Advice about my mother?

Last night, we had an argument on the phone over something ridiculously stupid. She hung up on me and refused to answer her phone when I called back. So I though f*ck it.





She's called me at least twice today and I did not answer the phone. I'm tired of being taken for granted and treated like crap. I feel bad about ignorning the calls. Should I keep avoiding her calls or have a conversation with her? After all she is my mother even though she usually doesn't wanna talk to me on the phone.....Advice about my mother?
Talk to her and try to fix the problem. After all she is your mother and you have to live with that your whole life.Advice about my mother?
Mothers aren't always right although we like to be. We are subject to faults and failures too, and we occasionally stress out the older we get. You won't understand that until you get there but try to be more understanding with her. She doesn't deliberately take you for granted. You're avoiding her calls because you're angry at her and wants to show how it feels to be hurt like that. Everytime you ignore her calls, believe me...she's hurting. She may never let on to it but it hurts. Be careful about how you treat her because once she's gone, she's gone and no matter how much your family and friends say they love you, it'll never be like your mother. Go ahead and talk to her. Yes she makes you angry but don't ever let it stop you from talking to her. That's mom. We have hard times even more as we age because we're going through things that we don't understand and can't figure out what's wrong.
yes u r rite. talk to her she is ur mother. tray explaining her your problem when you both are calm and in a good mood. loosing ppl is v easy but keeping thm is a real challenge. good luck
Is she a toxic mother? If so, stay away from her because ';in the eyes of a child the mother is god';, %26amp; you shouldn't get hurt no more. But if she's an okay mother, and you know that she loves you, and she's your friend: then swallow your pride, go over to her, and do not leave until you guys are friends again!
I didn't like a lot of things that my mom did when I was growing up, but the perspectives become quite different when you have children of your own. I have one child now. There's a saying that you forgive your parents of everything when you have children of your own. I can't tell you how true this really is.





Mothers are human beings. We go through the same emotional distress like everyone else. However, we're held to a higher standard because we're mothers. It's a lot of pressure to bear.





I've learned that nothing good comes from holding grudges against your parents, or anyone else for that matter. Relationships take effort on both parts. A relationship between a mother and daughter is a lasting one. You also have to step up to the plate to put forth that effort.
As far as I have observed, often mothers are under stress and reflect problems that they may have into other parts of their life. My best advice would be to answer her calls, and try to have a conversation with her that tells her about how you feel she is treating you. Then, try to make her tell you about what you don't know about that is happening in her life that is causing her to take out her anger upon you.