Need some advice about a guy i've known about 2 years?

okay we met at work. i always thought he was a really funny , nice guy but i was in a horrible situation with an ex that treated me really badly. when that ended we started talking more and more and i started to realize i liked him. whenevr we worked together we basically got nothing done. so a month or so goes by and he decides to put in his 2 weeks notice because heneeds more money to go back to school.. i was scared that that would kill the chance of anything but we exchanged phone numbers and sn's and actually started talking daily,sometimes til 4am. we got extremely close and hung out a few times but then lost touch for a month or 2 over the summer. i went to college in september about 2 hours away and then we started talking daily again and it got serious. i feel like ive known him forever and we hook up but we havent talked about making anything offical.. im afraid to bring it up and be out of line.. i just want to know if he really loves me or is in it strictly for the a**?Need some advice about a guy i've known about 2 years?
tell him how you feel and if it blows up in your face...its his loss..


go for it!! if you don't you may regret not speaking up.. for all you know he may be asking and wondering the same thing as you.


Life is too short so live every day like its your last! ASk himNeed some advice about a guy i've known about 2 years?
I would jsut ask him what his views are on relationships. tell him you are not insinuating anything, just get to know him conversation and ask him what he feels about relationships at this time in his life and ask him about his goals in life. just make it sound like you ae jsut asking to ask. Then he should give you a hint.
Dating a guy who has just broken up is troublesome. A guy takes time to recover from a relationship which is about half the length of the relationship. You have to find out if he is mentally and emotionally ready for committing in to a new relationship or not.





He would have loved you as a friend when he was in difficulty and now he likes you due to hook ups.





This is how you can check if he is realy into you or not. If he is then open the discussion, otherwise cut your losses and move on :





Check yourself, is he really what you are looking for in a relationship.





Does he have goals and is pursuing them in education and carreer





Does he treat you well, does he treat others well





What is his past dating history, has it been stable or serial





Is he a player or do his friends have stable relationships





Does he keep the things that you like in his apartment





Is he dating you exclusively