I need some advice about my boyfriend...?

My boyfreind and I have been dating for about a year. We moved in together about three months ago. He is elevin years older then me. I am 24. I love him, and love being with him. We get along great, untill this past week or two. We have never realy faught, we talk out our problems. These past two weeks he has been distant, and not wanting to spend time with me. Last Sunday I asked him if he wanted to be with me. He said that he didn't know. I asked him what he ment. He said that things had to change. I agreed. I promised him that I would get a job, and start being more serious about my future. This week I have kept my promise I have looked into a few jobs, and I found one that I liked. Tonight he broke a date with me to go out to dinner. Once again I asked him if he wanted to be with me. I gave him an easy out. I told him that I don't want to be strung along, and if he doesn't want to be with me that he sould just tell me. He said that he doesn't know. Should I just lay low and wate?I need some advice about my boyfriend...?
See dear, mind is very delicate.You have to handle the problem very earnestly.If he is not talking. if he is not dinning with you immediately you should not ask that whether he wants to be with you or not. Why are you going to such an extreme end.Don't split the relationship.If you ask such a question, invariably the answer is negative.Find out what is his problem and try to help him.Take the oath that you are going to be together forever in good times and also in bad times then handle every problem coming on in life.This is what is family. This is what is marriage.If you are not strongly tied up, any relation will not last for long.No two people can be together unless they compromise and adjust each other well.Love is different and lust is different.Understand it.Even if occasionally he has sex with some other female also it doesn't mean he is not loving you.he may still be loving you.I need some advice about my boyfriend...?
He's either GAY or he's CHEATING with another women. You don't know that he's not cheating on you. If he's been cheated on then it should be obvious that he would cheat.


If he doesn't ';know'; if he wants to be with you then you doesn't really love you. Unless he says that he needs you more then his own life then its probably over between you too.
they call it arm candy.


sounds like hes tired of arm candy.
So....you just now got a job. Were you in school or something? Were you just expecting him to pay all the bills on his own?


Sounds like he's bitter. When there's a big age difference, the older one always feels like their babysitting.


His distance could mean that he's having second thoughts about living together. Has he lived with someone before? It usually takes a period of adjustment.


When I first moved in with my husband things were great, then he also got distant and wanted to spend more time with his friends. He was frustrated because I had to move to a new town and get a new job and I knew nobody there, so I occupied all of his time, and he had to carry the household for a while.





Give your guy some space and get serious about your job. Hopefully things will warm up around there. If not, then it sounds like he has commitment issues, and he's bitten off more then he can chew.





Good Luck!

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