Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Advice about getting a summer job?

I posted this earlier, but all I got in answers were links to websites online. I don't want to be making pennies viewing stupid adds or taking surveys (or any other online crap)! I want a JOB!





Here's my old question:





I'm a college student so I need a temporary job. I'm staying with my grandparents in NY for the summer because I'm taking classes at a community college here........And I need a job, badly. I have absolutely no income. I have applied to everything I can find within reasonable distance. No one has called me, even though many of them have help wanted signs. I don't know what to do. Can someone help me out please?





I have bills to pay, and I have $40 in my checking account. Yah, that's not going very far. (When I have rent, credit card payments, cell phone, car payment, rip off gasoline, and other stuff.)





And no, I'm not going to strip or sell drugsAdvice about getting a summer job?
I had this problem for a while when I was in college and unfortunately there's not always a whole lot you can do. Just keep applying to places (and you might have to accept that you'll have to commute more than you would like to), but more importantly always call (usually a week after you apply) and check in to let them know you're still interested (they're busy people and calling people back is not always on the top of their to do lists). Good luck!

Advice about joining high school football team...?

I joined my high school's football team freshman year and I love playing football. Only thing is that I really suck at remembering plays and it really stresses me out when at practice every body's lining up to run through a play and I'm the only one not knowing what they're doing. I'm now a sophomore and have been talking to the football coach that wants me to come back next year and tells me that they run through plays AALLLL the time and I will have them down no problem. I really want to go to summer camp and play again next year but that's the only thing that's troubling me. I played as the defensive end mostly but sometimes as the linebacker. Does anybody have any type of advice for me? Again I love playing the sport with a passion, I'm just not good with remembering the plays. Any advice is welcome......?Advice about joining high school football team...?
Cool question.





Everyone has trouble with plays...


Start by looking at just YOUR position.





DE always has QB Containment and NEVER defends a pass.


- you have to get by the blocking lineman then a defending Fullback, but you'll always rush and pressure the quarterback.





So alignment and assignment are all you have to memorize.





As a Linebacker, you need to know your GAP...and your zone...


IE: Mike back has A gap and hook to curl in zone w/ pass





Be careful...some defensive pictures will put a Mike back in B gap.





so know when...know where.Advice about joining high school football team...?
I feel your dilemma, as I too have that problem. If there's a kindering desire inside of you, that urges to escape the real world and delve into the world of football, then you should go for it. Don't let anyone or anything stop you or crush your dreams.





This is what you were put on this earth to do! Don't stop believing in yourself, i will always believe in you.
what i do to remember my plays for basketball is either i keep writing it down on a play bored thing or i just try and like think of a way to remember im on this side and im supposed to do this right now but all in all practice makes perfect!!
Play football.Nobody is sure of their assignment all the time. If you work at it in your spare time, and work with the coaches, then you will get the plays down. And when you get the plays down, then you can really start to shine.
Repetition.


It works for everything.


Depending on the length of the plays, you might even make some flash cards to help remember key parts of what you need to know.
Just play to play. It sound like your good, but a big tip is to not ask for advice, learn, that way it is implanted in your brain forEVER.
i would sagest really focusing on what the plays are don't just listen to them focus on them think about nothing but the plays
remember each play by pieces and the rest will come to you
work out and run. the coaches will do the rest.
talk to your coach and see if he has the plays diagramed or written up with a description of what each player does...if so, get a copy of it and study it while you start your off-season workouts





if not, ask if you can sit down with him and write some notes to study





and if you go to spring and summer workouts, all teams run through their stuff over and over so that the players get them down and then are really ready to go when the pads go on during late summer...you'll be ready





have some more confidence in yourself and relax a little bit, don't over-think, just play
I had the same problem last year bro, i am a defensive tackle and there is so many things to remember....the main thing to remember is that if you screw up, DO IT FULL SPEED!!!! hit the wrong guy? Hit him extra hard.





