Monday, July 26, 2010

I really need advice about a girl...?

I spent the summer in another city and I met this great girl at work. We talked all the time and we went out a couple times..I don't think they were dates..but it was just the two of us. She would always text me and stuff and she basically told me that I have to come back.





I'm not going to see her for ages. Now our messaging is slowing down. Things were just getting so good and I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to send her too many messages but I dont want to drift apart. I know she likes me. Or did last week when I was around. What should I do? I am going to see her again..its just going to be a while.I really need advice about a girl...?
What's holding you back from sending her messages? If she likes you, the more she'll want to know that she's on your mind so let her know that if you don't want to lose her. Let her know how much she means to you. Communicate constantly so that the relationship can grow despite the distance.I really need advice about a girl...?
omg your story reminds me of mine. if i were u, i would keep messageing her, it will probably make her feel more special. This sorta happened to me, and the guy stopped sending messages...now i feel all confused... do the right thing and keep on talking..take it from a girl in a similar situation....


hope all turns out well between the two of u!!!!
Why don't you try telling her this.. At least give her an option of telling you if she likes you enough to continue this...
if u like her, go for it! long distance relationships ar so romatic + it really shows u care enough to love her from affar. ooo sexy! ha ha jk


go for it dude!
in this situation communication is a must. keep in touch with her as much as you can, and let her know you like her.....and that you are missing her... keep the interest there...........
State your intentions, but give her the freedom.





With every relationship, you need to make sure that you are giving them full freedom of choice. You are going to have to keep the interest and the sparks alive without letting the relationship dull down. Let her know that she is free to date others without ever saying those words.





But for now... Let her know that you are interested, but don't sound obsessed. Make sure that she feels special when she talks to you, but don't drag conversations on too long on the phone because they will bring the relationship down. Learn how to hang up at various high points in your conversations so that she wants to talk to you again.
keep the messaging going but not too many. call her like once every 2 weeks or so to see how she is. everything will work out eventually just keep her in ur mind.
I would say keep the lines of communication open, especially if you think there could be more to this relationship.Text message, call, even e-mail her, but don't be too pushy about it, like Megan said call her maybe every two weeks and message her once a week (of course if she answers back then it can keep going). And make sure you go back to visit her, maybe even invite her to were you live. But again keep the lines of communication open
go visit her sometime soon, and try messaging a little more. talk on the phone a lot.
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