Thursday, August 19, 2010

Advice about an old friend??

I recently contacted a friend I used to have--Christina. We quite being friends 6 years ago over a bunch of drama to do with guys. I have calmed down since then, married, and wanted to let her know how sorry I was so I wrote her a long letter. She emailed me and said she accepted my apology and that maybe we could be friends again. I was thrilled because I didn't expect that--I didn't expect anything really, just wanted to make amends. Anyways...I got to hang out with her the other day and I've realized she hasn't changed at ALL. She is still chasing the men with a rap-sheet even though she now has two little girls. She lives with her mom and acts like she is out there rebelling when she *should* be at home taking care of her kids. I don't mind talking to her but I really don't want to be really good friends with her if she is going to act like that. Should I quit talking to her all-together or just limit it? I really don't know what to do (continued....)Advice about an old friend??
I think that you should maybe try to be a friend and tell her how you feel about it because sometimes being honest is all a person really needs to realize their going in the wrong direction. but if that is to uncomfortable you should just limit your talking so that you can still be friends and just keep in touch so you now how things are. But you should never just stop talking all together because that will make more drama because she may question you, and then you will have be honest then and it will hurt her more.Advice about an old friend??
just explain 2 her that u cant go out partying anymore. u are married and life is good for u right now. u just wanted 2 make things right and say u were sorry... i wouldnt cut her off just because if somethin ever did happen, who would be there for her lil girls. u dont hav 2 be good friends. mabye give her a push in the right direction
I would just be ';busy'; if / when she calls to hang out. People change ... or should - obviously in her case she either didn't change or changed for the worse! Just try to distance yourself from her.

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