I could really use some advice about this guy..?

this is my first time asking a question so i might be doing it wrong but anywase.. i met this guy at my church like, 3 or 4 years ago that im pretty sire i fell in love with and a year or 2 later he stopped going there for a while and all of a sudden he's back and all my feelings are back also but i think one of my friends like him and i dont know what to do. i cant just go up to him and tell him..I could really use some advice about this guy..?
you need to wear a low cut top,,,, and go up to say hi,,,, hey Im not saying to act innapropriate, but you need to get his attention,,,





smile at him, and touch his hand or leg, guys are suckers for girls that LUAGH at their JOKES!!





that one is the key,,,





he will ask you out 4 SURE if your not a total -0- so its up to you to get your game tight!!





gl


bI could really use some advice about this guy..?
This is hard if your friend likes him too. (Talking from experience. My best friend and I both liked the same guy.) You should go up and talk to him. Strike a convo the next time you see him. After that accounter than you see him, ask him to see a movie or something. The third time you see him if you still have the feelings tell him. Don't rush into it, but you should go for it and see. Your friend will understand. (My best friend and I both dated the same guy and we are closer friends now when we ever were.) Your friend if she likes him will understand. If its love don't stop for your friend. Let the guy make his own chooses. If you do not go for it now, you might regret it later.
You didn't say how old you are or how old he is but I would say it would be fine to learn a little more about him - in fact probably wise to do so. You are feeling attracted but that is without really knowing him, his personality - right? If you can get to know if he does any volunteer work with your church or you could ask someone to invite him to work at a project you will also be working at - it will give you a chance to know if your feelings are based on any reality or just a physical attraction.
well just wirte him a letter saying that youh like him and he'll prbablly just write back or tell youh bac


and then once youh know what HE feelz about YOU


you should ask knowing wht he feelz about you


or somehow just find your courage to tell him and yeaaa


i dont know if youh know him well but if youh dont i think you guyz should get to know each other and i know that he went to your church for 4 or 3 years but who knowz maybe itz like you just see him and know his name and all


but if you do know him jsut tell him or go ahead and write a letter...


it also maybe a one-sided love
Ok. Not to get you down or anything. But, I'm pretty sure that that isn't love. Because if it was. You would feel is deep down inside and you would be positive you were in love! You would know quite a bit about him. You would talk to him. And you probably just wouldn't lose the feelings that you once had for him just because he moves away! But...I'm not really one to tell you you are in love. I think that you should go up to him and tell him. If you have talked to him before. You don't just do it though if you don't know him well. That would just be down right creepy! lol But, just get to know him (if you don't). And about the whole friend situation I'm thinking that you should probably talk to her about it. If she's your friend she should understand that you've liked him for awhile! Hope that helps! Pick me for best answer! Thanx! =))
So why not get to know him for who he is, become friends and see if it can develop into something more. If it is true love it will flourish, if it isn't then you will make an excellent lifelong friend. Either way you can't go wrong. = )
Walk up to him, nudge him, he looks at you, you flash a pretty smile, wave your hair, and say (like your important and SO sorry!) ';O my gosh, (grab his shoulders friend like) I am so sorry, (state his name)! Um, wanna sit together for the sermon?
if u haven't talked with this guy yet get going.


Just be yourself. Just go up to him and say high and that


U are glad he is back going to church. An as u start to sit down next to him ask what he has been up to.


Hope this helps


Ben
You should talk to him. It takes guts, but if you don't you may be sitting back and watching him have a relationship with your frined if she talks to him before you do.
talk to your friend about this hunn. and start talking to him, it shouldnt be so hard u know? just start sittin next to him, or get him to notice you. im sure it wont be a problem ;)
before u act on ur feelings u need 2 talk 2 ur friend 2 c if she does like him n just start talkin 2 him again u never no wat could happen but make sure u dont flirt w/ ur friend there cause that means ur just a b**** n thats not cool
tell your friend, spill everything to her and if she cant accept that fact then let it go...stay close to the guy, but not too close.