I need real advice about sex cause i'm confused...?

About a couple hours ago, my girlfriend wants a sleep-over at my house (i think that she is just saying that cause she has a big crush on me. She went to my house for my 17th birthday party that was why she came to visit me) then after everyone left she asked me to have sex with her in my bedroom or at her house then i said can i please think about it, then she said ok she will give me 24 hrs to think about it. Now i'm just asking for best confident advice from everyone!





Please NO OFFENSE!!


thanks for your reply.I need real advice about sex cause i'm confused...?
Ok, What's the rush???? That's one of those things in life you can't be forced into. This is different, usually it's the guy pressuring the girl. You most certainly don't have to decide in 24 hrs. She sounds like she might be a little experienced at this. Are you sure you love her? This is suppose to be because you feel deeply for the person. It's not to be taken lightly! I think a lot of kids today don't think, that's how STD's are spread so rapidly, not to mention pregnancy, some girls actually trap guys just to have a hold on them, that's to bad for BABY!!!!! %26amp; GUY..... I'm glad to know you at least thought first, you are smarter about sex than 75%!!!!!!I need real advice about sex cause i'm confused...?
The only advice you need on this situation you already know. You are the only one who really knows if you are ready for this or not. Sex is not something to be rushed and remember that this is completely your decision. No one should ever pressure you into this and a time limit is definitely lame.
r u sure your ready and is she the one you want maybe you should think about how many other boys she has hooked up with has she been test if not r u sure you won't catch anything and I'm not sure they will sell condoms to you alot of places id which is stupid if you ask me but if you can buy them Trojan her pleasure are nice condoms to start with. but make sure this is what u want before you do it and she should respect the fact that you want to think about it no time limits involved because this is your life your about to change not hers.
If your not ready you're not ready. Simple simon and the ultimatum she's giving you would be enough to convince me I'm not going there. I don't like ultimatums it's no different then if roles were reversed and you gave her 24 hours to decide. If you're not ready your not ready and it's better to take the pass then regret the mistake. Don't do it if your not confident tell you what the whole deal will suck if you're not ready. We'll learn right away about premature ejaculation, I'm not saying stay a virgin I'm saying choose a woman you're ready for. All she she's you as is an appitizer hold out for main course.
sometimes it's best to wait until you know that person is the right one. like me im taking my sweet slow time. don't let no one pressure you into anything
no one can tell u what to do..


Do you want to do it??


Because u dont seem so sure about it, if u doubt it dont do it then
heh.. i guess its all up to you.


I was placed in almost the same situation.


well, if you think your ready then go ahead.


ur 1st time will be remembered. make it a good one ;)
if you are not ready to have sex then you just need to tell her this if she is a really good girl friend she will under stand but if she gets mad and upset then while i think it would be better for u to move on sex is not the only thing about being with a person best of luck
If she gives it up this easy to you, she's giving it up to everyone else too. I'd pass and wait for someone a little less eager to have sex. You don't want to end up with some disease because this girl has slept with half the school already.
is she your girlfriend or not? i think you are making this up
Don't do it, you may regret it later. Even ';safe'; sex can be like playing russian roulette with your life. Are you ready to be a father? Do you want to take the chance that you'll get a disease?





Condoms have an annual contraceptive failure rate of 18.4 percent for girls under age 18





Venereal diseases frequently spread through “skin to skin” contact even when condoms are used. This can happen because the bacterial or viral germs that cause many serious STDs (such as human papilloma virus, chlamydia, herpes and syphilis) do not infect just one place on your body. They may infect anywhere in the male or female genital areas. So even if the virus or bacteria doesn’t get through the condom itself, you can still get a disease, because condoms don’t cover all areas necessary to prevent infection during sexual contact.





