I need some advice about my ex boyfriend?

Last week I mailed him a letter re: us getting back together and he told me he was in a relationship which i semi believe but that is not the problem the problem is that my mom spoke with his dad 2 days ago b/c they are friends thats how we met and his grandmother was given 24-48 hrs to live and they will be leaving to go there in the next couple days. Now I feel like I should call him and say something re:this but I am so hurt and I dont know if I can handle it yet I thought about mailing a card but his grandma may not be dead yet and she might even live b/c they have been told this b4. I really care about him and part of me believes that he may not have a GF, which is a long story I think he told me that to see my rxn either way Im hurt Ive cried just about every day this week and if I call I dont know what to say, What should I do? and say to him or should say anything at all. Just b/c he an asshole I dont have to be and dont want to be. What should I do?I need some advice about my ex boyfriend?
Right now he may be going through a lot and that's why he said he have a girlfriend b/c he don't want to be hurt again. but if you believe that hes lying about this girl , ur probably right and if you really want to be with him you'll have to put aside what ever it is that your angry about b/c if you can get through to each other it just might be helpful to both of you I'm sure he needs a shoulder to cry on especially at a time like now just as much as you need one so i would get in contact with him, besides in not healthy cry everyday b/c soon its going to turn into stress. Good Luck!!I need some advice about my ex boyfriend?
sorry, i cant answer correctly without being a complete asshole.
Leave him alone. Keep your feelings to urself for now. Guys run when they know that girl is attached. YOu know the saying, '; men love bitches!'; Stop calling and he will seek you eventually.





As far as this grandma, you shouldn't contact him, let someone in his family call! Obviousely, he's annoyed and does not want a relationship with you at this time. But hang in there, when you've went on... and have forgotten about him.... He WILL CALL ^^*