Need advice about a man....?

I will try to make this short and sweet... i met a man, hit it off. been seeing him since sept 13thand offically ';dating'; his words, whatever that means, since october 24th. He took me home for thanksgiving and i met his WONDERFUL family, including his mother whom he adores.He has met my 2 children, and i have his, and he talks about my kids to his friends and family. If i am not spending the night at his place, he is at mine. So i got a little typsy one night and asked him how long b4 I was aloud to fall in love with him and he said it was WAY 2 soon for that. I can see he is into me cause we spend a lot of GOOD time together. he has clothes and other personal belongings at my house. N E way what i want to know is am I wrong for feeling like I am falling in love? Is it too soon? I think I fell for him the first night I met him...in a way, and every day i feel more. But i never really tell him. cept that one time, and look how that went. just let me know how this situation soundsNeed advice about a man....?
seems like he isnt ready for a relationship due to the past experiences he had and he doesnt want to make the same mistake again. And there is nothing wrong with falling in love with him and Im sure he loves you as well. Just give him time to forget about his past and sooner or later, he will profess his love to you as much as you do.Need advice about a man....?
I think you need to find out how he feels. If you are feeling like this and he isnt at all... then this is all too one sided.
sounds like everything is fine ....guys get scared off when we tell them we love them sometimes .... just keep it to yourself....play harder to get and he will come around....sounds like he really likes you though, so dont worry about exprssing feelings yet - just have a good time together..
wouldn't say necessailry it's a bad thing to say. maybe just let him know where you stand and it's not a thing for him to say until he feels comfortable. you're just letting him know where you are at in the relationship.
I believe from the way you are explaining this, that he is into you but at the same time don't want to admit it. You need to talk with him to see where things are goin and what he wants out of this thing you guys have. There are a lot of things that could cause him to hold back like this. He may have been hurt before in a relationship. So talk to him. I also believe it is okay for you to let him know how you feel about him. Good Luck
u can know someone forever n no fall for them n fall for some one in an instant .......follow ur heart and let his respond to urs
The first problem....was telling him when you were drinking...That type of thing you shouldn't talk about it while being a little tipsy..I know with my girlfriend I told her one night while we were talking...even though I wanted to tell her when we were out drinking..Your not wrong for falling for him...You can't control your feelings....You put it out there..now see how he responds..Maybe he was hurt in his past, or he doesn't know how to act in a great relationship..because of his past..Just give it time..everybody is different...
Well! It does sound a bit confusing to you I'm sure! It seems that you have both been on the fast track with this relationship as evident by meeting each others children and his family within a couple months of your first date. (Thats really quick! ) You both sound like you don't have much personal time away from each other because you are always spending the night at one house or the other. (Probably not a great idea. You both need some breathing time!) Although professing each others ';love'; to each is a bit premature at 2-1/2 months, you both sound like you are acting like a couple in ';love'; and for the most part living together too. I can appreciate your frustration when he caboshed your question about falling in love because in the sense of time.... it is too soon to say that. However, it is also too soon to be doing all the other things that you are doing as well. I would suggest to back off from so many overnights with each other ( absence makes the heart grow fonder!) and just slow down a bit. After a few months at a slower pace, I think the whole ';falling in love'; thing will then just naturally happen for both of you!! Good luck!
I started an affair with a married woman the week after my birthday and within 6 weeks we were virtually living together and by three months we both admitted that we had fallen in love with each other..certainly not what either of us wanted or had been looking for...we lasted 5 years together and I am still completely and totally in love with her despite her 22 years of marriage to a jet pilot (when they started dating I told her he was just me with a permanent job (Navy))..I was a land surveyor working in private industry...lots of great years with 8 yr recessions in building.one year I worked 19 days kids locked me into town rather than chase work plus who in their right mind leaves San Diego for Montana during Nov or Feb for that matter
Its possible, and very likely that you are falling in love. However, you need to not push it, let nature take its course, and see what happens. He may be feeling the same but feels like you need to take a slower pace.
well it sounds like your really fallin for him!!!but yes i think its way to soon to tell him you love him!!but i truly think your getting there
You can't help who you fall in love with whether it takes you 2 months or 3 years you can't control that feeling. I met my boyfriend in March and 2 weeks later he asked me out officially and and told me he loved me on that same night. I was kinda freaked out about it, but in time I realized I loved him too. I don't think it is too soon for feelings everyone has them some just don't show them. Good luck!
I agree with Angel Eve