly. You are supposed to stay in the marriage. I know it is hard - because I do it too. Although my husband says he is a believer - he does not do the things he should. He drinks and does not go to church and gets angry a lot. My advice is to keep asking the Lord to change him - you don't try to change him and keep in the marriage. I hope you are going to church and making friends there. That will help in that you can get away from him and go sit in the church and be with God there and hopefully Christian friends can be an encouragement. Do not isolate yourself. Also get involved with church activities and that will take your mind off of your home life. I am in my 40s and do lots of work at church and serve the Lord - as well I try to be a good wife to my husband - but mostly I try to keep my focus on God/Jesus as that helps me so much and is therapy for me. Also read His Word daily and seek Him. I hope this helps you. Please go to Elizabeth's web site and put in marriage and read about the role you should play in your marriage. It is hard but God will bless you for it and I will pray that your husband becomes a Christian as he sees you being a true Christian. Blessings to you little one. I love you.
Yes I can pray for your marriage. Sounds like he's looking for a reason to bail out. I'm not sure but that is a common reason for bickering. Next time listen to what he says even if it's an attack on you. See if you can find out what he is trying to say. It may also be a way of getting your attention, If one of his complaints is that you do not spend enough time together then he may very well be getting your attention even if it is negative attention. That doesn't make it right. But understanding may give you more options.
GOD bless ya.
The best advise I think you can get is to leave your husband alone. If you want to go to church and do things there---do them-BUT alone. You have no right to try to force him to get involved in a religion-any religion.
If he starts an argument, just leave the room. But, you should not be nagging him to go to a church and believe in something that he may think is illogical. He has his rights, too.
I converted to Judaism after I was married. My children and I followed this path, and my husband was not interested. He was not interested in going to our old Christian church, either. But, that was his privilege, not mine to decide. There were no arguments.
I agree with Steph about going to a counselor. If he refuses, then he obviously doesn't care. If he doesn't care, then unfortunately, your marriage is over. I hate to tell anyone to get a divorce, that should be the last option, but if it comes to that, it may be for the best. Just remember next time to find someone who shares your faith and values. Will be praying for you.
Your husband is definately going through somthing. There is a very stron spirit on him that does not want him to come Christ. All you can do somtimes is continue to pray for him and ask the Lord to be with him. As each day goes by try to find yourself more in the Lord and keep praying for God to strenghten him.
And I will pray for you gusy as well.
Godbless:)
It whould be cruel of you to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you anymore, if you ask me you deserve what you get by staying with an abusive husband, and you know what I think youre the one that starts the fights, youre not telling the whole story are you? Im right arent I? I know when a christian is lying and you sound like a liar.
sit down with him one afternoon/evening and tell him all about it.
i believe that communication is most important.
then try to write everything down in a journal : what you said, and his responses.
it may take many diff occasions, you sitting down with him to talk, but do it anyway. never be hostile, but be very detailed. you'll find out really why about his actions soon enough.
best wishes.
Hold steadfast in prayer, God will see you through. Keep praying for you husband and hopefully, soon he will see through you the love of Jesus. I will keep you in my prayers, hand it all over to God, we can do nothing in this world without him, and God creates miracles. When he begins to argue and fuss, pray for him, while he is yelling and carrying on, pray silently for him for God to touch his heart, pray for Jesus to cover him in the blood of Jesus and unharden his heart. That is just Satan, whenever we decide to turn our lives around and turn everything over to God, that is when the real trouble begins, Satan gets angry, Be steadfast and diligent in your faith. God Bless you!Please help me. I need advice about my husband.?
Let him go. It whould be best for both of you. There are many christians that get divorces, dont be afraid to take that step. as for you Ill be sure to put you on a special list. You wont be denied what you deserve.
Hon, that can be considered verbal abuse. Get to a councilor and get some help if you want to try and save your marriage. Or a divorce lawyer. He should respect your religion and not say things that hurt you. That is not a loving relationship.
Yes, we will pray. Can you talk to your pastor or priest perhaps??
Maybe that would be a starting point. Maybe a counsler as well. maybe they can guide you how to get your husband to a counsler with you or what teps to take to get into his brain and find out what is going on. He doesnt sound repectful toward you for some reason. Maybe he is not happy about something in his life and is taking it out on you? Maybe he is carrying some sin around with him and dosnt know how to deal with it. You have our prayers. Maybe go see your pastor or priest.
