Monday, July 26, 2010

I need some advice about a boy situation..asap!?

This guy I liked and that I thought liked me said he would consider dating me and 3 weeks of non stop talking and a few hangouts he just stopped talking to me and then told he lied just so he could hook up. I really like him and I dont know how to get over him because this has never happened to me before. What should I do? Help :(I need some advice about a boy situation..asap!?
Move on. He is not worth it because he used you and manipulated your feelings into liking him.





You are a good person. You don't deserve someone who does see it fit to manipulate girls. That won't help you out in anyway possible. There are plenty of other guys who would treat you right and be kind to you.





Live your life. Remember there are other fish in the sea. I know you liked him but he didn't really like you. You have to accept it. Just remember that you have a lot of good things going for you.I need some advice about a boy situation..asap!?
Say this with me.





Screw him.





Say it again.





He obviously does not value you, and you deserve way better than this schmuck. Matter of fact, you should be pretty pissed off right now being used like that, not pining for the man ya know?





Listen, this is coming from a guy. There are those who are just hollow people. Not shallow, because that implies there is actually something inside. Its guys like that who give the rest of us decent men out here a bad name. Rest knowing that sooner or later, they will get theirs because they piss us off as much as they hurt you. You should think more of yourself than to settle for someone who has no substance at all. We ARE out there.





Don't give this boy a second thought. If you were that trivial to him, he doesn't even deserve your mental time and energy. Instead, be a little wiser to the fact that these people are out there, and set your sites higher. Be thankful it happened as soon as it did, because you got to see just what kind of a person they were. Just not worth the time getting hung up on meaningless fluff like him.
He sounds like a major tool, that is pretty low of him to manipulate you so that he could get some action, but to then tell you that he manipulated you so that he could get some action, wow that's awful. Just forget about him, he is an *** and will end up with nobody. Then he will regret the way he lived his life.





Move on past him, there are plenty of decent guys who won't use you like that. Learn from this that you can't trust everyone, but don't be suspicious of every guy you meet. I hope I helped!
ah!


that same thing happend to me!


the boy i was in love with only wanted


to use me for a few seconds making out.


haha! i got over him by telling him i didn't


think you were liike this you dissapoint me.


and never talk to him again and if he talks to you


of course talk to him back and if he really wants you


make him realize he messed up!!!!!! and from there its your


choice.





how to get him out of your head.


think about him in the most hateful way.


but not like a sad hate get me?


well... yea um forget about him


have fun find another guy that you like


or just use someone that you like to flirt with.


lol.


that prolly helpd if not sorry. i tried. :)
You have to learn that thats how ALL GUYS ARE. You will be surprised the way guys are. I know bc my brother talks with me about it but god damn guys are pervs. They always want sex, sex and more sex. But the good guys want a relationship so thats why you hold out. Its relationship THEN sex if not marriage. Sorry that was a dumb thing to do.
He probably is interested in another person. Move on, he already lied to hook up. To get over him...that could be tough if you let it. Just time and avoid thinking about it. Try hanging with friends or making new ones. That's what I did and I got over it fairly quickly.
Don't just give up ask him out


If he says no...he is a douchbag and needs to be raped by a pack of rabid purple unicorns...in that case im sorry and there is **** load of great guys out there...me being one


i don't see how guys can be so messed up to just use girls i hate that...
There's not much you can do but move on.


And there's really no easy way to do that.


Same thing has happenedd to me with a chick.


Sorry, that's all I can really say.





Well if it makes you feel better that guy was a real dick...
listen just get over it you have to it will just tear you and knock you down u have to be strong you have to be better than him
Sorry, he's just not that into you and on top of that he's a shameless jerk. It sucks but keep in mind that there's a lot more fish in the sea...
Forget the dude. Don't waste your time on him. You deserve better than that guy. Go on a night out with your friends and meet some nice boys.
Talk to him tell him how u really feel about him and honestly if a guy gets scared about a relationship or dnt understand what hes feeling he may lie and back away but everything will be fine..
Lying and ingoring you after 3 weeks sounds like a real loser! Sounds like your trying to get over some dog faced bum. It's not that hard if you look at him for what he is...
theres something called self respect.dont go for him let him come to you..if not then there are many more fishes in the pond=)
yeah, just learn from the experience and grow stronger and wiser from it.
Tell him to come over to my place....I`d like to crack his skull for you.
he just wanted sex..I have done that little number before..
forget d guy...he is not 4 u...

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