Advice About Jealous Family and friends......?

For 23 years of my life, i experenced struggling. My parents did the best they could in raising 3 girls %26amp; 1 boy. We all went though hardship, with bills and food. My daddy is a GOOD dad. He would work so hard, but most times he would borrow money so that the family could eat. My relatives were always the ones to live a suburban lifestyle. As of now, I'm 24 years old. Thinking of the bad struggle that i went through as a child, i'm able to persevere a better lifestyle. I trusted in GOD for everything i have, and believed the impossible. Soon i will be moving into a $4.7 million estate. Sits on 2.66 acres and my BEST friend (a guy) will move in with me. Its a BIG home. I hve a nice car (2006 Toyota Solara coupe) But my dream car is a Bentley Contenintal CTG, I have to get it. I'm looking for land to build A fashion boutique, and a coffee house, that i hope becomes a chain. I'm not bragging, by far...but here's the problem....Advice About Jealous Family and friends......?
Stick to helping your immediate family, especially your dad who struggled so hard. As for anyone else it is ok to say no to people. If you dont the vultures will be all over you thinking you have an endless supply of money. You dont owe anyone an explanation of why you say no but if you feel you have to explain tell them your money is tied up and you dont have the cash flow to help everyone who asks you.Advice About Jealous Family and friends......?
It all comes down to your attitude. If you show up with a stuck up attitude and rub it in their face, yes they will react with jealousy. If you show up with a humble spirit of gratitude you will get admiration and warmth from your family. It's all up to you.
Well just give a little and tell them that you have many plans for the money you have on you, that you plan to invest in other things, and you need it.





Can I ask you, how did you do all of this? Please share...=)
Just be yourself, why are you worried about them getting jealous.





Why are you not focusing on yourself ?





how will it affect you if they will jealous when they will ?
Be thankful for your blessings,but that doesn't mean you can't say no not at this time i cannot help you or trust in god if you do,do something for someone make sure if you can help you take that person and make sure this is where your money is going.Because you are going to find out people will use you as long as you let them.You will also find kind folks you never heard of,also get a promissory note signed by you and that person so the courts will help you get your money back.Good luck.
Okay, first of all don't go into it thinking people will be jealous. They may just be proud of you, that is the problem with people, they think that because they reach a certain point, it's them against the world.





Don't play into the stereotype of crabs in a jar, just because you reached the top, you cannot help anyone else, because you think you will be used. if you had a good relationship with your family in the past, don't let it get sour because you have a little money.





I grew up okay, but now i have moved out of state, i am 26 years old, a pharmacy tech, and I drive an es 300, the first thing I did when I bought my car, was go to my home town, get as many family members that could fit and go for a ride.


if ever my family needs anything that I can give, it is thiers, my relationship with them has not changed one bit, my husband builds houses, he does not think like '; oh I know somebody is gonna want me to build them a house for little or nothing';, no, he welcomes it, you help out your family, and you will get further.
What's the problem?