Advice about an ex boyfriend?

My bf broke up with me a few months ago. we have remained friends, I didn't want to but he was persistant with contacting me and wanting to hang out. I am really confused about what is going on because he invites me to go to dinner with him and his parents, he hung out with my family and I this past weekend when they came to visit, he invites me to hang out when he goes to his friends' house he invites me to go out of town and takes me shopping. He is out of town right now and I am taking care of his dog. I still have a key to his house and he still has the pic I gave him of us up in his room. I want to ask him if he thinks of me as a friend only or is hoping for something more. the break up was because he was scared.. basically, and there is absolutely no other girl in his life.. I know because I am with him in any free time he has.





Do you think he wants something more and do you think I should ask him if he thinks of me more than a friend?





I know ex's are an ex for a reason, spare me these comments....





Not married...Advice about an ex boyfriend?
You said he was “scared/basically” but that would make me nervous. I’d be waiting for him to get scared and repeat the process only there might be kids involved next time. I think you need to ask your self what you want/need. Sounds like the only thing miss now is the intimacy/sex, can you live like this, do you want to live like this. Advice about an ex boyfriend?
Frankly, I think he is hanging onto you until he is either comfortable having a permanent relationship, or find someone he thinks is better. I doubt he REALLY just wants to be friends. The only way to know, however, is to talk to him about it. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. May as well start practicing now!





Good luck!
Either you are EX bf gf or not. He can't have it both ways. He acts like you never broke up. I would point blank ask him. I would also say if you don't want to be a couple I'm fine with being just friends but I want to make our relationship clear so no one misunderstands or has hurt feelings.
it seems that he really does care for you. like you said, he may be just scared.


be up front and tell him how you feel.


then, you do whatever is easier for you to forget him.


this may mean completely cutting him out of your life.


don't torture yourself.
I guess the big question is...scared of what? If he continues to act as if nothing has changed, what is the difference if he says you are broken up or not? It doesn't sound like you are.
Are you two still having the close relationship that goes with boyfriend girlfriend?If not and he still does these things then it is interesting that no one else who answered this question already feels he is just comfortable having you around and hanging out with you,friends do those things!Are you seeing anyone else?Have you moved on?Do you go along with his requests of you to spend time with him?I think you need to do something,but if you are not looking for more(ex is an ex)then you haven't let go yet either!I think that he is comfortable with you and enjoys being with you,and without the pressure of commitment,whats not to like?My ex and I have an awesome relationship,we are best friends,she is married and I am married and we still talk about all sorts of stuff,we meet for lunch sometimes,and her husband and my wife know this and are secure in their relationships with us,that it is understood we are not in love with each other anymore but we will always have love for each other!You get comfortable with someone and you trust them,they make you feel good,they know you inside and out,you can be yourself around each other and its okay,its nice!This is my opinion and I think that is where he is at with you?If you feel the same way when you are around him then you will understand what I am saying!Yes maybe he is scared of a commitment,but he isn't affraid of you and it seems to me you enjoy what you have together right now too!Or else why are you still there,spending all that time with him?
He's treating you like you're still his girlfriend. Was marriage ever discussed in this relationship? Is that why he got scared? Someone has to take charge of where this is going and I think it needs to be you, otherwise no one is going to move on. I've heard of the old ';let's be friends'; answer when a couple break up but never seen it taken to this extreme. Perhaps for your own sake, it would be good for you to decline his invitations so that he'll realize that this relationship is over. Perhaps, later down the line, he'll come to his senses and take the relationship to the next level. But by then, you may already be saying ';I do'; but with someone else. Good luck!

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