Can someone give me some advice? its about relanship am really sad?

well i have been w/my boyfriend for four years and his in wyoming in college im 18 he comes to vist on weekends but today as i was looking on the website my space i found him and he has so some girls in there and his been talking to and i did not know i've been crying for almost three hours i have not yet told him i know am waithing for his call but what should i do i love him so much and it hurts that his meeting this girls online and he did not tell me.... can someone give me some advice please. what should i say to him?


thank youCan someone give me some advice? its about relanship am really sad?
first, try growing up





second, realize that acting like talking to someone on myspace is cheating is more likely to destroy your relationship than anything else you could possibly do or say--let the guy make some friends, college is tough without any friends





third, trust him





fourth, if you don't trust him you shouldn't be going out with him in the first placeCan someone give me some advice? its about relanship am really sad?
HONESTLY IF HE WAS JUST TALKING ONLINE DON'T ARGUE OVER IT IF HE WAS TAKING IT TOO FAR LIKE CYBERING WITH THESE GIRLS THEN I WOULD SAY SOMETHING BUT DON'T BE OFFENSIVE JUST BE LIKE ';HEY I SAW YOU ON MYSPACE. I DIDN'T KNOW YOU HAD SO MANY FRIENDS ONLINE.'; AND SEE WHEN HE SAYS JUST GO FROM THERE I KNOW IT FEELS LIKE HE CHEATED ON YOU BUT REMEMBER IT IS STILL JUST TALKING


GOOD LUCK
You should ask him who the girls was he was talking to and if he wants to be with one of them. If he really cares about you and loves you he will tell you the truth. you are still young, if he cheats once he will continue to do it. But trust is a big issue in every relationship.
it's not a big deal if he just talks to girls. you are overreacting.
I feel for your tears and I hope this little reply cheers you up in the sense that I understand your crying. Good luck and, again, I understand your tears. I believe many other people can share these sad hours with you. I hope you feel better shortly. With love.