Latex condoms have tiny intrinsic holes called “voids.” The AIDS virus is 50 times smaller than these tiny holes which makes it easy for the virus to pass through them, (1) about as easy as a dime passing through a basketball hoop.
Hey if your not ready to have sex dont.Wow thumbs up to you bud for being a true man and not like most men who would sleep with her in a second.Just say your not like most men and when the time is right you will let her know
Go buy some condoms.
hey lemme tell u boy, say NO. if u love her doesn't mean u'll have sex. if u'll deny 2day, 2morrow u'll feel gud 4 urself, ur wife n ur family. be different. every one is rushing 2day. y shud u b like them.


it's gud tht ur conscience is still telling u 2 wait. it's not abt STDs that u shud wear a condom, but it's abt ur moral self tht u must NOT even go for sex.


i've read abt many guys who spoil their teen yrs by gettin into sex but feel ashamed n regret later.


always remember there is a time for everything.


as a matured man u'll thank god surely if u take the right decision at this time.


i kno many people will encourage u to try. but sometimes MAJORITY MEANS ALL THE FOOLS ON ONE SIDE. it's true in this case.


whatever gals mite say, somewhere in the corner of their hearts they admire respectful guys. respect urs and ur gf's bodies. premarital sex is no answer to love or attraction
Don't listen to them. How strongly do you feel about keeping your virginity? If it's something you really want to do, then you need to respect your own wishes. For whatever reason, religion, or simply to keep it, and not risk disease or parenthood.





If you are NOT serious about keeping your virginity, the time right now, is (looking at my watch) GO TIME! You will find a way to get protection, and you have 24 hours to do it. If you're in the states, all you need to do is walk into any drugstore / convenience store / supermarket and just buy them. Do you need to borrow money? I'll attach a lincoln to an email, and send it to you. There is no minimum age to buy protection. what's the problem? Wait! wait, you didn't tell us her age. She'd better be YOUR age, or you're gonna see me on your doorstep. And you don't want to see me on your doorstep. EVER!
if you want to do it...
Well how about a compromise? There is lots of great stuff you can do together without actually doing the deed... condoms not withstanding. Just be smart, explore your mutual pleasure centers, and you can still look forward to the day when you are comfortable enough with one another to go all the way. Problem solved. You can get condoms and other fun stuff in the bathrooms of any convenience store where I live for $1 each.
If you're attracted to her and want to have sex, go ahead. However, since you said you wanted to think about it, it sounds like you don't. Don't feel pressured or pushed into this; do what feels right for you to do.
Wait until your married, I think she is pressuring you. Also, you don't know who she's may have been with, so the possiablities of std's are likely. Make sure your not the only guy she's asked, and ask her if she's been with anyone. And, besides that, there's no rush, so I'd have to say, don't do it. Don't give into peer pressure.
ok all i can say if its your first time jack off befor you do it and make sure to use your tounge remember the lil man in the boat
I really suggest waiting. Condoms don't always work. If she is serious, then tell her you want to too, but first she needs to get on birth control and you need to get condoms. When she does get it, have her flash you the package. Having sex is an adult responsibility and having BC and a condom going would decrease you chances alot for pregnancy. For condoms, just walk into a store and buy them. If you are too enbarrassed to do that, maybe you aren't really ready for sex yet. But please, take care of yourself. The first time can be wonderful, but you don't want to end up in the delivery room an 9 months watching her push out your first-born child.


I'm not gonna give you the whole wait for marriage spill because I had sex at 17 too. We got pregnant the first time, even with a condom. So be careful. And know that anytime you have sex, you can make a baby. Be careful!
Say no. You are still young. Go back to school.
Don't do it! I mean you could mess up your life forever. There's STDs, a possibility of a baby ,and a forced marriage if a baby is born. Just wait till your married. It is really not worth it.
if you have to come on here and ask then your not ready just wait untill you are ready you will no when your ready
do you even need to think twice? do it you crazy fool!!!
go ahead
If you feel your not ready, then don't do it. Seems like something's going on if she's pressuring you for it.
This is your big chance, pal!! Wear a condom!
Hey man, it's totally up to you. Are you ready to have loud, crying, pooping, needy, and expensive babies 24 hours a day for most of your life? And if it's just a crush, it's not even worth it. Tell your girl to get checked first. She sounds too horny. You'll find a smokin' hott, brilliant lady who finds abstenence sexy and would actually love you for that, then you'll know for sure that you wanna get it on.
okay so if you want to do it thandoit but pls dont if you dont care about her and know all the ppl she has slept with take into cosideration how long u2 hav been 2gether and be sage fare warning id u do trjrcy the offer she might get a littlew testy
sounds like you're gay--but if you'rfe not and you go thru with it make sure you use protection--it would be terrible if you ended up with an unwanted pregnancy.