Talk to your defensive coach about maybe incorperating signs that you and your team make, hand signs or words....comunication is the most important part of football man. talk a lot.





then since you helpped make the signal it will be ten times easier to remember...





it worked for me man, it might help you

Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?

I'm travelling to Brazil, Peru, Argentina and Chile for 4 months. I have quite a few places I want to go to but has anyone been to any places you'd recommend not to be missed?Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
The Plains of Nazca. The drawings are pretty cool from the air. Bariloche in Argentina.. If you go in July, you can ski.. since it is winter there. Iguazu falls is worth seeing, also. I would also recommend a side trip to the easter islands off the chilean coast, The statues are pretty cool. I like Macchu Picchu but its really, really touristy.. basically a small city at the base. Lake titicaca is a lake.. so what? Pour some water on you airplane tray and make a paper boat. Then youll have a 5 mile high lake. Advice about places not to be missed in Southern South America?
I am Brazilian so I can answer about Brazil. Our northest beaches are amazing. I suggest the following beaches: Porto de Galinhas (in Pernambuco), Itacar茅 (in Bahia), Fernando de NOronha (island in Pernambuco), Praia de Pipa (in Rio Grande do Norte), Maragogi (in Alagoas).


If you are not fan of beach, you can visit Bonito (amazing place with beautiful caverns, rivers, lakes), Chapada Diamantina (amazing landscape), or Len莽玫is Maranhenses.


I had visit Argentina and Chile and Buenos Aires is a beautiful city to visit, also Santiago City but in Argentina you have Patagonia (amazing cold place) and in Chile you have Ilha da P谩scoa. I had attached some links with photos for you.
You cannot miss Buenos Aires, is by far the most cosmopolitan city in latinamerica. Go south and you will find Bariloche it's also worht the trip, in winter is as beautiful as switzerlad.
Iguazu Falls - borders with Brazil, Paraguay and Argentina (or maybe Uruguay)





Bigger than Victoria Falls - massive natural wonder!
Lake Titicaca on the Peru, Bolivia Border is a must. Worlds Highest navigable lake.
You can't miss Machu Picchu, If you can do the 4 day Inca Trail hike...also Patagonia.
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  • Advice about my daughter?

    I have a 4 year old daughter and her father has been hit and miss the past year. He shows up when he wants to and then leaves for many months at a time. I have not seen child support in over a yr %26amp; half. (this is not the issue though) I have taken him back to court to sue him for his rights. I am asking for full custody. He smokes around her even though she is allergic to cigarette smoke.


    I have been as patient as I can, but it is seeming tedious. He has everyone he knows call to ask for custody, but never him.





    What are my chances of winning full custody?


    What should I do if full custody is not granted?Advice about my daughter?
    talk to your lawyer.... they'll tell you what you can do... and suggest the best course of action.Advice about my daughter?
    document the times he does and does not show up.. his phone calls, his life style.. is he sleeping around? does he watch porn.... he smokes, he drinks excessively? what kind of house? car? what job hours? friends? document all of that... get pictures! these will help you win! and get a GOOD lawyer!
    I would advise speaking to a lawyer on the best way to build evidence for your case ASAP.





    More time to gather information like he smokes around a young child with allergies will make your custody fight easier when the time comes.
    W ITH THE EVIDENCE YOU HAVE, YOU MAY GET WHAT YOU WANT.
    You have a very good chance of getting sole physical custody of your four year old, but very little chance of having his parental rights removed, if that is what you are suggesting when you write ';sue him for his rights';. You will get a formal court order specifying visitation and you are free to hold him strictly to what the order says about when and for how long he can see her. You can ask that there be no smoking around the child and that can be put in the order, as well as no drinking and driving, an approved child seat, things like that. You can request no overnights but you may not get that. You won't be able to get a no visitation judgment from the court unless you can prove he is a threat to your daughter's health and life.
    one thing you should always do is document EVERYTHING!!





    from the day and time he shows up to when he leaves. also document the things he says. and when he does pay child support.


