Advice about my bf please!?

i wanna tell my bf that he upset me by talking about another girl, he said that he wasn't gonna do anything with her, but she wanted his number and if he wasn't with me he would have gone for it. he has been away even though we are on the phone ALL night. now he's back he wants to make love and stuff. but i feel like he was talking about being physical with this girl so i dont feel like being physical with him. i forgive him but i dont feel like having him touch me.Advice about my bf please!?
i don't blame you about you not wanting him to touch you. But after a while i think that you should move on after he realizes that what he had done was wrong.





Just ignore his bad behavior and


reward his good behavior i swear it will work.Advice about my bf please!?
Just tell him how you and if he really loves you he will understand and stop. But you cant get up set if he talks to her or she asks him for her number but if he always talks about her though then that's not fair on you is it.
i guess he likes dirty talking with some other girl-which makes him to get aroused and when he feels like doing IT, he seeks for you. which is so annoying of him to even think such like! if he loves you dearly, he will never treat you like some kinda sex doll. tell him cleary on how this makes you feel. he may say that your too complex or being insecure.Let him.Stand up for yourself. Your not cheap for this guy to treat you such way.If not this girl, he would find another one.So, get up and get it right!
that sounds like a jerk to me


so just break up with him


thats the best i could say


cause if he really did want to do it with her


what kind of guy is he?
Just calmly sit him down and tell him what you told us here.





If he laughs it off or sounds fishy, then say goodbye. You don't need someone who is a player.
get another boyfriend if you don't want to get your heart broken!!!!! My ex was just like that!!!!
When you give him a blojob bite his cok real hard then tell him...


that's how my girlfriend did...
wow thats gotta suck. Have you ever thought that maybe he wants to get you jealous thats why he told you? Maybe he wants to see your reaction. you know like how much you care and love him and all that jazz. If I were you I would tell him exactly how you feel without an arguement.In the first place if he really loves you he shouldn't be talking about another chica. If he said he wasn't gonna do anything with her that means he did give his phone # to her and maybe even more. It doesn't matter that you talk to him all night long.You didn't know what he was doing 24/7. I know you don't want to hear this but I doubt that you can trust him.
dont do whatever u dont want to do.
He's imature move on !
If he is telling you that he wants to be physical with her or even contemplating it I would let him go. Do not sleep with him if you do you might regret it.
make a decision to either be with him and trust him or just get over it! it is up to you! That is the best advice I can give you, I don't know you or him .. so whatever is in your heart!
his choices are bad, and if he loved only you he would not encourage this other girl. he is using you for what he can get, and hurting you at the same time. time to end it, cause once a cheater always a cheater. i learned that when i was very young and with my first love, he cheated on me, i forgave, we married and the cheating and heartache continued until i divorced him. best to get out now before you invest more time and love in him.he is way to immature to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.physical love is nothing but lust, not true love, true love means you can trust him, that his intentions are honorable, and he puts you first.i would say he disrespected you, and if you decide to keep him get use to this kind of treatment.
well first of all since hes your bf then you must feel comfortable with him right so it musnt be too hard to talk to him...just bring that girl up in your conversation and tell him what is on your mind..
first of take him by the hand,and keep eye contact.Whatever he says do not get upset.Cause men r so stupid i am one.i know on my part if i find a lady i would quite looking at butts,and flirting the love factor would take over.I feel he just wants to get laid.Should it not be u then it would be someone else.
Depends on how he is. I'd say be forward about it. But, if you think he would get mad quickly then take a more smoother approach. If he gets pissy say, '; Be in my shoes, how would you feel if I told you that IF you werent my boyfriend, I would've gone for him?'; Should work.
you need to lose the loser he is already cheating!
That was totally incoherrent. Maybe I need to be a teenage girl.


If you're going to explain it, make sure you're more clear than that.
tell him to stop if it's bothering you. if you don't want him to touch you tell him not to he'll understand if he loves you
Tell him you don't want a player for a boyfriend.





I don't think there is anything wrong with having friends -- just not cross the line friends -- meaning ones he cheats on you with.





Ask him what his intentions are with this other girl -- is there anything you need to be concerned about with this relationship. He needs to be straight with you.





Go with your gut instincts -- they are usually right.


But it is better to ask than to continue assuming.
If you need to know he is committed to an exclusive relationship BEFORE you feel comfortable having intimate relations, then be honest and stick to your boundaries. Trust your instincts, your conscience. If you don't feel comfortable, then do not compromise -- or you will surely regret it later. If he is serious about you he will drop that other girl and any thought of that. If he is not serious, you are right -- you do not need him touching you.





I'm glad you have good sense not to put yourself in a dangerous position to get hurt. Be up front and honest with him about your emotional needs. If he can meet them, then your relationship is right for you. If he cannot, that will tell you where you stand instead of playing games. Stay true to yourself no matter what. Do not compromise what you truly need and feel, as you have nothing to gain by selling yourself short and everything to lose.
Drop it. Like a hot potatoe..
If you feel like that around your boyfriend, then you probably feel betrayed by him. It sounds like he is trying to see how far you will go with him. If you don't have sex with him, then chances are he will do it with someone else behind your back. Don't let him pressure you into anything. Do what you feel, but if I were in your situation, I would probably dump him.