(((hugs))) God Bless you and thank you for sharing.
be glad to pray for the two of you. have you ever thought of going to a marriage counselor as these are persons professionally trained to help aid and assist people in your situation. if he is unwilling then please seek professional advise from a counselor, your priest, minister or rabbi. these people may help ease the pain and suffering much better than any advise you can receive from us here.
I am also a believer and my husband is not.
However we both love each other enough NOT to push or lecture the other and allow each other our individuality.
I think you two need to work on your communication. Pick a time to talk to him. Some time on the weekend when things are not so hectic. Not when he has immediately come home from work and before he decides he is too tired and off to bed.
When you talk to him about how you feel avoid the word ';you'; and stick to the I. e.i - ';I feel'; . Also open your mind...allow yourself to understand his point of view as well.
A bit of advice as a new christian....I was born and raised very strictly and am today a christian....However there are those you will make you feel a sinner for all the wrong reasons. Read your Bible, trust ONLY your Bible. Remember we are all Humans and God did make us...Mistakes, feelings, wants, needs and all!
try to love your husband more than Jesus and tell him that it might work. I RELAY DO NOT Know why Christians women love Jesus more than their own husbands or earthly partner.
Sure. No problem.
I will pray for both of you.. I admire you for being strong and putn an effort into making your marraige work. If you feel it's worth it, go for it. Only God can work in your husband, and I hope He does really soon. I wish I could give u a real hug!
If my wife started flinging delusional superstitionism (religion) at me, I'd make sure the door hit her butt on her way out.
The best advice I can give you is to try and find a quiet moment with him, and ask him outright if he really loves you and if he really does want to stay married with you.
If he does want to stay with you, then express your feelings (gently) and tell him how hurtful his remarks are.
But if he seems very negative and doesn't want to stay, then it's no good pursuing the marriage just for the sake of it.
Don't you have any counselling support through your church?
I will pray for you both! I was once told that when you pray for someone (like hubby) that if they get meaner it's because God is dealing with them. Just hang in there! All you can do is lean on God and pray sweeite!
knock it off. why must you convert him ? why can't he be himself. is he not good enough ? the problem is you. you're trying to convert him. is he trying to convert you ? keep this up and you will find yourself by yourself.
give him that link and he will stop arguinghttp://www.answering-christianity.com/li鈥?/a>
First, you need to go to Elizabeth Elliott's web site - Gatewaytojoy.com and read about marriage in some of her commentaries. These will help you greatly. You are supposed to stay in the marriage. I know it is hard - because I do it too. Although my husband says he is a believer - he does not do the things he should. He drinks and does not go to church and gets angry a lot. My advice is to keep asking the Lord to change him - you don't try to change him and keep in the marriage. I hope you are going to church and making friends there. That will help in that you can get away from him and go sit in the church and be with God there and hopefully Christian friends can be an encouragement. Do not isolate yourself. Also get involved with church activities and that will take your mind off of your home life. I am in my 40s and do lots of work at church and serve the Lord - as well I try to be a good wife to my husband - but mostly I try to keep my focus on God/Jesus as that helps me so much and is therapy for me. Also read His Word daily and seek Him. I hope this helps you. Please go to Elizabeth's web site and put in marriage and read about the role you should play in your marriage. It is hard but God will bless you for it and I will pray that your husband becomes a Christian as he sees you being a true Christian. Blessings to you little one. I love you.
Yes I can pray for your marriage. Sounds like he's looking for a reason to bail out. I'm not sure but that is a common reason for bickering. Next time listen to what he says even if it's an attack on you. See if you can find out what he is trying to say. It may also be a way of getting your attention, If one of his complaints is that you do not spend enough time together then he may very well be getting your attention even if it is negative attention. That doesn't make it right. But understanding may give you more options.
GOD bless ya.
The best advise I think you can get is to leave your husband alone. If you want to go to church and do things there---do them-BUT alone. You have no right to try to force him to get involved in a religion-any religion.
If he starts an argument, just leave the room. But, you should not be nagging him to go to a church and believe in something that he may think is illogical. He has his rights, too.
I converted to Judaism after I was married. My children and I followed this path, and my husband was not interested. He was not interested in going to our old Christian church, either. But, that was his privilege, not mine to decide. There were no arguments.