    you should also discuss things with him. it isnt healthy for your daughter to see him whenever he pleases. it should be a consistent visit for your daughters sake. he shouldnt be so selfish as to come see her and then leave for long periods of time.


    that poor little girl deserves so much better.


    fight it in court and dont give up. explain that he smokes in front of her and that he doesnt seem to care that she is allergic to it.


    explain that your daughter probably misses him and asks when he will be back (bc im pretty sure she does) but even if you dont get full custody make sure you love your daughter and treat her right. she will always love you for that. :]





    i really hope this helped.


    vote me best please
    You CAN NOT prove he is unfit! You will piss the judge off even going into his court with nothing more than what you have here! If you haven't got child support that's YOUR fault for not staying on top of it! You could have him in jail for not paying! Having bad health IS NOT a reasond to terminate someone's parental rights! Take him to court for disobeying court ordered child support and leave it at that, as you are in the WRONG for even trying to terminate his parental rights! YOUR daughter has a right to see her Father no matter if he's what YOU think is a good Father or not! Your daughterwill want to know her Father ya know!

    Advice about recurring depression?

    Well i've had academic problems at school, and i've also watch alot of porn, shemale porn this is problably a stupid question. basically i to make a long story short, i've been depressed, clincial I guess, and i've been having sex with transsecual escorts, and i'm confsued as hell. i'm in therapy, she said something about i guess i had lost my sex drive, so i tried it and liek it so then i just assumed that i was gay or whatever, i'm confused about my sexucality and i'm still depressed. i've gotten out of depression. i always recover, and build confidence and self esteem to a healthy level, and then i take a risk ie sex with a transsexual(no disrespect to them) and then i crash and began and whirlpool and negative thoguht scuh as *****..etc... i can't take it anymore i swore to myself i would not do it again, i didn't even want to do it i thought i would be a big deal, i had everything rolling then i did it and i crashed (takes about a full week for me to crash) ....Advice about recurring depression?
    Stop giving yourself a hard time. Maybe you are driven to do things that you think are risky?





    Eat well, stop giving yourself a hard time, everyone's sexuality is different, different things get us going. As long as you don't harm anyone there's no reason to feel guilt. Only time and a bit of introspection can help you figure out your sexual preference. If I feel bad I take myself out of my familiar surroundings and go off for a few days. It helps me think and figure stuff out.





    You'll get there.

    Advice about a boyfriend?

    My boyfriend and I have been ';together'; for 4 years, I'm 20. Yes, we met online and live in different areas but, that's never really been a problem between us. Both our families already know about us and they seem more or less okay with the idea. I already know he's not fake or messing around, so that's not an issue or what I'm asking about here. His brother, whom has never really supported us, argued with him about having a long distance relationship. He mostly talked bad about me, also made stupid accusations about things he doesn't understand and, in fact, aren't really any of his business. I'm upset because it seems like it changed my boyfriend's mind about everything just from the fight. I'm afraid he's going to break up with me soon and I can't seem to think of anything to stop it. Advice appreciated.Advice about a boyfriend?
    Long Distance Relationships DON'T WORK he's only been happy because he's been banging someone on the side while he's been trying to figure out how to get to were you are to get in your pants before breaking up. He has probably realized he's never going to actually meet you so he will be breaking up with you. GO FIND SOMEONE CLOSE TO HOME GET LAID AND FORGET ABOUT HAVING A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. They don't work!!!!!!!!


