Advice about a guy...if possible!! A bit confused?

Ok so first off this is nothing like me and what i am normally like and i have never done this before!! i dont want to be judged just need some advice...





ok so the story is...i recently met this guy and we got on really well...like really really well. started chatting texting non-stop and wanted to meet up again. we discussed having sex and he said he didnt have time for a girlfriend but would like to have sex. for some reason i agreed. so we went on a nice date went shopping etc ended up back at his and almost slept together. he then told me that if he wanted a girlfriend then i would be it. anyway he told me the other day he went to a party recently and ended up having drunken sex with a girl...but since then we have slept together too! complicated i know!! we discussed it all and though he isnt my boyfriend i did get a little annoyed. since i was raped in march i have struggled to trust guys and for some reason trusted him! anyway we sorted it all out and im very glad he was honest with me. anyway he wont talk as much recently has gone quiet and can be moody sometimes. he doesnt want to meet up (but he does have a lot of work at the minute) and says i knew he would be busy and we wouldnt meet much from the start (which i did and is the reason we wont be official as of yet if ever because he feels its unfair with his limited time). anyway if anyone is following this...basically im really confused over whether i like him or not and dont know if i should tell him. if i tel him i reckon he will maybe go a bit mad and wont want to see me. my ex boyfriend left me pregnant and hasnt spoken to me since and i lost the baby though ectopic pregnancy. im pretty shaken up over him still depsite it being 4-5 months ago. i guess i dont really know where my heart and head are so any advice (even if its to tell me to shut up!!) would be useful. i know i over think things a lot and thats when a lot of my problems occur...Advice about a guy...if possible!! A bit confused?
How confusing is this lol!





Im not judging you but you got raped in march and then decided to have sex with a man where you have no emotional attachment?





Men are hard to understand, they can be really really nice and make u feel really special but they are only thinking one thing, if he really liked you he wouldnt have had this drunken sex with someone else. He seems to be only looking for a sexual relationship





You seem to have gone through a lot with being raped and losing a baby. i think you need time out and watch who you sleep with. Try to find a best friend in a guy, someone who respects you and likes you (a potential Boyfriend) in other words move on.





i hope this helps. GoodluckAdvice about a guy...if possible!! A bit confused?
Girl, you already have your answer. He told you from the beginning. He doesn't want a relationship. And he is acting consistently with that. So stay emotionally detached from this guy. If this means not seeing him anymore, then do it. Otherwise, you'll only get deeper and deeper into him, and believe me, he won't one day wake up wanting a relationship with you. This will NEVER changed. So this will end badly for you. Only thing for you to do, is cut your loses now. Stop talking to him and stop seeing him. And hold out for someone who will love you and give you a real relationship. You're worth it. Hold out for it.