I agree with Steph about going to a counselor. If he refuses, then he obviously doesn't care. If he doesn't care, then unfortunately, your marriage is over. I hate to tell anyone to get a divorce, that should be the last option, but if it comes to that, it may be for the best. Just remember next time to find someone who shares your faith and values. Will be praying for you.
Your husband is definately going through somthing. There is a very stron spirit on him that does not want him to come Christ. All you can do somtimes is continue to pray for him and ask the Lord to be with him. As each day goes by try to find yourself more in the Lord and keep praying for God to strenghten him.
And I will pray for you gusy as well.
Godbless:)
It whould be cruel of you to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you anymore, if you ask me you deserve what you get by staying with an abusive husband, and you know what I think youre the one that starts the fights, youre not telling the whole story are you? Im right arent I? I know when a christian is lying and you sound like a liar.
sit down with him one afternoon/evening and tell him all about it.
i believe that communication is most important.
then try to write everything down in a journal : what you said, and his responses.
it may take many diff occasions, you sitting down with him to talk, but do it anyway. never be hostile, but be very detailed. you'll find out really why about his actions soon enough.
best wishes.
Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
What are signs you show, speak, or do to ensure the woman you love that you do love her?
How do I know if my boyfriend really does love me or is he playing with my head?
My boyfriend told me he loved me after 1 month of us being together. . .we've known each other for over 8 years and he took my virginity. . .then we moved off and now we're together again. At first I didn't know what to say because I wasn't sure, but now my love has grown.Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
Real love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
We don't try to make it obvious. We don't try to convince or assure. We actually hate the idea that someone we really care about would insist on some act on our part to prove our love. When demonstrating our love and patience, we do generaly forgive the object of our affection for stupidity that we might hold against others. For instance.......if someone besides our love said that we ';took'; their virginity rather than accepting what she freely offered???......we might have something rude to say about that person. Accusing a man of rape really isn't our idea of ';proof of love'; But then again, you haven't thought about what he's thinking, have you?? That figures, I guess.
love is in the actions not in the words, thats how you can tell. if it seems like everything he does is for you or both of you then thats love, if the things he does is for him then he is selfish and playing you for what ever he might need or be able to get. step back and look, is he a loser or a thoughtful type person?
Talk is cheap%26gt; It's what he does and how he makes you feel%26gt; respect%26gt; Kindness%26gt; thoughtful%26gt;On time%26gt; Does what he says%26gt; Helpful%26gt;Many thing no lying%26gt; Or telling you what you want to hear%26gt; Growing up will make a big difference for you%26gt; I love you is easy to say but hard to prove%26gt; This goes both ways%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;
S%26amp;H
Just Love him until he gives you a reason not to believe him. If he already has given you a reason, then your answer is known.
WHAT?
How do I know if my boyfriend really does love me or is he playing with my head?
My boyfriend told me he loved me after 1 month of us being together. . .we've known each other for over 8 years and he took my virginity. . .then we moved off and now we're together again. At first I didn't know what to say because I wasn't sure, but now my love has grown.Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
Real love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”Men, I need your honest advice about LOVE. . . .?
We don't try to make it obvious. We don't try to convince or assure. We actually hate the idea that someone we really care about would insist on some act on our part to prove our love. When demonstrating our love and patience, we do generaly forgive the object of our affection for stupidity that we might hold against others. For instance.......if someone besides our love said that we ';took'; their virginity rather than accepting what she freely offered???......we might have something rude to say about that person. Accusing a man of rape really isn't our idea of ';proof of love'; But then again, you haven't thought about what he's thinking, have you?? That figures, I guess.
love is in the actions not in the words, thats how you can tell. if it seems like everything he does is for you or both of you then thats love, if the things he does is for him then he is selfish and playing you for what ever he might need or be able to get. step back and look, is he a loser or a thoughtful type person?
Talk is cheap%26gt; It's what he does and how he makes you feel%26gt; respect%26gt; Kindness%26gt; thoughtful%26gt;On time%26gt; Does what he says%26gt; Helpful%26gt;Many thing no lying%26gt; Or telling you what you want to hear%26gt; Growing up will make a big difference for you%26gt; I love you is easy to say but hard to prove%26gt; This goes both ways%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;
S%26amp;H
Just Love him until he gives you a reason not to believe him. If he already has given you a reason, then your answer is known.
WHAT?
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