Advice about drill instructors and relationships....PLEASE HELP?

me and this guy finally started talking and he called me everyday and then all of a sudden i'm not getting any calls .sometimes when i call his phone it gets no service so it will go straight to voicemail ....he is a drill instructor so i know his schedule is tight but he gave me a certain time to call when he'll be a little free and when i call he doesn't answer i don't want to keep calling but he asks me too plenty of times and he said he'll be by his phone should i wait until he calls? or keep calling?....i really like him alot so it's frustrating not hearing from him we have good conversations when we speak and he hates to have to hang up but they have him so busy with the recriuts...i work around drill instructors all day and some of my coworkers say that drill instructors are nooo good but i know some who are faithful to their wifes/girlfriends me and this guy work on the same base so i feel that if we get together there is no way he could play games...i'm sooo confused :(Advice about drill instructors and relationships....PLEASE HELP?
Drill Instructors are a special breed all unto themselves.


Pray before continuing any relationship with this individual.


I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails!!!!!Advice about drill instructors and relationships....PLEASE HELP?
Hey Shygirl, thank-you for the 10 points. Hope all works out


well for you.


I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails!!!!!

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The best thing to do is to finally get in touch with him, set a date, and just talk it out, maybe over lunch or dinner. Then go by your intuition. You'll be able to tell about him by the way he talks to you, the body language, ect. Mostly, take your time, don't be in a hurry, and don't let your relationship be based on sex. You know very well any relationships based on that won't last. So take your time with everything. There is no big hurry. If its meant to be, then it'll happen. If its not, then you won't get hurt. I wish you the best of luck.......
There are several things that could be happening, he could be married, he could have dumped you, he could be on maneuvers, he could have deployed, he could have moved, etc, etc, etc.





Quit calling him and move on.
Sounds like a topic for the relationship category.