    F99Advice about a boyfriend?
    if he really cares about you his brother wont be able to change his mind about the way he feels. dont worry about it
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    Just continue to be who you are. He will hopefully realize he loves you and realize that this relationship is his and not his brothers. His brother doesn't get a say in this. Good luck.
    wow


    ya'll been together for 4 yearsz





    i doubt hes gonna break ur heart ovr sumthang is dumb brother said





    ..if he tellsz u he loves u..%26amp;%26amp; u believed him....





    so why not trust him wit ur heart now





    so wat if his bro dnt like u...he doesnt matter





    one lil thing shouldnt change his mind atfer 4 yearsz





    %26amp;%26amp; if it does...he aint worth ur time anywaysz





    u can find better right in ur own area
    you can't stop him from breaking up with you. do you really think you have a future with someone who is so easily influenced by a family member? i could see if he knows something awful about you, like you are a tramp or you actually have 4 kids all with different dads, or you are a con or something. but, if he has nothing and is just talking out his ****, then..... your bf should not be breaking up with you just because his brother is a treat. why would he be against you guys being together. i don't really understand that part. i'm sorry, but you can't prevent him ending things, all you can do is tell the truth and maintain to him that you care about him and want the relationship to continue. thats all YOU can do.

    Advice About What To Do With This Girl?

    I like this girl soo much.


    she is one of my best friends.


    ive liker her for like...5 months id say


    i told her last week that i liked her, a few days before shes like what wrong chris and i was like oh i just really like this chick and dont think il ever get her, and shes like who im like you gotta guess, and she didnt, then a few days later she called me at like 1 am lol and we were talking normal and then shes goes oh whos this girl you like im like guess shes like is it me im like no, and shes lik oh who is it and then im like na it really is you, and she sorta didnt belive me but she did in the end and yer we just went back into normal convosation..





    she could do sooo much better then me.


    and it annoys me wen i see her liking guys that are just in it for sex :@


    shes the most beautiful girl ive ever ever seeen. no one can compare to her. just looking at her makes me weak.


    and the other day at skool we were talking and shes like oh i dont like luke anymore so i like oh who do u like, jake ? and then she just smile.


    i felt like **** wen that happend :(


    and she doesnt seam to care tht i like her.


    :'(


    so what i am asking you guys is,


    what can i do about it?


    how can i make her like me ?


    thankyou all


    xxAdvice About What To Do With This Girl?
    arww your well sweet! u sure she aint fallen in love with u already? lol


    maybe she does like u 2 bcuz she seemed very interested and kept askin who u liked, show her how great u can be find out who she likes or what type shes intrested in from her mates or something.


    Maybe she is shy? and doesn't wanna admit she likes u 2 u alredy best friends and close Soo its likely its gonna end up in something more (: xxAdvice About What To Do With This Girl?
    oh, thats a tough 1, hmm alright you should just act like her friend and just be nice and compassionate to her, as long as you do that im sure she will eventually come around, hopefully.
    You cannot make someone like you. Because its simple, there is either that spark of desire or there isn't.





    She doesn't have that with you.





    Sounds like you're young just move on. There will be more where that came from.
    You can begin by curbing your use of the word ';like';. Second...roofies.
    do something that will touch her heart. start wearing bright clothes, try to get sexy and then ask her out.


    if he still says no then move on.


    sry m8
    find someone else, you deserve someone better dude.
    just be your self one day if your lucky she might like you back :D its not impossible ;)
    try courting her.
    well firsst off when she smiled when u asked her who u liked she prolly ment u. and if she isnt acting like u like her its cuz shes shy and she prolly likes u back. take her to the movies thell her u like her again but whisper it in her ear, like its a secret, and then make a move text her alot and complament her alot. but if she seems repealled from u then dont make a move or anything, give her time.
    You can't MAKE her like you, number 1. That said, it looks to me like she's playing just as much of a game with you as your little guessing game you pulled. Sounds to me as though she does like you, and she's most likely known for awhile. It's hard not to feel vibes like that. Also it looks like her game of choice is to see if you'll get jealous about her liking someone else, and try to see if you'll make a fool out of yourself because of it. Best advice I can give you is, do the exact opposite of what she's expecting you to do. Act like it doesn't bother you at all, in fact, assuming that you have other female friends, start talking to one of them more. My guess is she'll change her tune. If not that's her loss, you sound like a good guy to me. Good Luck!!