Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?

so later on today my boyfriend is suppose to be coming over to meet my parents, and i'm scared on how my father will react because my boyfriend is black. i've tried talking with my dad today , but he really didn't listen and acted as if he was upset. i know my mom will be ok with it, but not my father cause he wants our family to stay one race. and i can't sleep because i'm scared about how my father will react tomorrow, and i having mixed thoughts because i love my boyfriend, and i don't want to lose him because of my father :(Can you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
i went through the same thing, when i had my daughter i got ';kicked out'; of the family. but that still didnt stop me from staying with the person that i love. do what makes you happy. i cant say that its an easy road, especially when parents disapprove. but you got to look at why they are disapproving.... let your dad know how happy your b/f makes you and how you feel bout him, if that doesnt work... well yall might not talk for a couple of weeks be eventually hell get over it, your his child and the only thing he should worry about is your happiness..... he should love and support you no matter whatCan you please give me some good and serious advice about this.........?
Does your Dad know? Make sure he knows before your boyfriend shows up. Maybe your Mom can tell him.


Does your bf know how your Dad feels? He needs to be prepared, too. Try to have as few surprises as possible.


You and your bf need to talk about what might happen and work out some scenarios. Such as when, if necessary, should your bf leave if your Dad gets out of hand. Or how should you and your bf act if your Dad says something inappropriate. Maybe you can have a code or something between you two so your bf or you can let each other know when they've had enough and it's time to leave.


But above all-as much as you love your Dad, he has no right to abuse -verbally or otherwise- your bf, and if that happens, let your bf know he has your permission to leave.





Your bf must be awesome for you to be willing to go through this.


Blessings to you both.
dear 1st thing you need to know is that you came to this world because of your father so respect him as much as you can.


and about your boyfriend, be relaxed if your father say NO about him and give your father some time to under stand your feeling about your boyfriend.


Dont force your father to accept him because this can create differences in your whole family.


just be relaxed and if your father say NO then wait for some time and then tell your boyfriend to behave very nice to your father so that he start liking him





best of luck dear


have a great loving life
Look this isnt anything to do with your father. If you love your boyfriend that much then you wont let your father stand in the way. This is the 21st century he shouldnt have anything against black people. Hope toay goes well xx
It sucks that your dad is that way. It might well make you choose between your dad and ur boyfriend which is sad since it's just about race. Even though it is unjust I don't think you should disobey your dad while you are living with him. Maybe he will come around.
Don't afraid of your father,your boyfriend is quite right,he is mature, u will get success in maintaining relationship with father and boyfriend equally. bye.......... %26amp; .............goodluck
Ur problem reminds me of the movie Guess Who, well anyways, either ur dad is going to agree or disagree with the fact that u r dating a black guy, he's probably going to give u the ';I want the best for my daughter speech';. But no matter, what he thinks of him, u love the guy and skin color and race shouldn't matter to him. If he treats u good and makes u happy that should be enough for ur dad. So just relax get some sleep, and talk to ur dad before he comes over, and just remember that parents want the best for their children, and don't let a guy come between u and ur family. Good Luck!!
ok i have the same thing going as you. im white and my bf is black. if ur bf really loves u he wont leave u becuz ur dad doesnt like him. and ur dad needs to realize he doesnt control who u fall in love with so tell him that. its ur choice who u like and it has nothing to do with him. he cant make u not love ur bf