Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Need Advice about my friend????

My friend is ';going out'; with a guy online. But, this guy is from a different country so they can't actually spend time together. Is that really a bf/gf relationship? What is it? I am kinda scared for her but I don't know what to do.Need Advice about my friend????
I really wouldn't consider it a ';real relationship';. I think your friend needs to be very careful about who she meets on-line, no matter if they're from a different country or not. The point is there are a lot of weirdos out there waiting to bait a naive person whom they can take advantage of or worse..the Internet has made it all the more easy for these type of folks.Need Advice about my friend????
Along with all th other warnings above...Lots of foreign guys want nothing more than to make some American woman think they are in love, and want to get married...a easy way for them to stay in the US when they come to ';visit'; her.





Please warn her.
my sister was in the same kind of realtionship to me that isn't a gf\bf relationship because they havent meet in person to sit down and talk and get to know each other. trust me it will fall because my sisters love did.
Let her go...theyre just talkin online. Harmless!
Tell your ';friend'; that it may never work to be honest.





Unless he moves or she moves.





Period end of story.
One of my friends sister is going out with another boy who lives far away and they will never meet, i think its completely stupid as how can you go out with someone if you've never met them and can't even meet up with them?! Some people act differently online as to how they do in real life so how can you be sure you really do like them? Its not a proper relationship but there is no harm in it, unless she plans to travel to his country and put herself in danger to meet him its only a bit of fun and very safe! hope i've helped :)
it is called a long distance relationship. tell ur friend to be careful, because there are a lot of weird people on the internet everyday.
I think that should tell her how you feel bout her ';going out'; with the guy from the other country. About this being a bf/gf relationship... I don't think that it would be a real relationship unless they both knew what each other looked like.
As long as they are planning to eventually get together (so that one or the other of them moves), sure, that's a perfectly valid relationship. Of course, trust is a big issue, especially in a long-distance relationship.
I had some similar experiances with one friend, and i'll tell you it is the scariest thing i ever went through with her. He seemed genuine and everything but i was still nervous. Then she invited him our country and he stayed within minutes of her house in a hotel, and we caught her walking out of his hotel one night. She didnt know who he was or anything and everything turned out okay but if your friend wants an online relationship, i dont see the harm in that, if she is looking for something real, she can't cuddle or go to the movies with her computer, and in the end, it wont give her a ring or a family.
it really isnt safe to date online ppl. How old is ur friend? for all she knows it is some old pervert sitting behind a computer with a wife and two kids. i would advise ur friend not to date online. there are stories of kids being kidnapped murdered and raped.... i would explain it to her and maybe look up news articles to show her.
Well I don't believe that is a relationship. your friend shouldn't be looking for people online because there are a lot of freaks out there these days. Tell your friend that they can get into some dangerous **** if they try going out with people over the internet. that person could also be a player and have a lot of girlfriends and she would never know because she doesn't know this person in real life. Find her a real guy who isn't hiding behind a digital screen
Sounds to me like they are just pen pals. I wouldn't worry about it to much. Sooner or later she might find someone to date locally.
u dnt need to wory about the relationship.


if she is enjyng talkng to him,let him do dat. as u said dat he is frm other country then i think there is no serious ness in the relationshp.


we mke number of frendsa on internet bt dat doest mean we we have a serious relationshp.


tke it easy, its normal.
you need to talk to her because its not very safe he could be saying one thing and doing another
i hate to say this but really all you can do is talk to her on how you feel about it... i really wouldn't consider it ';going out'; cause they're not going any where... but just try to be repectful of your friends feelings and thats all you can do.
its retarded...thats what it is

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